I like being dominated during sex is this normal?

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I like being treated rough, called names, slapped, pushed, choked and grabbed during sex. I've always wanted a guy to tie me up and spank me, force his penis into my mouth or anywhere he wants during sex. I was on the phone having phone sex with a guy whose like 10 years younger than me, he's 20! He's legal. Anyway he was saying for me to suck on him and what's his name.. I said daddy and he said "Say it louder bitch don't make me pull your weave out" lol crazy but I love it and I got so into it and turned on. I think sex with him in real life would be great but he lives so far.

But is this normal to have a strong desire to be dominated during sex? A man being gentle and submissive won't get me off.

FemWorship · Accepted Answer

I read on GAG & elsewhere that the only gals not pursuing this as much are date raped but they do enjoy a pedestrian version of this with hubby or highly trusted guy they know will stop on command.

Oddly, the incest raped and the never raped are most attracted to this method to gain a higher orgasm &/or thrills. Being commanded allows you an excuse to let go of normal defenses and follow orders you secretly desire in self satisfaction.

gobsmacked3 · Accepted Answer

Some women love it

Force them on their knees, present your cock, make them gag on it as you fuck their mouth , all while their eyes remain on them. Then pull them up by their hair, throw them on the bed, hold them down in a choking motion and plunder them

teawrecks · Accepted Answer

Nah I'm totally the same way. I want them to treat me like their own little personal fucktoy.

DBmusic3 · Accepted Answer

yeah, I like it too

ThatGuy1925 · Answer

usually i keep an entire side of the closet full of ties, ropes, paddles and shit like that, every girl i'm with loves to be tied up and spanked and choked, some of them didn't even know until i tried it on them and now they beg me to choke them with my cock, i think a lot of people like it they just might not know

Berethor · Answer

Masochism is not really normal, but men who is stronger and/or more dominant then women it's normal, anyway you can to it even if it's not normal, as long as it's legal.

CHARismatic110 · Answer

More normal than you think.

Prof_Don · Answer

You will be shocked at how many women enjoy the same "dominated" kinks that you do! :)

OptimisticallyBryant · Answer

I need to find a female like you in my area. Lol. Lucky guy

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

Yeahhh girl wanting to be dominating is just hot beyond words

NotTheFBI · Answer

Hey if thats what she's into I'll do it. But of course 'with care' but damn we got some real freaks on GAG... AND THATS AWESOME LOL :P

orphan · Answer

yup. .

Jessicocoa · Answer

Yeah It's pretty normal.

IceEverest · Answer

#ItsNormal Its a common girl fetish

FrenchyRomain · Answer

i dominate my partners exactly how you described... so yeah it is normal we all have our turn ons... message me if you want to

rahul6023 · Answer

it's quite normal to have fantasies. have fun.

Countrystrong · Answer

Mm mm dam

abc--123 · Answer

Seems fairly normal to me

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know how normal it is, it's not wildly uncommon. I find all that hot, sadly my partner doesn't -_-

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it's normal. I've done it a few times and it's hot I even used and abused a girl and she got soo wet before I even touched her sexually. I really want to use and abuse a girl no holding back.