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Why do all guys like the innocent, naive type girls?

Just wondering, is it more attractive? Eg which one sounds more appealing- 1. Skinny, in distress innocent, naive type, cute and shy, if she got raped wouldn't fight and wait for help type, physically weak, super friendly but gets emotional easily and cries to manipulate 2. Skinny but toned, confident, physically fit, practises mma, innocent but not naive, good sense of humour, super friendly, gets emotional but doesn't cry around others But guys seem to dig the first option? Or am I wrong? I get its attractive to be girly and stuff so.. Maybe I'm the type that turn guys off? (I'm the second one)
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Most Helpful Guys

  • What lies are you believing?
    My Girlfriend is this HOT, VERY ASSERTIVE (some friends say 'bitchy') Red-haired Vixen!! She swears to make a sailor blush, and she Loves Jameson!!
    She's tiny, barely 5 feet, but she is all fire, with her red hair, in the braided crown, like I am supposed to treat her like a 'Princess'? Yeah, right!!
    Drama, yeah, and more than I want, but she is AMAZING!!!
    I like how she sometimes 'decides' we are going to have sex, and who would say 'No' to that? I tried!! It pissed her off, for a few weeks, but we were so much more in tune, together, later!!
    She's delightfully soft, cuddly, and has a bit of a 'tummy' and I don't care, at all! I HATE the skinny, bony ones, and being poked, with hip bones!!
    Nieve is fine, if you want to teach them EVERYTHING!!!

  • 2. Strength, independence, self-respect and self-control are all attractive and essential in a partner. What is off-putting is a woman who tries to be a superheroine able to cope with everything and doesn't need a man for any damn thing. She is certain to be: (i) wrong; (ii) insecure; (iii) lonely; (iv) unhappy.

    • Also, what role do these superheroines expect their male partners to have in their lives? None? In that case, she can take a hike. I want a central role in my partner's life and her to have one in mine.

    • Haha thanks for ur comment, but I'm a bit confused. Where did all this superheroine talk come from hehee but I completely agree hahaa take a hike lol

    • Sorry, the superheroine would be 3. 1. sounds like an adolescent or a child. I want a woman, not an adolescent or a child.

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  • "if she got raped wouldn't fight and wait for help type, physically weak, [...] cries to manipulate"

    Really? FUCKING REALLY? I get that you want people to choose #2 because that's supposed to be you (so of course you fail to mention anything negative about yourself) but really? That's a little screwed up.

    Sometimes I hate this website 😒

    • I was thinking that exact same thing... no wonder guys don't choose her, I don't think it's because she's not the "innocent" type xD

  • Girls that don't fight back are more often than not going into shock. Just because you think you would handle it differently doesn't make your comparison a valid reason to find you attractive.

    • I wasn't done answering this question (hit send by mistake, so any backlash before this is read is accepted). Guys find type two attractive, but they also find one attractive. It's easy enough to be a hook up for both. Honestly, I don't believe you have a problem with that. I'm guessing finding the right guy to stay committed is the problem? That or this is a really general question about things you've observed, but it doesn't affect you as much as others similar to you. With long term relationships it takes a spark, prior interest, and some history. It is rare for lt to happen with a guy you jusy met if you jump head first. A lot of girls make this mistake, especially if the guy is doing the same thing. It's always been a red flag for me that a relationship will not work out.

    • Thank u very much for your comment! :) just wondering so u said a relationship most likely won't work out if u jump head first into things right? So how would u make it work? Eg by being friends first without any attraction... Taking things slowly etc? Pls elaborate Thank u!! :)

  • They want a lady in the streets and a freak under the sheets lel

    • You have no idea how much I heard this 😂

    • @Omar5881 😂😂😂 same

    • 😂😂😂

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  • halal in the street and haram in the sheets lol

  • I guess a lot of guys will say that they like to feel strong and needed.
    But honestly I also see guys go a lot for the more slutty confident type, so not innocent at all.

  • They're easier to manipulate. Trust me, I know.

  • guys like the first option because naivete and meekness make her seem more dependent on us, for love, comfort, emotional support, or defense. We feel more needed.

    Of course, there are also guys who go for that because they enjoy having someone they can manipulate and use, but that is very much not me, so I don't understand, and will not defend, that mindset.

    • So pretty much the insecure guys would go for the first one lollll the second one also needs love, support, comfort etc just not as weak and shy. So which one would you go for? I reckon a real man would choose the second one cuz she's more like a lady not a kid but I'm open to all opinions.

    • I have no interest in the second type. The more independent a woman is, the less I feel she needs me, let alone wants me, to do anything for her. Guys prove their love and show their affection by doing, and so when our doing is not welcome, we feel unneeded. And if that makes me an insecure man, or not a real man, in your eyes, I don't give a damn. I'm not trying to impress you.

  • Why did you have to put all that crap in number 2? number 2 does not sound desirable in any way. if you combine the 2, take out skinny, you got it right...
    .
    has curves and looks like a normal woman, innocent but not naive, good sense of humour, super friendly, gets emotional but doesn't cry around others

    • HAHAAHA what u said in your combination is basically type 2 XD

    • yea, I realized that when I was putting it together... but it has parts of one. your too fixated on her being unrealistcally thin. and the majority of guys don't want any kind of body builder woman who can kick our ass. Women are so amazing because they are so soft. I don't want a woman with muscles and I certainly don't want a super skinny woman.

    • Thanks for ur comment! :) I agree hehee and it would be too hard to get all muscly and body builder type anyway!! XD heheee soft is good 👍🏼

  • I prefer a bit of both from 1 & 2

    • thanks for ur comment! Which qualities in particular? :)

    • Skinny, confident, shy, attractive, fit, good sense of humour, gets emotional, innocent, friendly, kind, caring etc

  • As far as I know, most strong girls, physically and/or mentally are not innocent, and many guys tend to prefer pure girls. Also there are many girl that prefer girly girls as opposed to tomboys, and girly girls are usually weak, but don't worry, as it's turns out, saiyan men like strong-willed women, because saiyan women are like that as well ;). Personally I don't have a problem with strong women, but I do have with slutty women. If you are truly both innocent and strong, then it's actually nice, as far as I'm concerned. :)

    tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TheIngenue

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rGDJql9593I

  • It's because the later type begins to strike home at a male's sense of pride. The more charismatic the woman is, the more pressure guys feel in that they have to outdo her in that area since it is instinctively thought that men have to be MORE toned, MORE confident, MORE fit, have an even BETTER sense of humor and etc. If a woman has all of these qualities, guys can feel insecure and the need to outdo her would drive him towards the first type of girl who feels "more safe" or someshit like that. The former type is less likely to challenge a man's dominance in a relationship and more likely to 'do her part' and be supportive, instead of a competitor pretty much.

    • OH :/ so you would go for the first one? Ur comment makes sense, so if a guy had confidence and a healthy level of self esteem he would most likely choose the second one right? If she acts the girl in the relationship and likes being 'protected' by her man type

    • @OP No, I always say that alphas don't get along with other alphas. A guy with confidence and self esteem might label the latter as a rival and therefore still go for #1

    • "he would most likely choose the second one" -Not necessarily. He could still go for the first one. Really, this depends on each individual guy. I just put forth what I thought might be the reason for guys preferring more meek girls.

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  • They don't. You probably come across as too 'strong' and assertive.

  • I mean come on. How isn't this cute?
    img.pandawhale.com/...livious-Female-Meme-Ze2w.png

    • HAHAAHA type one for u XD

  • Girl 1 is too passive and I hate the idea of someone who cries to manipulate me.

    Girl 2 could probably kick my ass and thus wouldn't respect me or feel as attracted to me as she would to a more doninant guy.

    So ideally Id choose neither but if I had to choose Id go with girl 1.

  • guys who like to be ''daddy'' would go for girl one..

    • What if they wanna be a 'sonny' then?😐

    • @Chief16 that's not a thing.. :/

    • Neither are.😐

  • Basically no2 is a little unnaproachable despite clearly being the hotter choice.

    Fit, skinny and fights! Just intimidated by you probably

  • Both aren't desirable.

    What men are attracted to generally is femininity, youth, health and loyality. A girl who is innocent and potentially naive is more trustworthy than one who has ridden the cockcarousel.

  • Yeah my preference is the second type, never had much use for the first at all.

  • I'd date girl 2, the MMA is kinda intense but I love the confident/fit qualities for sure. Confidence, feminine, flirty, etc. are absolutely critical for me. I don't connect well with the innocent-shy kinda girl, I just like straightforward girls that know how to communicate, flirt and cut through all the BS lol

  • Well with the "damsel in distress" , will appeal to many men as she less likely to be strong willed and have rebel traits like
    1. Stubbornness
    2. That thuggish I do whatever what , when I what to mentally
    3. Being difficult to reason with
    4. Mock him for mistakes
    Secondly , one the biggest things in western culture is that a man can't hit a woman thus you want a girl that is less likely to fight you.
    The second women will appeal to guy that are older as they have experience with women. Not to mention they are pretty much grown so the childhood games are put away and are low drama.

  • You are wrong OP , i'd take the 2nd over 1st anytime. Shy girls are a pain in the ,,, *too shy to type the A word*

  • I'm always easily for the second! (Or at least outside anime. rofl)

  • Mmmm. To take advantage of you. Why else?

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