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Guys, do you go soft right after you finish or does it take a minute?

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  • Ahhh but, if you switch up the stimulation right, there really doesn't have to be a refractory period at all. I'd say a solid majority of boys have the potential to just keep right on going, **IF** the girl actually has the correct #girlgame for this situation.

    In other words, there's a "correct" type of stimulation that will reduce most boys' refractory period to pretty much zero.

    • Yeah, don't have that.

    • Well, ok, I’ll make my best attempt to describe the mechanics here. The best description I can think of is a little ironic, because I’ve never actually done a FMF threesome, but, mechanically, the best way I can think to describe it involves two women. Imagine a guy’s just finished fucking, and he’s still inside the woman he finished with… and she’s squeezing him, like, doing Kegel exercises. THAT is the right amount of stimulation for the actual cock. Much less than just about anything else, in other words. (Like, what, 1/10 of fucking, and 1/100 of a hj? Lol.) So, where should the bulk of the stimulation happen? Well, imagine there’s a second girl, with her hand or mouth under the guy’s perineum (“taint”), and/or the rear part of his scrotum. (If the boy is “screwing the mattress”, then, this is also the same kind of stimulation, too… although that’s considerably less sexy, lol.) If both of these things are happening at the same time — light

    • squeezing (NOT, I repeat **NOT**, back-and-forth movement) on the dick itself, and pretty heavy action on the taint part — then the boy shouldn’t need a reprieve.

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  • The one I am with now loves hugging, and holding tight, when I 'finish', inside her. She loves to cuddle, and hold, and kiss, and be close for a while. Usually it is quite a while, and I don't even notice sometimes, when it relaxes, and naturally 'retracts'.
    She's using birth control, but I'm pretty sure, one of these times. . .
    She ALWAYS washes the sheets the next day. . .

  • The refractory period varies from man to man. It usually takes some minutes to have it really flacid and some more minutes to recover and be ready to shot again. But it depends upon the stimuli: this can shorten the period significatively.

    • Interesting. Thanks.

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  • Takes some time. Im always ready for round 2. lmao.

    • Thank you for the upvote.

    • Welcome

  • depends on how horny... but if it doesn't... hell yea second round... third round...4th...5th... until it goes down lol... :)

    • You're a nympho lol

    • most people call it "freak"... but hey, i'll settle for nympho too lol

    • Mhm.

  • It takes a couple minutes for it to go soft again.

  • I don't think I ever go soft, I have an unusually high level or Nitrous oxide in my blood. I think it's natural priapism. However normal dudes usually go soft right after from what I've know them to say.

  • Did you forget already? lol

  • The blood has to dissipate, it is a gradual process, could take a few minutes

  • It takes a minute 😎

    • Oh I already know thattt 😊

    • ;) ;)

  • It usually takes me two minutes and thirty seconds for some reason. Give or take.

    • Lmaoooo

  • It takes a few minutes.

  • Usually within a min or two. There has been the odd occasion where I've stayed hard which is amazing to me. Don't know why or what's different? lol Doesn't happen often though.

  • It takes a minute or so. Right after I cum I can keep thrusting for a little while. But the peak is over!

    • Gotcha.

  • It takes a minute, it's actually fun to keep going until it hurts sometimes 😄.

    • Really? That's odd lol

    • It's a glorious minute of extra sensitivity, can't see a guy not liking that.

  • Usually goes soft right after I finish or with a minute

  • Takes time to go flaccid again, pretty sure its well over a minute. OP, you need to get laid.

    • Nah, I'm good.

  • It depends upon the age of the male.
    A young male (teenager and 20-something) can usually cum, pause for half a minute or so, maintain an erection and then resume pumping.
    An old man such as myself, it could be compared with reloading a muzzle loader. It takes a while and the result is not guaranteed.

  • Usually it takes a minute or more after ejaculation for the blood to stop flowing through the phallus enough to soften. Depending on the state of arousal and strength of the orgasm it can take 1-4 minutes, even as little as 30 seconds. Mine usually are between 2-4 minutes

  • It takes a couple minutes for the blood flow to go down

  • I sometimes remain hard for round two, other times it goes slow right after.

  • Either right away or takes awhile it depends. I came one time and just kept going and got hard and kept going till I came a second time. Depends how turned on I am and if they are tight or if they are moaning or not.

  • Since i am a grower, it goes soft maybe after a minute

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