Men's view on porn?

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Firstly, me and my boyfriend are different nationalities, and I'm still learning about cultural differences. One day I was trying to explain something to him and couldn't find the right English term for it, so I used his phone to search for its translation. He handed it to me, so it was cool. Once I hit the first letter of the word ('p'), the browser suggested a porn site. When I asked him about it, he said very relaxed that he uses it whenever I'm too tired and he feels like he'd explode otherwise. The way I see it though, he'd rather jerk off fantasizing about having sex with another woman than wait a day. And I find that uncomfortably close to cheating. "Sorry babe, I just had to, my testicles told me to." Anyway, we talked and he said he had no idea I'd feel this way, and he'll stop. I am the sort of person that would score 0% in a test of how-much-do-you-trust-humans, I'm working on it. I know that he loves me, but I feel it's very obvious what he did is not okay when in a serious relationship. He's very smart, did he really not see that? Could it be just cultural difference? Today I checked his fb, and I feel very guilty about it. I don't want to tell him I invaded his privacy. We always read each others messages while writting them so it's fine, but I did it with the intention to find something. He keeps talking with his ex, they had an absolutely horrendous relationship in which she basically abused him emotionally (from his side at least) and he said she turned into a crazy bitch once they started going out. They make jokes, send x's at the end of goodnight's. He knows I don't feel okay with it, but he told her I am. Should I talk to him about what I did and how I feel or will that end up in a pointless mess?
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