He has a big & long penis, how should I ride on top of him for him to feel really good? Some guys like it up and down but I wanna know exactly?

I wanna know exactly which position feels best for guys. because mine has a big long penis, so its not exactly easy to just ride him like average sized guys. Should I lean forward with my lower body up towards his stomach more and thrust?


Would reverse cowgirl, with the girl leaning forward towards his legs and her thrusting be good? or sitting straight up and go up and down be better?




And a few more questions..




1. Does it hurt the penis (un-circumcised) if I ask him to rub his dick head on my pussy while he's cumming?




2. When he's Cumming, if I touch & massage his balls at the same time, will it annoy him or give him more pleasure?




3. While giving him a blow job and he's cumming in my mouth, would it feel better for him if I suck on his dick faster and harder? Or slowly suck it while he's cumming in my mouth?




4. My man is a silent cummer when he orgasms, little facial changes when he cums unlike other guys.. is there a reason he's quiet? Not much of a moan or grunt.. and if he cums inside me, he won't keep thrusting, he'll stop and let it all in me. But if he takes it out and cums on my body, he will jack it fast. What's the difference,?




These are serious questions. I would appreciate serious answers.. more detailed replys would be good. I just want to figure him out, as he's not the open type, I want to ask but when I do he gives me short answers. I just want to please him more and give him the best I can.. he's not circumcised, any tips on giving more pleasure for uncut penises?
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  • For a long dick, try doggie, spoon or Indra (check in google if you dont know), if you ride top of him it may hit your cervix which can be difficult for you, but its upto you.

    1. Does it hurt the penis (un-circumcised) if I ask him to rub his dick head on my pussy while he's cumming?
    Not at all, he may get more pleasure but some guys dick head is so sensative during cum so ask him about it.

    2. When he's Cumming, if I touch & massage his balls at the same time, will it annoy him or give him more pleasure?
    I love it! many girls won't notice that but massaging balls during cum feels so amazing and it made easy to release all. every girl should notice this trick.

    3. While giving him a blow job and he's cumming in my mouth, would it feel better for him if I suck on his dick faster and harder? Or slowly suck it while he's cumming in my mouth?
    its also depend upon person to person, for me i would madly love if she slip her tongue around my tip hole smoothly from where cum ejaculating, that really adds sensation.

    4. My man is a silent cummer when he orgasms, little facial changes when he cums unlike other guys.. is there a reason he's quiet? Not much of a moan or grunt.. and if he cums inside me, he won't keep thrusting, he'll stop and let it all in me. But if he takes it out and cums on my body, he will jack it fast. What's the difference,?
    this is also depend upon a person, although its too boring if he is quite, mostly girls love expressive and vocal, I am very vocal. May be his dick head is so sensitive so while the cum out he hold not stimulate it, but he should thrust harder so you can also feel his cumshot. when he pull out he jack off fast because his cum about to release and he need some hard stroke so his cum break the boundary. you may notice while he jack off that time his dick head erect to it max and so much tense, that is sign of release. he making that final climax erection.

    • expecting some response, whats your views on my opinion. how much its helpful for you rather than 1 xtra point.

    • Are you cut or uncut? Because id really like to know how to make it more pleasurable for an uncut penis, no one has responded to that question yet :) There's the sitting on the chair position while the girl is riding.. would you prefer if the girl kept kissing u while riding? Or not kiss u.. just carress your neck & shoulders?

    • I am uncut with a long foreskin, it keep my dick fully wrap even it erected. you have wrap up for see the big mushroom head! make your tongue pointed and put inside the foreskin and move in circular motion all over the edge of the dick, cut or uncut not much different, uncut is little more sensitive. in any position i dont like kissing and penetration at the same time, so No for me, i do kiss only in breaks when i dont penetrate, i have to make sound so not like to keep my mouth shut. caring other parts of body can be good, still prefer some massage on balls at any time.

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  • Most of the sensation is in the tip/head. As long as that is getting action it really doesn't mater how far in it goes, that is more for your pleasure. Being on top is a great way for you to control how far it goes in. So basically it is whatever feels the best for you. Staying in one position for too long gets boring and can actually start to cause cramps, moving around and changing it up is a good thing. So one position isn't necessarily better over the other. Communication is always the number one most important thing. Talk to each other and find out what you each like. For me, I like her on top and leaning forward so her boobs are either in my face or rubbing on my chest. I like to grab and hold her ass. Now, either I can lay still and she can thrust herself, or I can hold her still while I thrust. We mix it up. One of the best over-all positions.
    1)- No, that does not hurt. That is hot!
    2)-That would annoy me. I get nothing from having my balls played with. That would be up to you for your pleasure.
    3)- Slow down. When he is cumming that is when it is most sensitive. Going to fast is overload. Go slow so the sensation is maximized.
    4)- Silent or noisy is just a personal preference. Doesn't mean anything. Like some guys at the gym have to grunt every time they lift while other guys do not. Cumming inside is a different sensation and the head needs something around it to help stimulate the orgasm. Because it is inside it could be because if he moves it it become simply too much to handle. When he comes on your body, he still needs something in contact with it to stimulate the orgasms, therefore he jerks it. This is something you can do.

    • Thank you for your detailed reply. But can I ask.. since the touching balls would annoy you, what if she were to gently touch /massage the tip (the opening) while you were cumming.. would it put u off?

    • That would be so hot! When I cum my wife basically treats cum like it is deadly acid that will kill her on contact! LOL! She has no interaction with it, which I kinda find insulting and a total buzz kill. So if you like it and play with it, or whatever you want to do, that would be great and super hot at the same time!

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  • Especially he's long, reverse missionary tends to work well. It stimulates you better, makes it easier to keep the rhythm without accidentally ramming your cervix and needing to stop, and lets you slide up and down a longer path for the same reason. You can also pivot in circles around his head, which a lot of guys seem to like.

    I don't think it hurts a guy to slap his head against you while cumming - at least not from what I've witnessed.

    Ballplay and bj preferences really vary from guy to guy and you've got to see what he likes. What one guy thinks is perfect will be too hard for another, what one guy adores will tickle the next. Etc.

    Some people are just quiet. Same as above, we're all different.

    The jacking is the very end of the stimulation to orgasm, when he doesn't pull out, it's the thrusting that takes him over. Also, a lot of guys like to stroke out the last few drops when it's in their hand... I'm not sure how/if that happens inside. A guy would have to respond.

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  • My girls ride me in the way it's comfortable for them, some don't like or can't go balls deep so they put in as much as they dare and grind their clit on my stomach in cowgirl. In reverse cowgirl they lay back on me, shorting how much they get plus it lets me kiss/caress her.

    1. I wouldn't think being uncircumcised would matter since if he's erect the foreskin should be completely retracted? Just guessing since I'm cut.

    2. I don't get any pleasure from ball play and actually prefer them to be completely left alone. Too easy to hurt them.

    3. Faster motion the better, I rarely get a good BJ do to my size, rather just have sex.

    4. That's normal in my book. All the moaning, oh yeah stuff is just in porn. As for the difference.. PIV sex the penis/body is completely involved/stimulated. During a HJ it's only stimulated in that small area so it needs to be done as fast as possible for the best Orgasm.

  • for main question, go back and forward not up and down.. more pleasurable and safe for both parts and he will be more turned on !
    for other questions I'm not circumcised too so in my case:
    1- if not for long time then no.
    2- morre pleasure ! especially if you touch his inner thighs slowly
    3- before cumming suck as much fast as you want but after that slow and soft blowjob (without sucking) just for the head is the best feeling !
    4- I don't moan unless I'm super comfortable and in a long relationship with a girl !

    I like your questions and wish if all girls would've pay more attention to this subject !

  • I like you leaned over so I can suck your tits while you ride on top then fill you up while still sucking your tits

  • A lot of questions but I'll answer what I can. First off mix it up, guys want you to rock there world and we try to rock yours, that's why we don't just hump constantly until we cum, we try to change up the pace and direction and position so we can rub all around inside you. So do the same, mix it up.

    1. I'm circumsized and it doesn't hurt me.

    2. It will give him pleasure of its gentle.

    3. It depends on the guy, I like it both ways from time to time.

    4. Each guy and woman cums differently than the other, some are quiet some are loud. Also when he's cumming inside he might be so overtaken by your pussy that it feels too good to keep thrusting, but he needs to jack off before he cums on you because he still needs that sensation right before he pops.

    • Thank you for replying. Would u mind if I asked... would annoy you or put u off/ ruin the orgasm, if she were to gently touch /massage the tip (the opening) while you were cumming?

    • That would be fine

  • Is he more than 8 inches? If so, I'd so missionary would be best for you

  • It's really not that complicated

  • The first questions... try stuff until you discover what's best for you.

    When a guy is cumming in your mouth, suck harder and faster until he pulls away.

  • Get a little bit softer while the orgasm, because as soon as it's over the dick becomes really sensitive