HELP! Can you get pregnant by precum if it only touches the outer vagina?

Me and a date had a little fun today which we shouldn't have... Anyways. He fingered me and I sucked him off. We are officially dating so it isn't a one time thing. But I am worried cause after sucking him (tasted some precum on the tip). He rubbed his penis on my outer vagina... Never entered. This lasted for some seconds before I finished him. I have had a boyfriend before and knows a little about sex but this "precum can make you pregnant discussion".. confuses me every time. And for the people that says no. Many people say that he needs to have a bit of cum on his opening for me to still get pregnant... But I don't understand. Help? And should I ask him. I just stop taking birth control some weeks ago and is defintly ovulating right now, so I am kinda fucked.
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and yes I was wet... I can't help myself... :P but no, my legs was not spread open they were closed kinda (in a poop posistion/twerking) so it was only the outside of my vagina he was rubbing.
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more info about this. I ovulated between 28/29 April (my egg went out 02/03) 04/05 may (it was 06 may when this happened) So I guess it is kinda too late for the sperm to reach any egg, and when he ejeculated it was quite clear. I have never seen anything so clear (semen) in my life.
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  • Um no, Your chances of getting pregnant by that are about the same as winning the Power ball lottery. or getting struck by lightning. If it was straight up ejaculate, it has to some how travel from out side the body and get in to ghe vaginal canal. From there its an extremely acidic environment, They would all die before it even made it to your cervix. If he came inside of you, you should worry, but precum on the lips is just impossible.

    • this calmed me down a lot this morning after thinking about it forever. thank you for your answer :D

    • You're very welcome.

    • I am not pregnant by the way. Got my period this morning! :D

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  • Well precum is mainly no sperm or just dead sperm but it is possible for some sperm to be released with it and yes at least according to girlshealth. gov sperm can swim inside on the outside of your vagina which of course could lead to pregnancy I'd have to say the chances of both these things happening are pretty slim but you could also take one of those morning after pills.

    • Thank you for you answer. :) After he did it I was sitting on my knees to finish him, so I hope enough wind was getting under there to kill the "sperm" if there was any..* The sucky thing about plan B is that it fucks your cycle.

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  • I seriously doubt you'll get pregnant, but there is a slight possibility. But you and he shouldn't take chances like that. If he can't keep his penis away from your labia then keep your underwear on when you're sucking him off and enjoying swallowing. You can't get pregnant from swallowing.

    • Yes I know.. it went to far. it is not happening again. I am going to get my pills tomorrow. So I shouldn't take plan b. Thanks for your good answer :)

    • I'm not a pharmacist. I don't know what the side effects and contraindications are for Plan B. You should be able to google that and quickly find out what they are.

    • I am not pregnant. Got my period today!!

  • The likelihood is slim, but there's always a chance. There's a debate on whether or not pre-cum has semen in it, and I think right now there isn't even a set answer, and it might just depend on the person and how their body works. I do highly doubt you'll get pregnant though..

    • Thank you for the answer... I think I need to start on birth control again just for the sake of not risking anything. I was thinking about taking Plan B tomorrow, but I don't know... What do you think?

    • I really don't think you have to, but if you're super worried then might as well. Better safe than sorry right?

    • I am not super worried cause I have done worst with my ex boyfriend, but still. Time to start the pills again. Thank you for your answer :)

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  • It is very unlikely if he only got some precum on the outside, precum does not normally contain many sperm, and they would have to dive in and swim a long way to reach your womb.
    Precum normally only gets a girl pregnant with full insertion of the penis.
    There are no guarantees but I think you should be ok.

    • Thank you. :) I am still kinda nervous, but according to my ovulation app I should be clear.

  • Wow, sex education certainly failed you.

    • haha, but seriously. this question is often debated, so it isn't a stupid question.

  • Pretty much impossible.

    • So you are saying that penetration is needed to become pregnant?

    • I'm saying that it is much harder than most believe to actually become pregnant. It is highly unlikely that the "weakest swimmers" are going to be able to survive that trip. Your vagina is basically designed to kill sperm. Is it possible? Mathematically, yes. In the same way that it's possible for Christmas to be the warmest day of the year.

    • So I shouldn't worry that much?

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  • Highly unlikely

    • thank you :)

  • Unless science has proven otherwise, yeah.

    Doctors even say girls can get pregnant from anal.

    • I actually know this. So I don't really know what to do...

    • Simple. If the doubt is going to kill you - Plan B. The chances, based off your story, are microscopically small. I wouldn't worry about it. That being said, be prepared for pregnancy, because if you don't use Plan B, the chances are small, but still chances.

    • After reading about how plan B works I found out that it wouldn't really do anything, cause I have already ovulated.

  • If the owner of that sperm goes by the name "Chuck Norris" yes, you will get pregnant.

    • hhahaaha

  • Theoretically, yes

    Realistically, the chance is very very tiny.

  • Yeah

  • There's no freaking way you got pregnant from that. A better question is how is it your guy was ejaculating clear? lol! Had you gotten him off a bunch of times previously?

    • Haha. no. it was clear (more clear than the (white) powerade drink) =P I guess that is how he cums in general.

    • Really? You must be emptying his balls pretty regularly then, because it can be pretty white otherwise.

    • If I was his girlfriend I would maybe be the reason, hehe.. but I am only someone who is dating so I guess he does it himself.

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  • Is it possible? Yes.
    Is it realistic? No.

    • Thank you. I think I am safe for this time. I just bought many packs of condoms...

  • Slightly possible; but highly unlikely.

    • But what should I do?