Girls, when you say you want "rough sex," what is it that you really want?

[OlderAndWiser]

In response to a current poll I have posted, a surprising number of ladies say that they want their men to give them "rough" sex. One male posted an opinion which states that women who think they want "rough" sex really don't want it rough and begin to complain if he does anything that causes the least amount of discomfort. So maybe this "rough" sex idea isn't a single, solitary concept but a collection of ideas about sex that is less than genteel. If you are a lady who wants "rough" sex, just what is it that you want your man to do? Don't be afraid to give us details because some of us men need to be educated on this concept.

[SarahsSummer]

Most of those poll choices fit. I think guys may get confused because it really comes down to being able to read each woman's vibe. I like to be taken, controlled, forced into things, told what to do, held down and spanked. But It's also really nice when the forceful or rough ends after my O or O's 😜and he can just lovingly caress or hold me. That also helps me feel comfortable for the next time around. 💜

[Anonymous]

I think a lot of the young girls on GAG who claim to want rough sex just want male validation. Others confuse vigorous, passionate sex with being rough.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, perhaps because GAG draws heavily from a crowd that hasn't been successful with women, the obsession with domination and power skews way higher here than I've seen IRL.

[OlderAndWiser]

You think these folks don't have much success because they have strange ideas of what to do with the opposite sex? :)

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of people here (including me) have all sorts of baggage that has made life challenging at times. It makes for some kooky conversations. Haha.

[kaylaS91]

I'd imagine that by wanting rough sex, most girls mean 'rough' to the point that it doesn't actually hurt them too much. It's more of a matter of being a power play, a sign of their man showing his dominance. Rough sex does not mean sex that is painful. It means sex in which the guy who we're with knows the boundary, how far he can push it and still be within the lines of pain AND pleasure.

The guy who posted that opinion was probably being careless and literally fucking girls like ragdolls.

[TropicalStorm]

A good hard fucking when I'm mega horny and just need pounding rather than "love making" is my idea of rough sex - not hard enough it stops being pleasurable and hurts but there is a huge difference to having sex and having a good hard fuck

[Stacyzee]

I love the ass spanking , flipping me into a different position and pounding me hard.

[Stacyzee]

The thought of feeling like a desired slut is what turns me on during this act

[Azara]

I think they just mean " passionate" as supposed to sedate. Not really anything to do with rough. Because rough us relative in that it's not really rough unless you're actually being roughed up... Which no one really wants. That's what law protects people from lol being roughed up.

[OlderAndWiser]

I think some women want to be spanked and abused. That's not what I want, but that's the impression I have.

[msfuntastic]

@Asker Yes, some of us do. Personally, I like the "abuse" thing. However, spanking would be the most mild of it.

[Alwaysthere85]

Letter C. Make it hurt so that when I get up I can hardly walk 👌🏼

[Shorty1991]

Ehm. . . rough sex. When I say something I mean it. Ah fuck it, all of the above.

[WildButterfly]

Ummm how about all of the above? I voted for F though.

[kittycat119]

I don't know if I would consider it rough but I've always liked the idea of my boyfriend one day just grabbing me and lift in me up and slamming me against a wall and just having sex with me as hard and deep as he can and after we're done with that him putting me down and me giving him oral as he grabs my head and thrust it n2 my mouth... I don't know y I like when he does it and after that us moving to a bed him tying me up and kinda teasing me by biting my breast and other areas lol... then him just taking me... not really for my pleasure but his... I guess I don't care about rough but I wanna b dominated

[Mustachekitteh]

I normally picture it as doing things in an animalistic kind of way.

Though being tied up and blind folded helps. :D

[aeblalock]

I voted for the wrong thing :/ I meant to vote C