My woman literally tells me to move over or go slow or whatever. But we're far beyond our first sexual encounter, it's more like married people sex, still great though. I do the same to her, I'll tell her to turn around or get on her stomach, it never kills the mood or makes things awkward. And I prefer the direct honesty, I hate had to guess if I'm doing something right or wrong, and most guys hate guessing in their relationships in general. Most guys want you to be direct about stuff.
First you have to talk about sex: what you need, what you want, what you like, and all the opposites that you don't. That'll preclude a lot of what you're experiencing. If you want to suggest, do it away from the sex when he's not under pressure. He'll be much more receptive. Then be positive and tactful.
If he's doing things that don't work for me at all or hurt, I just tell him. 'Go faster', 'move down a bit', 'ouch, that hurts',.
I don't mind getting similar directions from him at all. I mean... a lot of the enjoyment that I get from sexual activities is from seeing how much he enjoys himself so the better suited what I'm doing is to what works for him, the better.
Make sure you vocalize the good. When somethings going well, make it known. When something isn't, just shift your hips or arch your back till things are at a more pleasant angle. If you can't find that, then just say, "hey babe, will you do that thing where you..." And say I love how you do that to me. He should be glad to
Do it first and then he'll follow. Or place his hands in a certain place and he'll get the hint. When you agree on the position, angle, spot whatever, tell him it feels really good and he'll keep going
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It weird because you probably don't practice it. A good way to start is to give yourself direction when you touch yourself.
Haha how on earth can you assume that while we're perfect strangers. No this question isn't about knowing what i like, but about communication
Yeah but I'm talking about how you implied that it's awkward but it's really not, it's normal and to get rid of you feeling awkward you should practice giving commands.
I am naturally submissive , so are better at taking commands
But I have been a master a few times and ruled women
You don't "give directions" per say...
You say stuff like "ohh right there" or "Yeah yeah just like that" when he is doing it right, and if he isn't doing it right, you simply grab hold of his head or hips and take control... move him to the right spot and then repeat the comments above.
Then he doesn't see it as a direction but just a general adjustment.
Give him a map and say "Gut gud, fgt", he'll shape up.
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hun just tell him trust me if you can POINT AT THE EXACT SPOT WHERE YOU WANNA BE TOUCHED
makes are job a lot easier
give direction like talking and expressing, that works easy.
yes let him know what works and what doesn't. Just say slower, faster, harder, softer etc. then enjoy it when it works x
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Well being on top is a good start since you can control it how you like, but other than that, just tell him 'faster', 'slower', 'More to the right', I don't think it has to be complicated talks to one another, just be direct.
I'm not sure, what kind of directions?
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