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There a lot of guys there no wonder why.
Girls happen to be much more shallow than guys. You know the 80/20 theory? It is a theory that states that 80% of the girls in the society are attracted to only 20% of the guys. So yeah, that leaves a lot more guys being virgins after a certain age than girls.
@MyUsernameRules I've never heard that theory before, interesting. A lot of guys will sleep with anything that breathes these days and so many young girls are becoming bicyles. For this reason I don't think being a virgin till a late age is necessarily a bad thing. It could be if you want to sleep with multiple women before you settle down. Let's say the person you first slept with was the one you wanted to marry but you haven't experienced other women and want to then it would be a downfall, aside from this I think it's great. I'm much more inclined to sleep with a guy who hasn't slept around rarther then someone who has.
"A lot of guys will sleep with anything that breathes these days and so many young girls are becoming bicyles."I'm aware of that but I'm not talking about sex. Girls just happen to be more shallow than guys. When it comes to height, girls are more shallow. When it comes to money, girls are more shallow. When it comes to body, girls are more shallow. Even though overweight people of both genders have a disadvantage compared to the fit ones, overweight girls still have a much better shot at dating than overweight guys. There are way more fit guys who date overweight girls than fit girls dating overweight guys. The only time fit girls date overweight guys is when they're rich usually. Also race and skin color is a big factor too. Guys of all races and skin color may have preferences but are still attracted to girls of all races and skin color usually. Whereas girls of all races and skin color are too fixated on guys of certain races and skin color.
Guys of other races and skin color who are at a disadvantage have to compensate with either height, muscles, or money in order to be considered attractive by girls. There are just so many factors when it comes to girls and their shallowness. That's why there are dozens of guys in their 30's who are still virgins while it's rare to find a girl in her 30's who still a virgin. Shallowness is the reason why.
@MyUsernameRules I don't think so, sure girls can be shallow in regards to looks and materialistic things but not all girls. I can understand guys would have trouble if they were completely unattractive with no personality but honestly a lot of girls go for personality these days I can almost guarantee that a girl would date a guy with a great personality over a guy who's boring and attractive. Girls like guys who have a direction in life it's not about money. My ex boyfriend was ethnic he was born in Australia but had parents who were papua new guinea. He wasn't the most attractive guy but because he had a personality that instantly clicked with mine he became the best looking guy to ME. He wasn't made of money, wasn't studying anything, was working full time in a job he hated with no direction. I was his first relationship, first sex partner first everything and it honestly was a great relationship and possibly the best sexual partner I've ever had and he was completely inexperienced
@MyUsernameRules I know a few girls who are virgins in there late 20's and 30's. I agree it's rare to find them and I agree that it comes down to shallowness, once again I'll repeat this; guys will sleep with anything that breathes if they have the opportunity this is why it's rare to find virgin females. a lot of men are content to get there dicks wet and are careless about things that they should in regards to females and some men are absolute pigs and have idealistic views on women and this is why they are Virgins.
I'm not saying all girls but generally, girls are much more shallow than guys. Girls from what I see only go for unattractive guys when he is either really tall, muscular, or mainly rich. If not then he has no shot no matter how great his personality might be. Direction in life? You mean a code for direction in making a lot of money? Or more money than them at least? If they don't land a rich guy? If so then I agree. And that maybe true with you but just saying that there are way more shallow girls than shallow guys. How tall was your ethnic ex boyfriend by the way?
"guys will sleep with anything that breathes if they have the opportunity this is why it's rare to find virgin females."You mean the few desirable guys who the majority of the girls are attracted? If so, yeah that's true. But not guys in general. Cause if that was the case then why are there so many more virgin guys than virgin girls?"a lot of men are content to get there dicks wet and are careless about things that they should in regards to females and some men are absolute pigs and have idealistic views on women and this is why they are Virgins."The guys who just wanna get their dicks wet and sleep around are the limited guys who a great majority of the girls are attracted to. Those girls only want the limited guys so those limited guys have the advantage of using them for sex since these girls literally throw themselves at these guys.
The "pigs" are the guys who are sleeping around among the limited population of guys who girls are attracted to. Girls know are very well aware about these guys being players and what not yet still keep on going back to them. They know that a lot of these guys are surrounded by multiple girls and sleeping with them yet many still happen to go to them. And then after that they complain about how guys are pigs and wanna get their dicks wet only. Yet they usually completely ignore guys who don't fit in the 20% of the top class that genuinely show interest in them. Many of those guys happen to be virgins and not many guys among them are "pigs" like you say. Or else they would have resorted to prostitutes if they were.
Aaaand you didn't tell me your ethnic ex boyfriend's height. Lol.
@MyUsernameRules Sorry I didn't see that you even replied to my last post. My ex wasn't tall at all he was about 160-163cm tall which was good for me as im only short aswell.
Why do you think you are unattractive?
@hairydudesrock Because I belong to the race of men considered the least attractive by women all over the world, I'm short, and my facial structure is a bit weird.
And what race is that? And height and looks don't matter to some women, do you really think that we're all that shallow?
@hairydudesrock I'm an Indian man, and Indian men are consisted least attractive by women all over the world. Even Indian women don't want us.
Rubbish. There are millions of western women who have married Indian men. And there are very handsome Indian men.
@hairydudesrock I hope you aren't referring to Indian actors or models here. Because a lot of people say Indian men are handsome, bit then as an example they show images of actors.
No, I'm not referring to Indian actors or models, I couldn't tell you the name of any Indian actors or models. I'm on about Indian men I see in the street , I have an Indian friend and he's very handsome. I have also seen British women married to Indian men. I don't see how you can say that women find Indian men unattractive when it's simply not true.
@hairydudesrock Lots of online surveys say that women find Indian men the least physically attractive. Also, people say stuff like "Indian men are perverted rapists", "Indian men smell like curry" etc.
Not all women share those views, we're not all racist you know!
@hairydudesrock I don't know. I live in an area where I'm the minority, women here just aren't attracted to me although I'm above average looking, well educated, maintain good hygiene and keep myself well-groomed. And I can't move to a different city just because I am not wanted here by women. Besides, I don't know if the same thing will happen there as well.
Do you think that you are somehow preventing women from approaching you? If you are giving off unconscious negative signals then women will stay away. Body posture goes a long way, if you have your arms folded and look tense and avoid eye contact and frown then women will avoid you. Try smiling and being friendly
I'm 29 and still a virgin
Im looking for another virgin close to my age to date I'm 29 yr. Old female
you'd still be a beautiful angel even if had already lost your virginity :3
@Raymond_Reddington What do you mean?
you don't easily take compliments do you? :P
@Raymond_Reddington No I did mean it that way
You're not making it easy for a guy to compliment you :P i only wanted to say that i think you're beautiful.
@Raymond_Reddington Well thank you for your complement :)
yeah, it wasn't easy to give XD jk jk lol :Pdon't mention it ^-^
Thanks again :)
Don't mention it :3 just speaking the truth ^-^
@Raymond_Reddington thank you
I'm not the oldest one lol but Thank you for the HMO :)
Hahahah nice one. (wouldn't bet on that though)
He once told about how when he was young, he used to be chasing girls like any other boy.
@mikemx55 Do you ruin jokes at parties, too?
Yup, and then there is an awkward pause. Then I say some trivia to break the moment like "they use symmetric number plates on advertising so they can flip the picture for left driving countries"then the pause is even longer
@mikemx55 Love it. I think I'd actually appreciate it
jk, I don't go to parties
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