My wife admitted to sleeping with my sister before we married , what should I do?

My wife who I just married a year ago admitted that a few weeks before our wedding she slept with my sister. She was broken up about it and said she couldn't hide it any longer. what am I to do about this? I'm completely frustrated! It was before marriage but we were obviously exclusive so she did cheat on me and with my sister! I didn't know she even liked girls until now! That's two fucking bombshells in one night!
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  • The time to ask this was when it happened BEFORE you were married. Possibly postpone the wedding. Since you married her after finding out, and it has been a year, it might be best to let the past go. But if it is causing you problems now, then maybe counseling.

    That is something that might have stopped my getting married.

    • @Red_Arrow how on earth am I to know this? Ask my wife if she's fucked any family members before the wedding? Damn no one does this! We discussed our sexual history before we engaged and I had no reason to think she would cheat on me after that and no need to clear it with her again

    • Sorry. When I read it it sounded like you were saying that she admitted it to you a few weeks before you married.

  • She did confess to what she did, out of guilt I don't think she will do it a second time. I know it kind of adds insult onto injury that she did it with your sister. The one who I think you should be most angry at is your sister who not only betrayed you, but doesn't seem to have felt guilty enough to tell you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I am completely stumped on what to say. Fist time ever. Wow.

  • Maybe you should invite your sister over more often! LOL

    • LOL!!!

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  • Get over it

  • be mad at her for not asking you to join them.

    • his sister?

    • @redeyemindtricks yeah his sis and his wife.

    • @Raymond_Reddington This isn't some fourteen year olds porn fantasy, I have no desire to fuck my sister that's twisted and gross!!! I'm pissed at both of them and seriously thinking of ending this marriage

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  • I would never speak to either one of them again.

  • This is for jerry springer.

  • wow that a tough one. I think since she's openly admitted to it. You got to forgive her and move on. Tell her you hate what she did but that you love her.

  • If i were you i would definetely confront your sister about it , as well as ur wife. in my opinion i would cut ties with both, because you deserve much better than a sister who slept with your wife and vice versa. its completely wrong and if i were in your shoes i would probably humiliate them both by announcing it to the world and all the family members, which getting a divorce , but thats just me.

  • Ask your sister to come over for dinner and some family fun 🚺👫

  • See if she's open to having a threesome with you and a girl who is not your sister.

  • Errrr... nothing?

  • Bro... she likes girls. Why is that bad? MFF threesome?

  • Oh wow. Sorry dude. I would have a hard time digesting that too