Guys, do you/would you kiss a girls forehead during a meaningless one night stand when it's the first time you meet (both agree it's meaningless)?

If you say Yes or No, please provide a reason why! And what you'd be thinking if you did or didn't. e. g. if you felt a connection, if you think it turns the girl on more, if it makes it more intense or passionate, etc.
Maybe (if it's really great sex)
Vote A
Yes
Vote B
No
Vote C
I haven't - but it's an idea!
Vote D
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Girl Guy
1 0

Most Helpful Guys

  • All girls love a kiss on the forehead. And you can say "meaningless" one night stand, but I say it is the exact opposite. Only because no sex with any other human is ever meaningless. You are exchanging your insides, your outsides, your soul, your desires, your fluids, your attraction, etc with another human being. He is going to be one of the select few people in your life that has ever been able to be in that position. The same position your ex's have been in, your next will be in, and your husband will be in. Wether or not y'all both agreed. You have now made history in each other's life. Especially if it was a one night stand, you should express yourself and treat that person with respect and loving fashion. Cliche but you live once. If it were me, I would kiss you on the forehead, cuddle, give you a massage, treat you like the women you deserve to be treated as. One night stand, week stand, fuck buddies, best friends, bf/gf, husband/wife. All share a mutual connection through physical contact and exchange of euphoria. We all deserve the same level of attention. I hope that's not digging to far into your question but 😋

    • THIS IS MY FAVOURITE THING EVER. Yes, that's exactly what I love and what I've been wanting to accomplish without accidentally getting into a relationship afterward (yep, that was my original first "one night stand" that didn't turn out as specifically as one night). But when I try to explain it, it never quite comes out right. I had had some rough days and just wanted to do something cheap and regrettable to focus my thoughts on something else, and instead I accomplished the exact opposite. And to my surprise, I don't regret it at all! This is the best thing I could ever read and my respect and adoration for you is insurmountable.

    • Oh my. Thank you 😍😘

  • It has been four decades since I had a meaningless ONS.

    When I kiss a girl on the forehead, I am trying to express affection in an obviously non-sexual way. Why would I do that with someone who I really don't know and am just using for a meaningless bedroom romp? It's not making love; it's just fucking, so why would I be expressing affection?

    • I respect this answer greatly. Honestly, this happened just last night. We didn't get along at first, then out of nowhere he turned around and took an interest when I turned cold on him. (He's a rugby player and I'm a neuropsychology student - I guess he became intrigued). It became more intimate/passionate (or at least a 10/10 pretend game) than I imagined a typical ONS would be. Is it possible that the right kind of sex can be enough to soften someone up and turn them passionate for just the heat of that moment?

    • It is more likely that he has feelings to which he ordinarily does not want to admit, but guys sometimes let down their guard and become vulnerable in the midst of an erotic encounter.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Guys Said

(3)
  • Maybe the guy wanted more than just a ONS. Maybe he likes your personality and wishes the ONS to turn into a relationship. But in your case I would be cautious, maybe he is just seeking attention. Do you know more about him? How would you describe his character and are you also a person who is into casual sex?

    • Commitment isn't really the strongest word in my dictionary, so I'm more of the dating and no-strings type. But I like to feel safe and secure, respected, and not like an object with them. But this guy doesn't want more. He's a national (and lesser known IN) rugby player who travels. Pretty sure he'll be gone before the end of the year too. So even if feelings were in the cards, they couldn't happen. I told him I'd like to see him again, even though we agreed it was a once off. He's agreed to it, so I'm not sure what next. Suppose I'll just wait around for the booty call. His character swears a lot, is a brute when he stands, and is a giant ogre of a teddy bear lying in bed. But he's tender and he respects me (even if we started on poor terms and insults) and I think that's cool.

    • But I'll make this the last time otherwise I'll be at risk of catching feelings. :p Those things suck.

  • kissing on forehead is a sign on love and affection. i think its a sign that you care about her.
    and If really like her sure I would do that

    • I hope most guys feel this way. I don't want it to be ruined by one night stands and meaningless sex.

  • She would have to rock my would and break my head board before I would do that. I don't want her to get it in her head that there is something there if there isn't

    • That was my typical thought. I guess people are drastically different.