Is good dancing sexually attractive to you?

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Sovereignty Xper 6
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There is a reason sex and romanticism are often associated with music and dance...

However that video is not a good demonstration of what I might consider sexy. The chaotic flailing and twerking of limbs doesn't appeal to my senses... although there are some more refined styles of freestyle dance I do find sexy.

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- chintita
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  like belly dancing/ballet? i think powerful dances are sexier whereas the softer ones are more sensual.
- HaveNoName
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  Belly dance... Oooooohhhhh Mama !!! But the girl has to have a hot Belly too. Looks repulsive on a 30 inch waistline. Or a belly button the size created by an asteroid (only if seen from closer distance).
- HaveNoName
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  Ballet.. Not at all. Not my type.
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- chintita
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  @HaveNoName lmaoo, such imagery
Polocrew Guru
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If chick doing it is hot lol
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Imafreespirit Guru
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oh hell yeah! i love to dance with someone that knows what he's doing lol like its so good omg dancing is life, tho i'm not that much into that style ^ when it comes to dancing with a partner, i prefer latin music
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Curiousness23 Xper 6
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of course @james_mark well in the video i'm more concentrated on the skills but in general when someone is really good at something it seems sexy to me, talented and smart people are sexy in a way ♥
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- james_mark
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  Aww <3 thanks haha~!!
- Curiousness23
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  @james_mark welcome ♥
spuitkaas Guru
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I love it when a guy can dance. Or at least he doesn't have to be good at it but dares to dance. I don't like it when guys just sort of stand at the side with a party, because they're too afraid.
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kittykatbrat Yoda
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Forever subjective to the person dancing.
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redeyemindtricks Influencer
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I didn't marry a dancer for no reason...
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- chintita
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  haha :D i also find it incredibly sexy
- redeyemindtricks
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  I mean, there's just *something* about when a boy can move in a way that's... swift, graceful, and completely effortless. Also, in terms of dancing with a partner -- I am a total spaz with no grace at all. But, when I first took ballroom lessons with my man (mostly tango, some others), I just felt... smooth. A special kind of sexy and confident. I've always been pretty confident, but, this was new and different. It was as though he was radiating that physical confidence through his hands and arms, into me -- as though his body was *directly* telling mine how to move, beyond the usual leader/follower dynamic of ballroom dance. I mean, he's the same way as a lover. The way he's controlled my entire body since day one is exhilarating -- but it's also scary as hell. I can't imagine what it's like for the girls who've had him and then ended up with someone else. Bet they close their eyes a lot in bed...
- chintita
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  that sounds absolutely enticing :D with the way you describe your husband, i feel bad for every other girl who couldn't keep him lmao
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- redeyemindtricks
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  I mean, I'm kind of half-joking when I say that. For me, especially after all these years, trying to live without him would be worse than death, literally. But, the other women he's had, he's left 'em better than he found 'em.
  For one... particularly interesting example of that, read the conversation in the BOYS' MHO opinion here:
  www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1883919-girls-would-you-do-a-mmf-threesome-guys-would-you-be-down-for-that
  
  So... well, um, yeah. Don't know who I was in a previous life, but, she was a champion. lol
- chintita
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  his dick game is THAT good that "he just fucked the desire to live right back into her sad little body" ? sex and emotions do have a connection despite whatever anyone says, that was touching to read :)
- redeyemindtricks
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  Well, it's more than just "dick game", but obviously you understand that much already. I mean, yeah, he's a whole 'nother level. It's like this: When I've talked to a lot of girlfriends (who aren't as sexually open as me) about things like one-night stands, the one thing they've had in common was this element of... dissociation from the "normal" world. As though they were living another life altogether, when they had their little adventures. Makes sense, I guess -- it's the same reason lots of women have sexual dalliances on vacation, for instance (even though that's when it's probably most dangerous, lol). And in places where the ambience/environment is other-worldly or different enough, with music or drugs or whatever else. He has this way of... making the whole rest of the world go away, and making a whole other little world just for the two of us. It's literally like no one else is there, a lot of the time, even when we are in the middle of a
- redeyemindtricks
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  huge crowd that's pressing up against us. So, I have no doubt that that's part of what that girl (and many others) felt, too. I mean, it's weird to think about the whole thing from the perspective of her current husband, but, then again, there's also the fact that she wouldn't be there in the first place if it weren't for this "situation". So... yeah. Hehe. "Therapy". I mean, he also saved MY life, in a different kind of way. I wasn't going to jump off of any balconies, but, I have a very intense sexuality, and, if I hadn't met a man like mine, a lot of my tendencies easily could have led me to destroy my own life in search of sexual fulfillment.
- chintita
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  so you think that he's the one who creates the whole other world just for the two of you rather than you two making it for each other? do you know that his previous affairs felt the same way as you or is that an assumption? he obviously found you to be 'the one' whereas the exes are... well, exes. so how is his perspective on his effect on women.
- redeyemindtricks
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  oh, nah, it's definitely mutual. I mean, this is a man who can effortlessly have any woman he wants... and he's with me, and he's still with me after all these years. So, something's working. I'm just talking from my own point of view, because... well, I like to talk from my own point of view. (Me me me me me!) And the feelings are so overwhelming that it's hard not to, tbh. I think I understand him intuitively, in a way that no one else really has. You read that other thread, about when he first said he loved me (right?) -- that kind of thing, I just sort of "get" him. He's never been with anyone where he's been able to let his guard down. I've also succeeded in my goal of getting him to think of marriage and commitment as the hottest, sexiest, dirtiest things in the world. I win at life. <3

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FlutteringFeelings Yoda
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Yesssssss ! Very important.
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JuicyBrain Yoda
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Hell yeah !
I couldn't dance to save my life, but I do find a woman dancing very enticing. Every time I watch Shakira, I get weak in the knees. While the girls really dance really well, I do not find it super sexy. Some dances are much sexier than that. I would say pole dancing is probably one of the sexiest for obvious reasons (even clothed)
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- chintita
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  shakira is soo sexy with her belly dancing. pole dancing is also really hot, there's just something sexy and powerful about a person who can control their body that well
- JuicyBrain
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  I meant the girls in the video dance really well.
- JuicyBrain
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  Yes ! I have always wondered why, but it does work !
Spiorad_Aisce Guru
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I think I would notice more how talented she was rather than an actual turn on.
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DuhDarling Xper 5
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No. No one really cares about dancing lmao
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- chintita
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  other people seem to disagree :)
- DuhDarling
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  as in I'm pretty sure it doesn't turn many on unless it was a lap dance lmfao
CocoRachelle Guru
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A bit yes. I am not a great dancer, but watching someone show off some cool skills gets me pumped sometimes.
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OmaiBakaDayo Xper 4
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is that supposed to be good dancing? because it looks retarded as fuck. twerking is sexually attractive to me. when the chick is hot. but pretty much only because its basically fucking an invisible dick.
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- chintita
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  yeah its good dancing, are ya blind?
- OmaiBakaDayo
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  nope. really not blind when people are having seizures.
- chintita
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  lol :D can you give me an example of what is good dancing to you?
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- OmaiBakaDayo
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  trust me. just turn the horrible excuse for rap off and watch them flop around like fish on land. and there is no such thing as good dancing. only slightly less awkward dancing. but ok. some cybergoth girls look pretty hot wen dancing. its all basically just 'look at my body' anyway. dancing is basically you know how peacocks spread their feathers? yeah. like that. so of course it will be sexually attractive.
- chintita
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  lmao "just turn the horrible excuse for rap off and watch them flop around like fish on land." that's the point of dance, it's meant to accentuate music, that's why all the moves complement the dance. you are pessimistic af, poor guy...
Cosytoasty Guru
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Yeah it can be

This kid aced it!
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=iyLdoQGBchQ
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- chintita
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  ... that's the tune from j lo's on the floor. did she take it from this song?
- Cosytoasty
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  Yep a lot of 80's stuff is sampled in modern music.
- chintita
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  i had no idea though, i knew about pia mia's do it again being sampled after j boog but never heard one drop about this
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- Cosytoasty
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  Lol, when i hear a song with a really catchy hook these days i automatically go looking for something before 2000. They pay the original record labels quietly behind closed doors so they don't have to give credit.
- chintita
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  good thinking, i'm going to do the same :D now that i'm wiser
CHARismatic110 Editor
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Yesssss!!! I love a guy that can dance.
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Queen_KZ Xper 5
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Absolutely
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Jager66 Guru
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You mean like this guy? Yeah it can be..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MbiOazijZVQ
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- chintita
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  hot!!
- ClumsyAngel
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  Watch this one too!
  
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pqQJOo6rjk
- chintita
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  @ClumsyAngel his dance style is funny and amazingly controlled :D
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- ClumsyAngel
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  I remember one of the comments saying "I wish I could dance like him!" And a reply saying "His dance skills are amazing but I don't want to kick half of the people off the dancefloor"
archiz Guru
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most def :P
how do you think I hook them up? :P
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tyber1 Yoda
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Some types of dances, if the person has a nice body
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AhGojira Yoda
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Sometimes, but most of the time no. Generally girls that like to go dancing/clubing are not attractive... Strippers aren't attractive. Some classy salsa and merengue dancers moving in their littler dress are hot. Dancing in private can be seductive... Popping and locking, bgirls, twerking, etc. are unattractive. Some of it is interesting to watch and I appreciate the talent, because I use to bboy but it's sexual a turn off.
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ConsultantIsBack Editor
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YES!!! YES!!! AHHHH
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- chintita
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  lmao strong reaction :D
- ConsultantIsBack
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  Lol seriously omg
- chintita
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  what caused it?
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- ConsultantIsBack
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  Sensual dancing is like the hottest thing everrr 😍 10/10 foreplay for me
genericname85 Master
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Some movements are pretty suggestive. That's sexy not there fact that she can dance.
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Kuraj Yoda
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"Good dancing"
Posts video of a synchronized seizure attack.
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- chintita
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  #boring it's on beat and sexy to look at.
Becky01 Yoda
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it can be a huge turn on
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ClumsyAngel Explorer
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It always has been :)
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Yanoa_Yanza Guru
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It's an instant turn on for me. If you can dance, I'll look at you like you're a piece of art
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astrOnaut01 Xper 7
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Dancing just makes me uncomfortable, along with singing.
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- chintita
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  uncomfortable? just looking at it?
- astrOnaut01
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  Yeah. I'm not sure why. It's even more uncomfortable when the dancer is performing for me specifically.
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