So now that you made me think about this, there's really 2 totally distinct kinds of this, for me. Basically, there's (1) being overwhelmed, and (2) being beaten. Beaten is such a... powerful word -- in a sexy way, but also in a dangerous way -- but, I can't think of another one right now that captures it.
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#1:
So, we have a couple of anniversary traditions.
One of them:
We'll leave the kids with my daddy for the weekend, and we'll drive a couple hundred miles into the desert, where we've found a couple of trusty "vacation rentals" that are so isolated, so far away from everything else, that no one can hear actual screaming.
We'll go there, and I'll make my husband... break me. Break my hardest, fiercest resistance.
I'm a street girl, I know how to fight dirty, I know how to fight hard, and I give that man EVERY last bit of me.
I'll get myself fucking mad. I think about how smug and self-sufficient I was before I met him, about how OK I was with being alone. Fuck love, I used to think... and then this man came along, and stole my heart. I'll get fucking ANGRY. How DARE this beautiful man come along, and make me realize I'm nothing by myself.
I'll throw myself at him. I'll claw, I'll bite, I'll draw blood, I'll be screaming and crying at the same time... and I'll make him break me. I'll keep coming at him until all my resistance is gone, and he's got me helplessly spread open and soaking, shamefully wet.
Even once he's inside me, I'll still be thrashing and screaming and clawing and trying to throw him off of me... until that energy is all gone. Until I can't do anything at but tremble and shake, from the aftermath of all those fucking orgasms through my entire body and soul.
Then... we'll make sweet, slow, leisurely love.
Happy anniversary, boy. Marry me all over again.
Marry me HARD.
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#2:
I like running stairs. I get high on the feeling of the last few flights, where my lungs are burning and my legs are on fire and I have to clamber up the last few stairs on all fours because too much burn.
So, it should surprise no one that...
... I like it when shit hurts.
I mean, I can get off pretty hard on just the hurt part -- the sex part is take it or leave it. My man can absolutely make me cum just by throwing the right words at me and then slapping me nice and hard across the face. Oh fuck yeah he can.
As far as what I WOULD like? Well, let’s just say this — I have to go out into the world, and that’s not something I could do if I was visibly bruised and battered. So, what I WOULD like, and what we CAN do, are two very very different things. __ I suppose I'm on a whole 'nother level with this, because I like physically rough sex and EMOTIONALLY rough sex. I get off when my man slaps me, and beats me, because I know he’ll NEVER physically lose control. I get off when he spits on me and calls me a useless slut and a worthless whore and makes me lick my own mess up off the floor, because I know he’ll NEVER actually disrespect me. I get off on role-playing where he’s going to leave me — where I’m sobbing hysterically and hanging on to him as he walks out, and pouring every ounce of passion and desperation into fucking him right back into my life again — because I know he’ll NEVER leave.
@smmyskittles ^^
@charismatic110 @smmyskittles I suppose you've probably seen these three -- and they don't necessarily fit the "rough sex" narrative exactly -- but, in case you haven't
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1867173-do-you-prefer-condoms-or-do-you-have-sex-without-them-where-does-he
(mho comment)
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1838291-what-is-the-kinkiest-thing-you-have-done
(in normal girl comments)
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1852627-how-long-does-it-take-you-to-cum-on-average
(mho comment)
@redeyemindtricks - Let's see if I can get you hot and bothered with this next one from my last partner. ;)
Started out with me looking at him with my mischievous grin. He smirked back; he knew what was going on in my brain. *grabbed and threw his phone onto the table*
Grabbed me and carried me to the bedroom and threw me down on that bed. He had his AND my clothes off before I could catch my thoughts.
He got ontop and sucked on my neck, rubbed himself against me, but didn't put it in; my breath was heavy and I knew he wasn't going to just LET me have it.
Rolling him over, pinned hime to the bed. Putting it in slow; at first. Then slamming down on it; Hard. Letting my nipples slide across his chest and I grind my body against him. Then, just letting the tip in and bouncing on it, slowly. [He hated that sh**]
Freed his hands and grabbed me around the waist, pulled my hair. I lean in slowly as if to kiss him but instead, I sucked his lip and bit it HARD [[makes him aggressive AF]]
A second later he had me on all fours with a handful of hair, forcing my head back so he could see my face and I could see his.
Smacked my ass hard, repeatedly.
He's dirty talking, fucking me slowly and gently, whispering JUST the right things in my ear in his low seductive voice. My body gives me away, and I'm on the edge; Trying NOT to finish before him. HE KNOWS it; so he starts going hard and fast, then deep and slow. Not even 30 seconds later and he wins.
-Was holding my breath the whole time I wrote that-
Wow... that's all I can say!
Of course you didn't say what he was whispering in yr ear. Fuckin tease lol
Stabbing the Meow with the D? lmao i dunno if i wanna make it soud good i'd saying doing it like no tommorrow, spanking, bitting, kissing hard, doggy style, bending over spanking also spanking some chocking (only on the D lol) ahhhhhh >//////< let's say just say energic
Lol fair enough
hahahaah >...<
A bit late to the party, hmm let me think.
Biting
Scratching ( both of us )
Pulling of the hair ( both of us )
Being dominant physically/mentally ( both of us )
Light choking
Against-the-wall
Nibbling
Intense passion of course ( both of us )
Pinning her on or against something or her trying to do the same to me, wouldn't be fun after all if there wasn't no challenge. ( both of us )
Trying to control the other or fighting for position of like being on top for instance.
Going hard and fast or just hard.
Light bondage like handcuffs.
Disregarding romance a bit and opting more for just letting your primal and wildly, passionate side out for a bit.
That's what it would be for me anyway that's the kind of stuff I'd be into anyway, of course you'd want to mix that with just regular sex to or you know more along the lines of romance and being gently and lighter with her or her with me.
Damn Phoenix
LOL well lets just say my mind was wondering around lol and is this a good damn or bad damn hmm?
That is a good damn lol. And a pleasantly surprised one.
For me it really means bondage and more extreme things... but in generic terms it just means 'hard and fast'. I've been with a few different people who all claimed to enjoy 'rough' sex, some wanted light hair pulling and light nibbling... others wanted to be bitten to the point of drawing blood or seemed to want to flay my skin with their nails.
Lmao Freddie Krueger style.
No kidding, I was like i'm open minded but that was like fire burning my nipples off... I tried to be humorous about it, didn't want to hurt her feelings.
Lol ouchhhh
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'm pretty vanilla so for me "rough" would include things like a bit of biting, scratching/digging in with fingernails and hair pulling. Maybe some light bondage.
Doing it on a floor that is not carpeted.
Lol ouch.
Haven't done that in a very long time! :)
Knees hurt a lot after that :/
It can vary... from 50 shades of gray type of stuff to just going really hard/fast.
Yeah I know it varies from person to person.
Different positions can make it seem rougher than others too. I think it's the angles putting pressure on places that normally don't get attention. I usually have to hold back and I usually warn my girls if they are playing with fire;-)
Lol cool
I don't think it would be too rough more like vigorous domination.
Choking
Spanking (paddle, hands, belt, etc.)
Someone getting pinned down, restrained.
Slapping (face)
Hair pulling
Scratching
Biting
You know... good stuff.
SOME good stuff
All good stuff :)
Whoa... someone might be getting carried away ;) haha
like bone to bone, like your insides cling kind of love. like he's trying to nail me to my bed (or the wall) with his thrusts, is overpowering me with spanking, slapping, light choking, hair pulling. while he pours his aggression into me, i pour my anger right back.
Yessssss!!!
battlescars or war wounds lol
pleasure and pain like max 50/50 ratio
a "he's not gonna do that" face *lowkey wants him too*
I mean I wouldn't mind some battlescars. I'm a scratcher lol so he's definitely leaving with some. But yeah I'm thinking more like 75/25 with pleasure and pain
75/25? Damn you leaving the bed with dogtags lol
Lol the 75 is pleasure!
It's when you disregard romance for animalistic desires.
Oh. Ok.
To me it's not necessarily about domination, submission, etc. It's more about letting our guards down and behaving animalistically -- in a heathy way.
Lmao
Consensual physical abuse because the girl for whatever reason enjoys being hurt and stuff.
Sarcasm *
I kinda mean it. Who the hell enjoys being choked and slapped on the face? Apparently some people. I'll never understand.
I don't...
Char, I'm so much more curious than you that I put it in my username! lol :)
Lol you're the king of curiosity!
It's not rough enough until furniture gets broken, as in you put her through the coffee table and keep going 😈.
Choking, slapping, biting, stand-up thrusting, pinning, edging each other and if she knows how to use her kegels you add a whole other layer of counter thrusting to it all.
Oh lawd 😩
Lmao wth
Haha, I've heard an account of it happening! It wasn't a glass table though.
wall sex!!! whoooo hooo! so hot that you couldn't make it too the bed.
Yessssssssssssss
rubbing sandpaper all over each other while we fuck.
Lol.
But it would eventually become smoothe @idkwtftoputhere
When it starts to hurt then it s rough haha.
The good pain that is...
Lol good painnn
Haha 😛
Usually just being aggressive and a little scratching
Spanking, choking, slapping (face), hair pulling, being pinned down, scratching (my back, omg I love it).
Sometimes it gets to the point of my panties being shoved in my mouth but thats rare hahaha
Well damn lol. See that's so far beyond my definition
Did you like your panties been put in your mouth? I am curious sounds hot
I knew someone was gonna comment on that lol smh
That's what happens in other houses than mine.
Combining fucking hard and fast, light/medium choking, some hair pulling, some biting, really dirty talk, slapping, name calling, scratching, controlling eachother and what positions you do.
I mean like we're making out I like start shaking with force building up lol and then BAM! Just really physical, dominant sex. Along with your typical line up of specifics, against-the-wall, [light] choking, spanking, etc.
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