Girls do you expect guys to make the move on the first date?

[Anonymous]

Even if you Don't let them. Do you expect them to make some kind of move. And if they don't make the move do you get frustrated and move on

[ShaunaM95]

I would like them to make the first move on a date purely because I'd be far too timid to do it myself lol. But there are girls out there who are confident enough to make the first move.

[little_bird1]

No moves on the first date is okay, but if he still doesn't make a move after 2, 3, 4 dates then I'm out. I'm actually in this situation right now.

[Asker]

You're probably gonna have to make the first move. He doesn't want you to think he's just after sex. He's trying to be too good of a guy

[little_bird1]

I did. He said "not yet" lol.

[Asker]

Wtf well tell him to man or else I'm gonna have to satisfy your needs lol just messin but foreal that dudes fuckin up

[Asker]

*tell him to man up

[e900325151]

Yes usually girls believe the guy should make the first move. But times have changed

[Asker]

I mean like on the first date. And do you move on if the guy doesn't make the move or do you attempt to make the move. Becuase some guys are too nice and don't want to make them move until they know the girl is ready

[e900325151]

If you don't make a move then you will never know. If you do nothing then nothing may happen. You got nothing to lose but maybe more to gain

[Asker]

So you think it's better for the guy to take the risk and make the move. Even if it's on the first date?

[e900325151]

I'm saying feel it out. See how she is and then go for it. You don't know what she's thinking and I don't know who your dating. I don't know her personality and what she would do. I would just go for it

[Asker]

Im asking for your personal opinion. Do you get frustrated if the guy takes to long to make the first move?

[e900325151]

Yes because I'm not that person to make the first move. While some girls are

[thewanderingme]

no. too soon.

[Asker]

Yes it's too soon. But do you expect guys to at least try something on the first date? And what if the they don't make the first move for a long time? Do you get frustrated and move on?

[thewanderingme]

I said no.

[thewanderingme]

I expect him to hug me. nothing more.

[Asker]

I'm not sure you're understanding what I'm saying.

[thewanderingme]

wtf, are you illiterate? I don't want him to try, or pretend to be trying, for anything more than a hug.

[Asker]

What do you do if a guy tried kissing you on the first 3 dates

[Asker]

And if he does nothing. Not even hug you. Do you get frustrated an dmove on?