My co-worker gave me a bj in the toilet but she didn't want sex. Does she like me? Why did she do that without any benefits for herself?

So I work with this girl for a while now. She didn't give any vibes of liking me, just kept it either friendly or professional during work. But recently I got drunk during the party (she doesn't drink) and she just wanted me to go with her to the toilet. I was kinda of drunk so I didn't resist. She gave me a blowjob but nothing after, she just did it, smiled and left only saying "see you tomorrow". I'm not sure what happened. Now in the job she just looks ordinary like it never happened, what were her intentions?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • She might've gotten benefits in terms of pride that she got you to enjoy yourself like that all on her own, and she enjoyed the resulting ego-boost. Some women genuinely like giving head, believe it or not.

    She could like you but not necessarily.

    • Wouldn't expect any girl to actually enjoy that. What is strange about that is that it's not the first time it happened to me. The other time it was a friend of my sister. She kind of did the same thing.

    • of course some girls enjoy it.. why would they not? Very weird that this isn't the first time that happened to you. I've honestly never heard of anyone getting surprise blowjobs like that.

  • She was drunk and she thought it was cool. It was her fantasy and she worked on it and she took something off a bucket list. She does not want you. And stay away from her anyway. That impulsive behavior even drunk is a red flag.

    • Only I was drunk, she didn't drink.

    • I still think she played with you she doesn't really care she just acted out

  • Maybe she just wanted to give a blowjob? Some girls enjoy it, believe it or not.

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  • I wouldn't over analyze it man. She wasn't ready/comfortable to take it to sexual intercourse. I don't think she would have given you a blow job if she wasn't the least bit sexually attracted to you. That's all there is to it, in my opinion.

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  • She wanted you to get off. It probably turned her on to make you cum. End of story. If you're not interested in receiving or giving casual benefits, keep your distance at the next party.

    • Is it considered as an achievement for a girl if she makes a guy finish? :D

    • Yes. Otherwise she didn't do her job.

    • Hmm yeah but in that case is the sexual act pleasurable for the girl or she just wants to know that she has the ability to make a guy finish? :D

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  • only sex

  • she just wanted some D brah

    • Well she didn't get anything out of that. I was the only one who got something out of it.

    • thats what you think. its whatevers though, don't overthink it. it happened, move on.

  • It's weird but I think she likes you.

  • Maybe you were unimpressive.

    • What do you mean by that?