He shouldn't mind but it'll be better if you teach him to do it. Have you tried cowgirl to orgasm?
Cowgirl tips
Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
• He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
• Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
• Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
• Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
• When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
• When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
• When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
• As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
• If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
• Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
• If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
• He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
• Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.
Hmm okay
Give it a try. I'm betting you'll really enjoy it.
Thanks for the MHG! Did it work?
No, girls cannot orgasm unless they have clitoral stimulation. I wouldn't be offended by that. What I would be offended by would be not being able to have a girl orgasm when I stimulate her clit.
If I was only providing vaginal stimulation, I wouldn't be offended, but if I am trying to get a girl off, help me do that, don't try to ignore my efforts and get yourself off. That's what I think.
Yeah I just feel like he might not be able to get me off with him rubbing my clit, just because it's different or not the way I like it, and it would be more effective if I did it
Well, I mean as long as you're nice about it.
With as many Relationships that I have had and of course this means Sex, @Justagirl106, Being you and 'My boyfriend and I have had sex three times' Only here, Dear... You are a Shy Girl yet.
Continue to Go slow with Joe so you both can explore All that there is to Know with Everything that is an Up and Down Flow.
It May or May not be a Dealbreaker for Some with 'I know I only orgasm if I have clit stimulation,' but I do Know it is a Turn On for Many when a guy Sees that you are Playing with yourself, but of Course... Don't forget to Include him, and that would be Something you both, as a Couple, would Need to work out and Put the Much Needed Team Effort into.
Good luck. xx
Thank you!
Oh, you are so welcome, swetie, and in time, when you get uses to one another, will become like Second Nature. xxoo
Oh, so welcome and thank you for the Vote of Confidence, dear. xxoo
Valid concern, but I think it depends on the guy and how confident he is in bed. Guys I've been with think it's hot. I'll sit on them and play with myself and get myself to cum while they're inside me and they love it.
Okay thanks!
How about while you are having sex you start rubbing it how you like and then you tell him to put his hand on top of yours so he feels like he is a part of it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I want her to get the most enjoyment possible, and I enjoy learning what gives her pleasure. both great reasons for me to want her to touch herself and I can watch.
In my experience, guys get super turned on by that so I'd say go for it!
Most men know women won't orgasm by penetration unless there's clit stimulation. Sex is supposed to be good for both so rub your clit and orgasm!! Plus, I'm sure he'll think its hot
It's sexy, don't worry about it
It's not weird. If you want to rub your own clit during intercourse, try doggy style or cowgirl. If you want him to lick your clit, tell him. You might enjoy him penetrating you with a vibrator while licking your clit. If you're shaved or trimmed that will help him see what he's doing.
Are you kidding me? Most guys that i know think that a girl playing during sex is hot as hell. You have absolutely nothing to be embarrassed of
its really hot! i always encourage my girlfriend to do that. just do it!
No, do it... it's not a question of whether he is doing a good job or not, but the way that you get off should be catered for... maybe he'll take the hint and do it for you when he sees what your fingers are working on
rub that shit out girl.
for me this is a bonus.. that's my choice of porn anyways. (watchin a girl rub her clit until she busts) so it's like watching live porn... and fucking my girlfriend... all at once. sensory overload.
No it's sexy
I usually just rub the girls clit while i fuck her, try telling him to do that... while he's fucking you just moan"rub my clit" trust me, if you tell a dude to do something durong sexy in a hot voice, he will do almost anything XD
Do you think he would take it personally if I'd rather run my clit than have him do it?
dpends on the size of his ego really, doubt it will bother him. But try and moan a lot to distract him a little
Haha okay thanks!
It's a turn on seeing a girl touch herself
go for it... It's hot to me... plus some girls need that. Never bothered me.
Is He uncircumcised or circumcised
Uncircumcised
You can play his foreskin with foreplay. its very Sexy for you.
Do it I can't see not not getting turn on
Some girls needs more hands to orgasm. I dont mind and i luv when my fb play with her clit boobs
no in fact I like it but you can also ask him to do it.
I don't care at all... many women need that to get off. I have had that happen a lot.. it turns me on.
Your first reason is YOUR problem and not a good one.
Your second reason is not justifiable.
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