So , if size really does matter , how to cope with what I have?

[LifeIsGood92]

Ok , first i'm kinda new here , i looked for 2 days about the *penis size questions* here , i have a kinda small one ( 5.5 inches ) , and found that most of the answers preferred a one in range of 7 - 8 ones So my actual question , did any man who had like what i had get out of this frustration? i already had a hard family time and all i want is a family to spend good time with , a family I create , but the thought of a woman who just would accept a small one if it's love or family BUT would always take a bigger one IF she could or would be much happier and feels more full ( or whatever you call it ) makes me a little sad So advice please , and thanks for reading

[Anonymous]

5.5" is not kinda small, it's even a bit above average I think.

Those girls saying they like 7-8 best don't know what they're talking about. I've had it and sure, it feels great and looks nice, but after a ehile it gets pretty boring. They can't do a lot of fun positions because that hurts. They are too big for butt stuff. They require a lot of foreplay. The guy has to hold back with every move.

Try to focus your attention on things you can change or improve and accept the fact that girls don't find it a dealbreaker anyways. We can't all be perfect and even if you have a small penis, you can just have other qualities.

[LifeIsGood92]

I would want to be perfect in that area , i find that looks and other things such as the penis are better to have than the *other* developed qualities , many many women date assholes and guys with better looks overall , i side character qualities i find then not very much worth it these days but thank you anyway

[Opinion Owner]

Even in the looks department, face and body and clothing- and hairstyle are more important to girls than penis size.

[kristyle]

Well it is not true that everyone has a preference of 7-8. There was another post on if it matters to know a man's size before dating and if you seen that one (I could link you to it) most women said no. I believe 5.5 is right about or near average, so don't worry.

[LifeIsGood92]

yeah 5.5 seems in the *not bad* zone but never mentioned anywhere in the *preferred*

[kristyle]

Yeah that might be said by women who can accommodate a larger size, or women that absolutely just must have a particular size of 7/8. However, you have to keep in mind that a woman's vagina on average is only 3 - 4 inches deep and in some women vaginas reach 5 - 7 inches deep. So an 8 inch and even 7 can be painful for some women. Don't get hung up on a poll or survey of women that want a 7 or 8 inch when a good majority of women according to the average could not even handle all of that.

[LifeIsGood92]

Thanks for ur reply , dunno if its excessive insecurity for me or what , all i wanted is to make my woman happy with what i have , i hope i find one who is like you say...

[kristyle]

Yeah, please don't worry consider how much a woman's vagina can accomodate. I have actually read stories of women that rejected a guy for being too larger, found it so painful she was more than happy to go to a guy of average size, women do not need all of that length. So relax and do not beat yourself up about it. 5.5 is able to satisfy. Be glad that you are not like the men that have a micro penis, I feel sorry for them they cannot even penetrate a woman. So be glad for what you have and remember there are guys that are much smaller than you and guys larger than you that cause a woman pain with their size. Definitely insecurities showing learn to let it go, 5.5 is enough for a good majority of women.

[LifeIsGood92]

Thanks a lot for your comment , ur a good person Its always the thought that if everything is equal a woman would always take the 7-8 over the 5-6 ones Maybe i am wrong or not , its just sad that i even do not remember when i started worrying that much , in the past i never worried , thanks a lot , fan i message you if i want to ask about something else?

[kristyle]

Yes, feel free to message me if you have any questions that you feel I may be able to help you with.

[LifeIsGood92]

Ok , after i finish work i will message you 😊😊

[Anonymous]

I really don't feel like size matters. & 5.5 isn't bad at all. It just depends on the woman and their preferences. You just have to know how to use it. if the woman likes you pe is size won't matter much. Don't be so insecure, you'll find the right one

[LifeIsGood92]

Yeah 5.5 ain't bad but it ain't very good either , i have to search for a girl who would be very happy with it , because once wheb i had a girlfriend she also thought of it as *not bad but not perfect*

[Opinion Owner]

There's no such thing as bad or good. My boyfriend is 6 inches. Trust me I love his penis lol but honestly there's nothing wrong with it in my opinion

[LifeIsGood92]

Good for him , thanks for your reply

[Anonymous]

5.5 is pretty normal. 7 is well above average, 8 is extremely far to the right of the curve. When you find a question like that on here regarding what dick size the women prefer, most aren't going to answer because they don't have a particular preference. The ones who do answer are going to be size queens who could sit on a fire hydrant and touch the ground. And if the rest do answer and say something like "whatever's normal" you're going to gloss over that because you're already insecure.

If you're still concerned, thundersplace. org

[mikeaaa]

That's the average size, worldwide. The bigger sizes aren't as common but get attention. Just relax. That's biology big enough for her to enjoy. As for psychological I don't know. Most of your concern is just that your concerns. I mean really do you honestly want a girl that that's how she deside if you have value.

[LifeIsGood92]

Nope i do not want that of course , it's a thought that is bugging me for sometime , only when i'm alone it starts to come to my mind that even a respectful woman would love a bigger one , i read that what i have is average , dunno why i still see it as small Confusing thing , my mind is not set right in this particular topic , thanks for you opinion

[mikeaaa]

Trust in that you are not your cock. Your cock is just one part of you. Don't let fear confuse you. You are most welcome

[prettylittlemynx]

Develop your skills in dirty talk, teasing, fingering, oral, positions, and having a developed unique but not off putting personality

[LifeIsGood92]

Good , whatif you have many of these but still limited due to something you have no control of? Having qualities are a plus but the main problem is there , personal qualities are awsome but when majority have them then women look for other factors For example if 2 men have the same personal qualities , every woman would always go to the one with 7-8 penis instead of the 5-6 one you get me?

[EmpatheticLady]

Kinda small? That's pretty average size. I wouldn't be worried about that.

[Mustachekitteh]

That's average size and there are women who live dicks that size.

[LifeIsGood92]

Very small percentage of women yes , so it's hard when thats average size for men and small % of women likes it...

[yololoyo]

dude you could have 4 inches long and it wouldn't matter if you understand that sex for women is much less physical than emotional

sure they like to be pounded like they've never had the chance to before, but if you're too worried about your dong's size you'll not get anywhere with chicks

[thatboye]

To some it does to some it doesn't. I have been used a couple of times because of it, but it's no big deal.

[Bandit74]

There was a guy who had his dick cut off and thrown down the garbage disposal. Whenever you're feeling down you can think "Gee, I'm glad I'm not that guy".

[Dandeus]

5.5" is exactly average.

I'd love to have a Ferrari, but my needs can still be met with a Honda. Just because someone says they would like to have something, doesn't mean they can't be happy without it.

[orphan]

go look at the numbers of self measured studies vs not self measured..

difference is about 1.5-2 inches.

[GreatnessRevamped]

I think your junk is fine. The woman's vagina nerves, where most of the pleasure is, it 3 inches in. You are good.
Also, you have any doubts, undoubt yourself by upping your foreplay game and get some tongue action in.
Good luck

[daremetwo]

Most who say 7-8 " don't have an idea what it really looks like. They are only going on what their guy bragged on. At 5.5 " you as average as any guy. you'll do fine.

[LifeIsGood92]

What do mean by *qhat their guys bragged on* , if most woman or majority says they want a 7-8 one what does it have to do with guys bragging?

[cavmanier]

They think the 6" guy is 8" because the guy lied to them.

[daremetwo]

@cavmanier Like @cavmanier said many guys lie about how well endowed they are"they tell a girl it's 7-8" some even stretch it further when in reality it's only 5-6".

[idiotmanchild]

5.5 is average dude...

[Noxifer626]

That's actually the world average.

[Anonymous]

It's prefer as in 'all else being equal, they'd prefer' not absolutely must have or it's a deal breaker. There is always something about the other person you'd prefer to be different.

[Anonymous]

At the end of the day If they love you for you it wouldn't phase them, if they change their decision because of the size then they're not worth it

[Anonymous]

5.5 small? try 4 baby! lol