Guy I was kissing grabbed my butt, kissed my neck and pulled me really close, what does that mean?

It was in a bar. I'm asking because the guy was really nice and seemed to like me a lot. But then while we were kissing he started squeezing my butt, kissing my neck etc. Does that mean he only wants sex?
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  • Every guy who finds you attractive wants sex. That's what makes them male. The fact that guys want sex from you isn't at all remarkable - it's no more unique than them drawing breath.

    The question is: does he want MORE than just sex? And there's no where near enough information to know. You can only determine that with time and his continued levels of interest and enthusiasm.

    One more thing you should keep in mind, though: of the girls who a given guy finds attractive (and thus ultimately wants to have sex with, even if he doesn't expect to get to do so), most guys are only interested in RELATIONSHIPS or EMOTIONAL CONNECTIONS with maybe 10% of those girls, which means that 90% of the girls that a guy finds attractive he ONLY wants sex with, and nothing more. And THAT is why you need to make these kinds of evaluations over time. Only time will tell you what you need to know - unless you're just looking for casual sex yourself.

  • Maybe but it could also mean that he just finds you so hot and sexy he can't help himself. Or maybe some of both.

Most Helpful Girls

  • could be that or that he wants to be close to you and his way of showing he's attracted in you.

  • Whats his favorite color? Lol
    His middle name.. do you even know this guy?

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  • He wants sex, yes. More than that, who knows.

  • He wants sex

  • He was spicing it up. It can mean a lot of things

  • He's into you.

  • He was turned on sexually and squeezing your ass made him even hornier

  • There is no way of telling if he is looking for more than just sex, but he does at least want sex. At this point it doesn't sound like you know him enough to have formed any other sort of bond yet, so right now it is mostly based on lust. It would take more time with him to get to know if he wants more than sex.

  • ... I lol'd.

    • Same lmao