Would you get into a relationship with a bisexual person?

Question

Girl's version: Would you date a bisexual man who is submissive in the bedroom when he is with men. He is the catcher in the bedroom, the one who gives blowjobs, and the one who swallows his partner cum.

For example- Henry Cavill with his boyfriend

 
Guy's version: Would you date a girl who is dominant in the bedroom when she is with other women. She takes the lead, is the aggressor, wears the strap on for penetrating sex and usually is the one eating out her partner more often and giving her pleasure.

For example - Allison Brie
 Would you consider dating and getting into a relationship with a bisexual person?

redeyemindtricks · Accepted Answer

To be honest, no, I wouldn’t.

The first and most important reason is purely visceral. Straight, 100% emotional, gut reaction — it’s a total turn-off, a dealbreaker.
Can’t put a rational finger on it, just as none of us can put a rational finger on ANY of the things that make us what we are, sexually. It just is what it is.

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Even if I COULD get past that, though — nope. Still couldn’t do it.
See, I need COMMITMENT from a partner. I need MY man to be MINE, and mine alone. And if he were “bi”… well, that would mean that 50 percent of his fundamental sexuality was just going to rot, unused, on the shelf.

Obviously, I don’t have an exact analogy for this, since I’ve only ever been attracted to men. But, I’m thinking of it like this:
I like to get fucked, hard. Drilled, slammed, slapped around and basically destroyed.
I also like to make love. Slow, deep, intense, passionate.
If I didn’t get BOTH of these in my relationship, I’d be frustrated enough to just end the relationship (or, if I were the more passive-aggressive type, to sabotage it).
I’d imagine that, if a genuinely bisexual person were to try to commit to one partner, it’d be a lot like forcing me to try to choose between these two. There’d be no “right” choice, there — either choice would leave me half-complete and half-incomplete.

So, I couldn’t have a relationship with a bisexual man in good faith, because *I* couldn’t stand to be the one responsible for depriving him of having 50% of his sexual needs met — but, the hell if I’d open the relationship up to another partner for that.
Oh hell no.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Thank goodnesd Henry Cavill is not bisexual.
I wouldn't date god if he was bi. It would be too bad though :-(
But it's interesting to see that there are as many yes votes as no votes on the girls side. Really girls? Or are you just being funny? Because I'll have to seriously watch out what kind of girls I am around. I need to know what to share with them and what not to.
With guys there are twice as many yes votes as no votes. And then I wouldn't want to compete with the entire male population as well as the female one if I wanted to get a guy.

Relentless_Hippie · Accepted Answer

First of all those are just rumors people like you are spreading about him. We don't know that because he's never said that. To answer your question, HELL NO. I don't care if he's submissive or dominant that is not a normal nor healthy behavior. I don't want someone like that. That's disgusting.

ksoma · Accepted Answer

if what you define in the guy version is actually true of Allison Brie, you have just greatly increased how interested I am in Allison Brie lol.

Knowing a girl is bisexual makes her automatically more appealing in my book. And because I am not one of those people who think BS like that bi people are more likely to cheat or whatever, then no, I'd have no problem dating a bi girl.

Outofthegrey · Accepted Answer

Depends on the person. I think this question is a little more likely to illicit a yes from men since for a long time now we have regarded a woman's sexuality as being far more fluid than a man's, so we've had time to get used to this idea.

randomhobo · Answer

I would, don't see anything wrong with it.

girlandhermusic · Answer

Well I'm bisexual but I don't take the lead or anything like that. However I understand ppl's concerns because they don't know if their partners friends are truly friends or not. I think they're must be trust coming from both sides and it'll be alright.

lexythelou22 · Answer

Yes, as long as I'm the only one they're with at the time. Considering I am bisexual, it would be kind of hypocritical if I didn't xD However, I would need a dominant, whichever gender they be.

justbanANNAz · Answer

Id rathet not

AzureGirl · Answer

Considering I already am in a relationship with a bisexual male, yes.

Jxpxtxr · Answer

Yes I'm bisexual myself so it would be hypocritical not to.

AnayaWilliams · Answer

No thanks, I only date straight men nothing else

Danburry_elect · Answer

I mean you see Allison Brie right? Not many red blooded men would have strength to turn her down - I know I wouldn't !

Berethor · Answer

There is to many reasons for me to be willing to date someone like Allison Brie, if she was not dating other men already, so I guess so. As long as she is keep the fucking strap on away from me, I might be okey with that, even though I am not completely sure if I would be okey with her doing sexual things with other women, but it is much less worse then her doing sexual things with other men, also there is much more chances for threesome with bisexual woman, for obvious reasons.

ElissaDido · Answer

No I only date straight men.

awilliam360 · Answer

No, because you can never be sure if they love you 100%

Josht11 · Answer

Well be a bit hypocritical if I didn't since I'm bi.

TrainwreckAdvice · Answer

It's hard enough fighting off other women, add men and I'd feel exhausted lol

chintita · Answer

nope, 100% NO i would not date a guy who's bisexual because i don't want a submissive guy.

performerwannabe · Answer

Sorry but no. I would feel so weird knowing that he have given blowjobs. I'm not homophobic but I just wouldn't be able to date him.

ManOnFire · Answer

Nope. Bisexual females do nothing for me. It's not impressive to me that you can - or rather want to - fuck both genders. Such a person would eventually, if not always, want to have a relationship with someone else.

daisy122 · Answer

Hell yeah since i’m bisexual myself. Super sad to see people in here are still ignorant enough to believe bisexuals are more likely to cheat though. So disheartening, and so ridiculously unfounded.