Have you ever tried to hide your boner while cuddling?

Guys, have you ever purposefully tried to hide your boner from a partner the first time you cuddled with her? Why or why not? Was this more common of you when you were younger? And girls, have you had similar experiences with guys avoiding their boners from you in the early stages? How did you deal with it?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I have, i find it really embarrassing when i'm dating a new person for them to notice my junk. They know i've got it because i tell everyone who wants to date me im trans but its still embarrassing as hell.

    Also had guys try to hide there's but i often notice them. I just ignore them, or if i'm being cheeky i'll sort of gently move myself closer towards them if i want sex or something.

  • My boyfriend does sometimes when he knows I am exhausted he get's all twitchy and he can't spoon me as closely :(
    Even if I'm tired if he kissed me I'd probably end up going for it anyway and sometimes I just flip around and start kissing him when I feel it because it's just as distracting for me!

  • why would he hide it? they know we like it... dont they?

    • Probably not all guys know that lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • No I never have.. if I get a hard on and I always do even just doing that, it is because I love her being me, and in all cases she has seen it, and it then brings up a whole bunch of other things that may or may not happen.. but no I would never try and hide it from her

  • My friend was cuddling with a girl and she sat on his boner and basically it went up her butt lol

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  • I think it's cute lol

    • still looks cute if you bare it?

    • @masterkamasutra if I do? ?

  • I never hide my boner whilst cuddling. Most of the time i make sure my SO feels it. Every girlfriend i have had has taken it as a compliment and it doesn't immediatly mean i want to have sex. So it doesn't really create any pressure to have sex or anything.

  • sometimes women think just because I am hard that means I want to have sex. That isn't always the case. But sometimes he gets hard so what is a guy to do.. either stab her in the back or ass, or kinda pull it away from her. I figure a woman doesn't really want a hard cock sticking her in the back.

  • yes i would move so its not up against her. some times sex is out of the question so why bring it up with pushing it up against her.

  • Psh hell nah I have no shame. If you don't expect that to happen while cuddling, then you shouldn't be cuddling in the first place lol.

  • No. I'd have no reason to hide it.

    Early stages of what?

    • Early stages of the relationship

    • Ah. I don't know what that's like.

  • Nah I mean what do they expect is going to happen lol?

  • Lol no erections are gonna happen, might as well let her know that I've got nothing to be ashamed of ;)

    • A comma after no would make this less confusing

    • Haha yeah, I was confused at first.

  • no, i let her mind wonder

  • never been in a cuddling before, never even touched a girl before so no idea.

  • Nope, id poke her booty with it or bury it between her cheeks.

  • no, I don't

  • Yess

  • Yes when you are new in a relationship and sexual stuff hasn't happened yet you actually feel embarrassed getting an erection

  • I never tried to hide it, I cuddle with those who understand the natural behavior of men. although i tried to hide my boner whom i am not cuddling, but even there not possible to hide it, sometime those funny happens.

  • Yes. Had to tuck it up in the waistband. Can't have her feel it poking her the first time we cuddle

  • Yes, I do try and hide it. Because I don't want them to think that all I want is sex.

  • No if I'm going to cuddle I almost always joke at the beginning "don't get mad at me if I accidentally poke you in the back with a boner"