Could my sister be bisexual , are these signs of her being interested in girls?

Question

I know none of you will be able to tell what her sexuality is 100% just by a few details about her but i just want your opinions. I'm Catholic and homophobic just to get that out of the way and no i'm not a bad person i just dislike gay people - a man was made for a woman. I know people tend to be more accepting now that it's 2016 so if you gotta problem with my homophobia then leave. Ok so let me give you a few reasons as to why i think she may be a bisexual. Now, i don't believe she is fully attracted to girls because she has always been interested in men but still, the though of her even being slightly into women grosses me out.
- she's 15 years old so- it may just be a phase because i just started noticing these weird things
-she has a tumblr account and i stalked it once - all she reblogs is pictures of naked women - VS models and she follows this one page called "petite girls with big tits" she reblogged once a quote about loving a girl and many of her quotes have the pronouns "she, her" she hardly reblogs any naked men etc.
- i asked her a few weeks ago if she was interested in girls and she got really mad and denied it plenty of times
- she keeps talking about this "cute" (in her mind) lesbian couple. She's obsessed with them
- we were talking in her room late at night. We were talking about relationships (she's never had a boyfriend ) and she said she "wanted" to "turn" lesbian because men were rude, shallow and terrible. But i think she's actually just interested in girls and wants an excuse.
- i caught her masturbating to lesbian porn
- she has thousands of pictures of attractive girls in her camera roll
- she always talks about her celebrity " woman crush"
so, what do you think?

Answer 1

Ms_December

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I think she sounds like a normal 15 year old girl. I do all of those things and I am straight. Girls at that age love to look at other girls who are pretty or popular because thats what they want to aspire to. Perhaps she is feeling insecure about not having a boyfriend or not looking a certain way so she has found other outlets. Also, lesbian porn is a popular genre for most women, because honestly looking at a penis is not all that great. I wouldn't worry about it, these are all pretty normal behaviors. However, if your sister does turn out to be lesbian or bisexual, I hope that you will be able to put aside your bias and see your sister for who she is regardless of who she chooses to love. But for now, I really wouldn't worry about it too much... and maybe just give her a bit of space and tell her that she's great just how she is.

Asker

+1 y
Lol you don't sound too straight either.. At 15 years old i was obsessibg over cute guys. I thought and still think dicks are sexy and all i watch is gay porn (guy on guy) i just don't see how you would consider that normal 15 hear old girl behavior but thanks for your opinion.

Answer 2

Asker

Lol you don't sound too straight either.. At 15 years old i was obsessibg over cute guys. I thought and still think dicks are sexy and all i watch is gay porn (guy on guy) i just don't see how you would consider that normal 15 hear old girl behavior but thanks for your opinion.

Answer 3

Anonymous

Yes, she sounds very gay. Bisexuality isn't a phase. I don't think she will come out to you in a long time now since you asked her , she probably got scared. it's okay. Just accept her. She can't change her feelings about women.

Answer 4

DianeDuffus

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At 15 years of age you don't know what the hell she is. Most likely she's just going through a normal phase and you are overreacting

Answer 5

WhaChaChaKing | 1.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Dude, she's at the very least bi. Probably a lesbian though.

Answer 6

Dim_121

Yoda

It sounds like she is a teenage girl who has access to naked women-her peers in her mind. She is starting to think that being lesbain is easyer to be because you don't have to deal with guys. Which is a big lie/myth being propogated around. She is growing and learning what she likes. Show her some good guy/girl porn that you love and have a good catholic couple sit down and talk with her. Or get her a therapist to talk with. All teens these days and back when I was in school need someone to talk to about anything. Because we are dealing with so much as teenagers.

Answer 7

Intraluminal | 5.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Gay. Remember the Bible says, "hate the sin, love the sinner."

Josht11

+1 y
Remember no one gives a shit.
edibor

+1 y
I'm all for the implications of your message of love people no matter their faults because they are people, just felt the need to point out that the Bible doesn't say this. St. Augustine (and later Gandhi) did. Splitting hairs, I know.
Intraluminal

+1 y
@edibor
Thank you. As I wrote it, I wasn't sure where I had seen it, although Mary Magdalene provides a clear Jesus-lead example.

Answer 8

Josht11

Remember no one gives a shit.

Answer 9

edibor

I'm all for the implications of your message of love people no matter their faults because they are people, just felt the need to point out that the Bible doesn't say this. St. Augustine (and later Gandhi) did. Splitting hairs, I know.

Answer 10

Intraluminal

@edibor
Thank you. As I wrote it, I wasn't sure where I had seen it, although Mary Magdalene provides a clear Jesus-lead example.

Answer 11

bilal123s

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Well since she is only 15 she is discovering her sexuality but u can help her to stop doing that talk to her nicely tell her it is wrong try to reason with her but do not yell at her or make her by force to stop doing that cz she will have even more feelings to lesbians

Answer 12

pewdiepie_ | 459 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

She is becoming a Lesbian. As a straight man, I can say that you are true
" Man is made for Woman". And I love girls and Women only. The above facts are the indication of her turning into Lesbian. At the same time, she is a Girl and the theory applies here "Men and Women" one. So she is Bisexual and Lesbian. And if she hates Men by any means and does only take an interest in Girly things then she may completely turn into a Lesbian one day.

Answer 13

Lithium65 | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Firstly, God calls us to love. Being "homophobic" implies hate.
As a Catholic, I don't agree with lgbt either. But all we can do is pray And love. Ultimately between them and God.
As a good guy myself, who is single, I find it a little ludicrous when women "can't find a good guy" when guys don't get any sweeter than me (not to brag ;) ) bc I'm an example of one and still can't get the time of day.
Sounds bi curious

Answer 14

OlderAndWiser | 14.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

It sounds like a very strong possibility, but I think many adolescent girls go through a phase of acting as if they are interested in women and then turning 100% heterosexual when the right guy shows up.

Answer 15

masterkamasutra | 18.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I think its normal, because watching a les or masturbating to it not make her bi-sex, les porn are more attractive and nude girls are more appealing, may be she doing so. Take it easy, even if she become Bi you have no rights to stop her for do anything.

Asker

+1 y
Nude girls are not more appealing at all. I'm straight and all i like to see is naked men. I hope she isn't bi or lesbian but whatever i'll just have to learn how to deal with it i guess
masterkamasutra

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You have to understand that, there are more nude girl visual than guys because most of the people with both gender find nude girls attractive while in case of men people are selective, men nudes are mostly centralized to their dicks, if you see in porn, female get full visual 90% of time while men get hardly 20%, the visual of their dick get the 90% chance. that all over attraction about girls can lead her to think that way. but it happens till she dont get fucked, once she get fucked things can change totally.

Answer 16

Asker

Nude girls are not more appealing at all. I'm straight and all i like to see is naked men. I hope she isn't bi or lesbian but whatever i'll just have to learn how to deal with it i guess

Answer 17

masterkamasutra

You have to understand that, there are more nude girl visual than guys because most of the people with both gender find nude girls attractive while in case of men people are selective, men nudes are mostly centralized to their dicks, if you see in porn, female get full visual 90% of time while men get hardly 20%, the visual of their dick get the 90% chance. that all over attraction about girls can lead her to think that way. but it happens till she dont get fucked, once she get fucked things can change totally.

Answer 18

Anonymous

BURN THE WITCH !!! / s

All kidding aside, "i caught her masturbating to lesbian porn" this would have been my only clue that I would have needed.

But I hardly think she's bi, pretty clear she's lesbian. But seems like the poor kid is in for a very miserable life if you and your family don't accept her as she is and stand by her and give her your full and complete support

Answer 19

skeptic007

Yoda

ill teach you something
you don't have too be homophobic
but don't believe that stuff they say that there born that way its a lie
I have gay friends but I don't believe half the shit that comes out there mouth lol

Answer 20

Josht11

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100% homo in denial. course she's never gonna admit if you describe yourself as a homophobe I know I wouldn't and I'm bi.

Asker

+1 y
She says she's homophobic too. Which doesn't really make sense but my whole family is catholic.

Answer 21

Asker

She says she's homophobic too. Which doesn't really make sense but my whole family is catholic.

Answer 22

Patmedley26 | 55 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

Yeah probably... ik a girl who does the same thing and openly admits to being bisexual

Answer 23

IamHungry | 185 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Eh it happens. Sounds like she's probably thought about test driving a chick.

Answer 24

Anonymous

Sounds like she could be bi or lesbian. She probably won't admit it though because of the Catholic upbringing and saying how you are homophobic. She is your sister, love her no matter what.

Answer 25

Anonymous

She could be.

But in the long run? She's your sister. Don't be an ass if she does. It's 2016. Homosexuals exist. It's 100% fine. Get the fuck over it and be a good and supportive sister if she is.

Answer 26

Mario21

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Probably a phase she's going through. Hello fellow Catholic lol

🐓💨

Answer 27

Anonymous

I think you're Catholic and homophobic.

Get a life.

Opinion Owner

+1 y
Just come out he closet.
Asker

+1 y
Me? Why should i come out of the closet if i'm straight.
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Too obsessed with someone else's possible bisexual interests

Answer 28

Opinion Owner

Just come out he closet.

Answer 29

Asker

Me? Why should i come out of the closet if i'm straight.

Answer 30

Opinion Owner

Too obsessed with someone else's possible bisexual interests

Answer 31

MasterofYou

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She sounds very hot... You are hot too.

Answer 32

Stanley23

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She's gay and in the closet!

Could my sister be bisexual , are these signs of her being interested in girls?

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