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I was once a camgirl and some of my video recordings can be found out there. I don't do it anymore. Would you date a girl like me... why or why not?

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  • here are the facts. you're a sex worker... you show and do sexual play for money.

    its basically selling your self respect and dignity for money. sometimes you have to make way more than what you're capable of legally so you have to i get it, but most do not and are just lazy and lack any sort of morals.

    these types of people are usually so use to taking the path of least resistance that when life hits them, they hide, run away, or replace you. not only that, they lack accountability and aren't trustworthy.

    so, would i give someone like that my heart? the power to steal half of my worth?

    not a chance.

    • Thanks for your opinion

    • I know a camgirl for 5 or 6 years now. She started super young and told me there are no real work prospects in Romania. Her options were slim. So I felt bad and used to help her out. But I think money changes people and she lost all morals. Making ends meat to live I understand. But buying expensive clothes, shoes, bags... getting breast implants and expensive tattoos... clearly my opinion of this sweet young girl who is now a bit older, not sweet and a gold digger have changed. It's a shame. Camming has made her hate men. It all depends on the person I guess. But ultimately, I can see how long term camming will change how women think and feel about men and about themselves. It's a sad thing. I still talk to her but things are really different now Unfortunately, I don't think being a camgirl is good. My opinion, but based on long time experience. Sorry

  • First, I would be shocked, I'd lie if I say I'd be fine with it. But I would talk to her, and don't dump her immediatly. If it's her past and not her present and if she finished with it, I think I could deal with it. I would prefer it if she would mention it to me in a good moment, but for you, I can't tell you if you should mention it cause the chance that he'll find out are probably low.
    But if you wanna get serious with him (long time relationship, marriage...) I would mention it, caus if he finds out after years, you probably lost his trust.

    • Aww thanks for the advice !

    • Thanks for mho, and all the best finding a guy who loves you how and who you are and were :-)

Most Helpful Girls

  • well to be honest it depends on the kind guy.
    Some guys don't accept it coz they don't want their girlfriend or his future wife to be viewed by every guy it's like he is sharing you with everyone which is a not so pleasant feeling.
    imagine his co-worker says hey I saw your gf/wife on this website ' It's embarrassing

    • Ya I know a lot of guys feel that way. I've also met guys that think it's hot to think that other people have seen me.

  • No I wouldn't have any problem at all, I mean everyone goes through a time where they fulfill a sexual desire that really turned them on which really turns me on so no, no problem here

  • I am currently a camgirl. Some guys think you are worthless, others are open to it. You just need to find someone that accepts you for who you are.

    • that's the thing, who you are, so you can say being a cam girl is not a reason to deny a date, but it's not also a reason to ask for a date, it's just a job, so it should be irrelevant in the date topic..

    • @7André7 Yup, I agree 100%

  • Bi girl right here who luuuurves openly sexual people = YES x 10000000 :)

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  • Yes it wouldn't matter your past. Why do you think that would be an issue?

  • Not an issue for me - The only thing that would interest me is whether she tells me or not - If she told me I would be like "Wow she must really like me to be this forthcoming with me to get everything out in the open", if she didn't tell me and I found out some other way I would be like "That's a pity that she didn't feel comfortable enough with me to tell me about this. I wonder does she think I would be judgmental or something, I hope not".

  • Of course. in fact, if she wanted to continue the job, I'd even serve as an 'assistant.'

  • No I would not. Not into that kind of woman.

  • I don't care. 'tis the naked human body, having sex, on video, how perverse! I think it much the same as being offended if you were on video eating a sandwich :)

  • Absolutely! It makes 0 difference. Especially in our current culture. Many things that seem 'shameful' are really not.

    • Thanks !

    • Np!! I'm actually surprised that you have any negative comments at all really...

    • Always haters

  • Your display was just live entertainment, well below the threshold of prostution. Yes I would. And it is unlikely anyone will notice you in videos.

    • Thanks!

  • I wouldn't want a serious relationship with a cam girl unless she was better than average looking and had aspects of her personality that would be difficult to find in another person.

    However if I believe it would be relatively easy to find an equally attractive girl with similar or better personality traits who doesn't have nude videos of herself on the internet then I would feel no incentive to date her.

    • I'm not better than average, so I guess I'm out in your book

  • Of course i would date you,

    Everyone has a life before their next partner, i would understand.

    • Thanks for being understanding !

    • Your welcome hun! Anytime

  • We all have things in our past that we are ashamed of. So no, I would not mind and I'd actually think it's pretty cool. I like my women sexually open :)

  • No...

    • Why not?

    • Explain why you choose to work as a cam girl over anything else...

    • I don't do that anymore. And i did it for attention when I was younger. I'm more confident and mature now, so I don't do it anymore.

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  • possibly, but not likely. most camgirls cam because they have no other options, which is a no-go.

    • I had other options. I did it for attention mostly. But I am more confident now.

  • As long as you don't do it anymore I don't mind, I can handle that past.

  • sure, past is past and when you date someone it is about the present/future

  • Sure. Why would that matter?

    • Some people think it does 😔

    • The you of today is not the you of yesterday. We all do different things, and we all change.

  • No I wouldn't. I just wouldn't

  • Don't see why not.

  • Yes if you're hot. I will do not judge someone that was a camgirl or if they're still a camgirl.

    • Haha but I'm not hot !

  • this fact would not matter.

    • Thanks ! You look cute too!! So double thanks :o !

    • you're wellcome :)

  • I wouldn't mind, it doesn't bother me.

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