How Do Shy, Introverted and Socially Awkward People Have Sex?

I'm extremely outgoing, talkative and a complete extrovert. But the thought of getting naked with a guy makes me feel uncomfortable. My aunt has extreme social anxiety. She can't even go to a grocery store without her husband being there. She has three daughters. How the fuck did she have sex?
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  • I find that often (not always) people who suffer from various forms of anxiety (like your aunt for example) is the most comfortable when they're around their significant other - so they wouldn't have a problem being with them physically.
    If someone is just totally insecure and shy about their body, they probably just turn the lights off and get under the sheets.

  • I'm shy, introverted, socially awkward and have anxiety :P I manage it pretty well.

  • Lmao, well, you know what they say. The quiet ones are freaks

Most Helpful Guys

  • Her mom told her to lie still and think of England.
    Us shy people finally usually warm up to our intended lover and hopefully can enjoy each other.
    Or, we meet at a designated room, with the lights out, and grope around to find our intended freind. And then we do the deed!

  • She probably did it in the dark

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  • With the lights out.

  • When you are alone with someone you're comfortable enough being exposed around, instinct kicks in and you do what nature says. Unless they humiliate you in your most vulnerable state. When that happens, then you become twice as shy. And shun them for taking advantage of you.

  • Because she has a husband who went down on her a few times while she was hanging out at home.

    How did she get a HUSBAND? Now that's a better question. I guess he admired her and she was like 'yay ok'

  • It's harder for sure but you find the right person that makes you feel comfortable. Or she got drunk or high lol, in which case that goes right out the window.

  • When you have social anxiety it's usually towards other people. She clearly trusts her husband which is why she takes him grocery shopping with her. So sex probably wasn't weird.

  • because she feels comfertable around your uncle and no one else is around

  • I'll tell you a good trick to get over that, get fully naked when you are at home alone and keep looking to your self in the mirror every once a while and try to pose like that and then after a while start complimenting your self talking to the mirror, if you want also make dirty compliments and describe your body to your self... it will help you and raise your self esteem

  • Shy people just take their time opening up to people. Doesn't mean they don't warm up around the right people.

  • Men like vulnerable women. It's very attractive. Men love the knight in shingle armour role and women love to be taken care of. At least in your aunts generation they did. Nowadays some women like being the knight to rescue the other women with the crew cut, tattoos and boiler suit. It's a freaky world

  • Elementary my dear Watson, the husband took in the bedroom. Also she probably is extremely conformable around husband being she marred him.

  • Sex is different...
    No one can get extreme anxiety while having sex... Lol...
    You are having sex in front of 20 people...
    Plus it's enjoyable and don't bring closed doors so Lol

  • I have no idea how she did it, but I am introverted and I don't have sex. Girls don't like me, so I probably never will either

  • im a shy introvert but i have no idea about this because im a virgin.

  • having social anxiety doesn't mean that you are afraid of having sex with someone you love.

  • Depends on the person how they wanna do it :P

  • Obviously she trusts her husband and isn't shy around him.

  • Ah. To put it simply, you first need to know that people in bed are not necessarily the same people in everyday life. Most people who know me won't believe how I am in bed knowing my extremely introverted everyday self.

  • Shy people get married and have kids like everyone else. Life is too short to worry about everything. Take your time. Sex is not that important and not that big of a deal.