Why does my boyfriend stick his penis between my legs when were in bed? Should I be worried? Have any of you guys done this?

[Anonymous]

When me and my boyfriend are making out heavily and we are in the spooning position on the bed (we are not having sex till marriage) he will pull my pants and underwear down a bit and stick his penis between my thighs and it will be touching my p***y which will be really wet and he will thrust through them like we are having sex and he gets so into it that he's groaning panting so hard while we kiss. Is this normal? Why do men do this and does it feel that good?

[Frost_Byt3]

Did he also agree to wait until marriage? Was it something HE wanted to do, or something YOU convinced him to do?

Either way, it seems like he is having trouble controlling himself (which is only natural). Waiting until marriage takes A LOT of self control, ESPECIALLY if you two aren't using alternative methods to relieve the sexual tension.

Have you ever considered practicing oral sex, or manual sex as alternative methods to relieve yourselves? This way you can both still "technically" be waiting until marriage, but it will relieve the sexual tension and make it a whole lot easier on both of you.

If you are completely opposed to the idea above, then you need to sit down with your boyfriend and have a discussion. You need to make it clear to him that if he wants to stay with you - there will be absolutely NO sexual activity. Then he will have to choose whether he is willing to wait, or if he wants to leave.

[Asker]

Well he has had sex in all of his other relationships. Im a virgin and i told him I've been waiting till marriage. He thinks its waiting till your married is something that should happen and that he wished he did before. So we both are waiting. I do give him HJ and he plays with me also so we do do sexual stuff except for sex.

[Frost_Byt3]

Its good that he has the same views as you do in regards to waiting until marriage, but due to the fact that he is not a virgin, and you are, its to be expected that he isn't as committed to the idea as you are (no surprises there). You say that you give him HJs to relieve him? When you do this do you actually allow him to ejaculate? If not, then its doing nothing for him other than teasing him and making the sexual tension even worse. If so, however, he is at least getting SOME release, although he still might not be entirely satisfied (judging by his urge to dry hump you all the time).

[abc3643]

"If I let go of a hammer on a planet with positive gravity, then I need not see it fall to know that it has, in fact, fallen." - Spock

Yes, this is totally natural. he instinct is to stick his penis in your vagina. It's what's supposed to happen next, like an object falling after you let go of it.

[mooky06]

I'm sure he wants sex and it's got nothing to do with him waiting for marriage. "Thrusting through them like we are having sex?" if his thrusting in between your legs where he can feel you wet.. isn't that sex? I don't understand

[DarkIndividual]

He wants to have sex with you, clearly. That's his alternative because you won't allow it.

[abundantlyrich]

You need sex education

[26ukdude]

Both waiting till marriage? At this rate I cannot see this happening.

[Intraluminal]

I am not a fan of the whole waiting for marriage thing, but I can tell you that at this rate 1) You're not going to make it. 2) You can get pregnant that way.

If it doesn't for good to you, why are you doing it?

[Asker]

Why dont you thi i won't make it? Its possible. And he doesn't cum inbetween my legs

[Intraluminal]

All that has this happen for the trajectory of his penis to change, and in it goes. All he needs to do in pant one to many times and you're pregnant.

[jacquesvol]

It's a form of non penetrative sex: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intercrural_sex

[genericname85]

so he will prefer not to enter your pussy? xD maybe he thinks, he´s in or something... that´s really strange.

[Scotty96]

Its very normal. Because you both are waiting to have sex until marriage, he is doing something else to take care of the sexual urge. It feels very good. A girl I dated that wanted to wait to have sex and myself did the same thing. It felt very good and she would even tense her thighs up to make it tighter while I was thrusting in between them. After a few minutes I would ejaculate all over her bed sheets.