Guys: Have you ever been caught jerking off by your girlfriend. Girls: have your ever caught her boyfriend jerking off? Should she be mad at me?

My girlfriend is super pissed off at me. We were cuddle and she was look really sexy, so I decided to try and get laid. She said she wasn't in the mood. After a while I was still hard so I took a shower and took care of myself. She walked in on me jerking off and she got mad at me. Now she won't even cuddle with me. Now I'm stuck watching a chick Flix that I don't want to watch. Should she be mad that I jerk off.
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  • Yeah she is wrong to be upset with you. I dated someone that got pissed at me when i did it. Same situation except for we hadn't done it in over a week. Every time i asked, and it was not daily, i think i asked twice in that time period, i would get the "All you care about is sex" lecture. So i was taking care of my self, she found out and got pissed at me, She tells me that its the same as cheating, that i am only supposed to do anything sexual with her. I told her that i would happily do it with her if i didn't face rejection all the time, and furthermore at least i am not going out and getting it elsewhere. I also explained to her that it is my body, and i will do with it what i wish.

    That relationship did not last very long.

    Fast forward 4 years i am with my current wife, and she catches me, i feel terrible about it, she walks out, walks back in completely naked and jumps on top. Not complaining.

  • Thats stupid. First and foremost you whent to her first so if she declined you (which she really shouldn't have) what the hell does she expect you to do? Be sexually frustrated? You should be furious at her not the other way around. Tell her that is bullshit that she rejected you so you took care of your urges yourself, if she has a problem with that then don't fucking reject you. Thats just idioticly stupid on her part. I would have laughed at her if she suggested I had done something wrong. Seriously that is stupid.

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  • I caught my guy once. I was shocked! It was actually one off my first questions posed on gag. After many comments and some thought, he and I talked it out and I apologized for getting upset. I realized its normal and it didn't mean he's less attracted to me. Since then our relationship had been much better. We tell each other when we do it. But always make sure our mutual sex comes first💜

    • Sorry, I didn't first read your details. While I still think communication is important you'd have more reason to be upset then her. hopefully it's worked out

  • If you are posting this in the midst of whats happening I suggest talking to her about the problem. Communication!

    Answer is no. If I don't want sex he'll ask is it okay if he jerks off. I'll say yeah.
    But, I usually end up giving him a bj, hand job or having sex bc I got turned on watching.
    He's never caught me bc I don't do that and if I want sex he always says yes.

  • No if she doesn't want to put out when you're horny what does she expect to happen, let you stare sadly at your boner? lol. Shit I'd be complimented if my boyfriend did. Like thank you for indirectly telling me I'm sexy/hot. Anyways let her get off her high horse you're fine.

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  • I really don't see the problem... She wasn't in the mood... You were turned on by her not porn... And its not like you did it right in front of her.
    I have never caught my boyfriend but I really wouldn't be mad, I do it so why can't he. I don't expect him to suffer because I'm not in the mood, I might actually enjoy watching him.

  • I do it on purpose when I want to get into "trouble" I'll jerk off close enough to hear me when I'm loud, once I'm getting close to edging I'll get noisy and get his attention. I always get punished when he punishes me.

  • Dont let somebody fuck your mood up. Its hers problems, not yours.

  • No. If you want to jerk off jerk off. She can't be insulted if she didn't want it, and honestly if i were her and I caught you I'd help you out and ufck you right away

    • That is what I was thinking to

  • I don't see the big deal with it. If you need to do it then you should be able to. It's not something to get mad over.

    I haven't caught my boyfriend doing it but even if I did I wouldn't get mad about it.

  • No, she is ignorant.

  • No, but I think she is a bit immature to deal with it. To me it sounds like she is a bit controlling. So be careful or you will be in a bad relationship. Good luck

  • Her attitude is unacceptable. She gets to decide whether or not she wants to have sex with you. She doesn't get to decide that you can't masturbate after she declines sex. She is way too controlling and has fucked-up ideas about sex. Dump her. This shit runs deep, and is not going to get better anytime soon.

  • To some girls I guess it could be seen as cheating. That's not really something she should get mad about though.

  • Really? You were horny and she rejected sex so you gotta masturbate. Get out while you still can. She's crazy to be super pissed. She should only be mad if she wanted sex and you rejected to go masturbate. Don't go to the chick flick. Stand up to her. She isn't worth it tbh if she's that bitchy.

  • i was so angry that i jerked him hard lol. i feel sorry now

    • My girlfriend jerks really really hard to

    • Love being jerked hard

    • Like being jerked hard

  • Only if you get mad at her for having periods.

  • I don't see the problem. my ex-boyfriend was really open about jerking off. I always thought being open about stuff like that was normal for relationships. it makes no sense for her to be mad about it? like wtf?

  • my girl like to see me do

  • I’ve never been caught but I’ve openly jerked off of my girlfriend wasn’t in the mood. I dated one girl who was like the hottest girl from my high school but was never in the mood, when she rejected my advances I finally started getting off to some girls Instagram pics and she lost it on me. I said what do you expect if you won’t satisfy me.

  • I get girls who get upset when a guy jerks off while they're there and wanting more but emh.. She said no. You dealt with it in a classy enough way.

    If she's upset it will be about some other feeling. Maybe she's questioning your emotional attachment to her or alike. Who knows. Talk to the girl.

  • If you turned down sex and jerked off, yes.

    In this situation, you should not accept having done anything wrong.

    Seriously, red flag.

  • She's way out of line. It's your body - she has no say.

  • No, but she might not know that guys need to jerk off often otherwise they explode. Explain that to her, Google some articles and show her.