Do you admit to your girlfriend that you watch porn and such?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend admits to watching porn and doing his thing all the time to me. Which I get it, guys gotta do that sometimes. But when is enough, enough? Like, go ahead and do it, just dont tell me about it. I think its super disrespectful. Am I just over reacting? He gets sex, not nearly as much as he wants, but he still gets it. If I gave it to him whenever he wanted we'd be doing it every night. I just feel like he has me, and he may not always get everything he wants from me but I still exist. I think its rude that he watches some other chick have sex and then lets me know about it. I also know he has toys for himself which also pisses me off. Guys- is this normal? Would you just do these things without telling your girl (which would make it a lot better to me) and girls- have you experienced this? What would you do? Am I crazy?

[vonasaurus]

everyone watches porn; anyone who tells you otherwise is either repressed, lying, or both.

my boyfriend and i both watch it, sometimes together and sometimes alone. i'm not threatened by it because it's normal and healthy to take care of your own needs from time to time, without having to worry about satisfying someone else.

that said... if you've told him that it bothers you, but he continues to do it anyway, he obviously doesn't respect your feelings and you need to decide if or not he's someone you want to date.

[Anonymous]

Your question makes you sound like a fairly uptight and insecure person which is not a particularly good thing. I hope it's not true because very few people are going to meet such demanding and unrealistic expectations as you have expressed.

[Protagoras]

Here's my perception,

I would tell my girlfriend if I watched porn, just so we had trust and I wasn't trying to hide anything from her. But I can also see this as maybe a way he wants you to share the experience with him. I am speculating here, but I would enjoy it if my significant other had something that she found arousing as well that she liked to pleasure herself with. So speaking for myself here, I would probably talk a lot about her with her as a way of inviting her into exploring other sexual things.

[Nomad69]

I always watched a lot of porn, now that I've been more sexually active as of late I have only watched porn like twice in the last two weeks. I tell her that and also that I haven't been watching it much lately. She watched lesbian porn and amateur so she doesn't mind

[Dargil]

There are areas that remain private.
Porn, poo and pudwhacking are three of them.

[reptocarl]

I don't watch porn and I think it's a form of cheating. It also proves he doesn't give a fuck about your feelings

[Protagoras]

Dumbest thing I've read today.

[reptocarl]

@Protagoras nobody asked you

[meatballs21]

She knows. I don't make a big deal of it or watch it around her, nor do I let it affect our sex life.

[Anonymous]

Then tell him if your going to that then don't tell me about it.

[Anonymous]

Tell him, not me, to stop telling you.