Have you ever had sympathy sex with a guy?

have you ever had sympathy sex with a guy?
Some men have an idea that, when they have been wounded and their pain is visible, some empathetic ladies would be willing, as a measure of their absolute altruism, to have sex with the distraught man as a means of providing some comfort and solace. In the common parlance, it is called a "sympathy fuck." I have never been on the receiving end of such compassion and I don't know anyone who ever admitted to getting such a benefit. Have you ladies ever offered such comfort to a man overwhelmed with grief?
Yes, I had sympathy sex with a guy and I later regretted having done so.
Vote A
Yes, I had sympathy sex with a guy and I never regretted doing it.
Vote B
No, I am sexually active, I have never had sex with a guy just because of sympathy, and probably never will..
Vote C
No, I am sexually active, I have never had sex with a guy just because of sympathy, but I would consider doing so.
Vote D
No, I am not sexually active.
Vote E
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  • Vote A = Yes, when I was a "hot mess" I DID have "sympathy sex" with certain men I used to date, was still attracted to and had previously forced myself to walk away from due to their anger and possessiveness.

    THEY purposely preyed on my substance/alcohol issues at the time and got me back VERY temporarily by default.

    It was ALWAYS a mistake that I knew, even while I was doing it.
    Lessons well learnt.

    • This sounds like an MHO, a lesson well learned from experience!

    • (smiling) Two negatives will never make a positive :P xo

    • That may be true in some contexts but you can always learn from mistakes!

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  • Fuck no. I can give him a pat on the back and a hug but I'm not having sex with him, especially if we're not together.
    And if we're together, I'd prefer to wait it out until he feels better. I don't want him to start crying in the middle of sex or whatever.

    • "And if we're together, I'd prefer to wait it out until he feels better." So he'll repress his feelings...

    • @Bysshe I don't date children.

    • Good to know... It's not that odd for a married (and yes adult) man to conceal his problems from his wife - witholding sex when there's something wrong could encourage him to not reveal it to you.

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  • I thought. SympaThy fuck was taking pity on a guy who really wanted sex with you in particular or really wanted sex on general but was ha inv trouble, but not bc he's sad.. If he / is sad ill talk to him listen to his problems not fuck him lol

    • Yeah, this is something I have heard other guys talk about but I have never sought or received the aforementioned bonus prize. A few users have posted that they have done it, so it does happen, but this is not like a worldwide affliction! :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think if any girl had sex with a misfortuned guy it would be because of experimenting, or they like control. When I say misfortuned I don't mean a guy with minor temporary ailments. Going up to a girl and complaining will only result in "Aww" and a dry spot. Or you could be like me and when she asks what happened say "Just a minor injury, nothing I can't handle"

  • Where do you get these things from? @OlderAndWiser and no... I've heard of it, but im too much of a badass to get it. I've also seen it for a few virgin friends (i had a hand in that) thats like one of the worst sex ever... the premise.. not the act.
    and i know its not you... ugh..

    • I am comfortable with my own sense of sexuality but I know that everyone else does not necessarily think like me. I am trying to understand what drives other people in the area of sexuality. Any my questions recently are getting many, many responses!

    • They are!!! and thats why im curious...

    • My other questions have touched on experiences common to most people (like "do you masturbate even when you have a partner?") Everybody that does this wonders if it's normal but you have no means of knowing. . . unless you ask a question on this site. I was surprised that my question about whether users would attend G@G social events drew 45 responses!

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  • No, I have never had sympathy sex with a guy and I DEFINITELY never will. My vagina is not some box of tissues for a sad penis. -_-

    • By asking the question, I was not recommending this practice to anyone!

    • Box of tissues. .. haha

    • "My vagina is not some box of tissues for a sad penis" EXACTLY. 😂👌

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  • Actually, yes. Do I regret it, hmm, I truly regret little because I think it's a really negative emotion, but would I do it again, no.

  • Im virgin and I'm, planning to be like that until marriage, but imagine that I am sexually active or whatever, I still wouldn't even think about doing that.

  • I am not active but I would never do it.

  • No definitely not. Its a turnoff completely.

  • To girls answering affirmative. Today my dog got run over, I found I had terminal disease and the stock market went south on me

  • I have never had sympathy sex with a guy I don't believe in

  • i would never do that, the only reason i'd have sex willingly is because i find him attractive/sexy and because i *want* to. not because i feel bad for him.

  • I'm a virgin soo.. XD I wouldn't do it still tho sex is meant to be special not for.. takin for granted I don't know what u call it Watever u just said

  • those women deserve a medal!!! I can't imagine sucking off an ugly dude.

    • The Medal of On Her? :)

  • No have never have

  • I mostly try really hard not to spend time feeling sorry for myself

  • Okay I'm a nice guy but I have my limits

    • But you have heard of this, haven't you?

    • Yes I have heard of sympathy sex and its not something I'd wanna do

  • never had it from a girl, as from a guy, no thanks :)

  • No, I don't like hoes so I'm dying without one.

  • Hi it is terrible humiliation, for a man that turned away many proposals because of my attractiveness. Now I almost beg for the touch of a woman

  • No and I highly doubt I ever will.

  • no and I would never. I sleep only when the guys is in love with me either way it's no

  • No, no one likes pity and having sex is not going to fix anything only confuse the whole situation and make issues worse.

  • yes once

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