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How can I tell that a guy enjoyed sex with me?

It was the first time me and my fuck buddy met up and, well, fucked recently. For me the sex was mind-blowing - I was pretty much having orgasms left right and centre, he game me amazing amounts of oral (best I've had again - never enjoyed it as much as I did with him) and we went at it around 6 hours on and off before he finally came (he kept stopping so he could go longer.) There was also copious amounts of making out which was a plus for me. My worry is that in all of this, I was in such an orgasm haze I feel like he was neglected and I never got the chance to give him head. How can I tell if he enjoyed it? Any signs he will definitely be coming back for more?
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Thanks guys - I would ask him but I don't want to be "annoying texting all the time needing validation" fuck buddy.
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  • You seem to be falling for him. Dont let your feelings get in the way. Keep yourself busy. Keep looking and going on dates.
    If he really falls fur you, he will fall for even a happier girl.
    If not, u r out n about n meeting new people.
    He seems complicated at this point.

    • Thank you for Best Answer. Hope things go well with you.

  • You can ask, in a thoughtful, mature way, without asking all the time or being clingy. Under no circumstances would you ask in a text. :) Good luck.

  • Sounds like a keeper! You'd better be chasing after him. You're going to want to swallow his load as often as possible. :)

    • I know, right? He was an awesome guy too... he said he was looking for friends with benefits and more if it ended up that way. We got on great. I don't wanna wreck this - I like the way he works haha!

Most Helpful Guys

  • He sounds like he knows what he's doing. And if I had to guess I'd guess he really got off by giving you pleasure. I'm serious about that. Even though lots of guys are selfish in bed (which is counterproductive) some guys aren't. And when you give you get pleasure out of doing that.

  • if he wasn't enjoying it why would he prolong it? He would of either came real quick and left, or lost his hardon and left.

    The fact that you where going at it for hours means he was enjoying himself

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  • I'm sure he did if he was fucking your brains out on and off for 6 hours. Plus the intimacy involved with the kissing make me think he enjoyed himself. Sometimes you can't or don't fit everything in sex session. You can suck his dick first thing next time if that bothered you.

    • Yeah I did say "I owe you some major oral dude" and he laughed. We talked and missed and laughed in all the rest of it so it was more intimate than I was expecting. He gets the sucking of a lifetime if he wants to meet up again. I hope he does!

  • if you lasted 6 hours i think he enjoyed it, any guy that would walk away from something awesome has ED and can't keep it up as long as they would like. so yeah i think he liked it.

    • Phew - thank you.

    • your welcome

  • Usually, if a guy has an orgasm and it is obvious that you had a good time, the guy is happy. Most guys want to know that they can make their woman have numerous orgasms and when that does happen, it makes us feel good about ourselves.

  • I'm sure he had a blast. He did have an orgasm which I;m sure he loved. Why did he not go for round two for himself? Maybe next time return the favor and give him 2 or 3 great orgasms. I'm glad you two are having fun with each other! Enjoy!

    • Thanks - yeah I'm not sure. He said he can come and often keep going. He did say I was wearing him out though so... haha

  • If you went at it for 6hrs on and off... he enjoyed it. If he didn't he would have left after 20mins.

    • I was hoping so!! We spent 12 hours together so I'm hoping it was as fun for him as for me!

    • He definitely sounds like he's got game... with the amount of oral and taking his time/stopping as needed so it goes longer. Congratulation;-)

    • How to keep him as my FB or more - that's the question. I need to up my game haha

  • When everyone is smiling whilst and after...

    2.bp.blogspot.com/.../lion+sex+face.png

  • Ask him?

    • By the way, he is a lot like me it seems. As somebody else said, try finishing him off with an amazing blowjob.

    • I didn't want to seem needy!

    • That's understandable. In that case, just pay more attention to his pleasure the next time, which you probably will anyway :)

  • If he went for six hours then he enjoyed it. he would have just thrown you down on your knees and fucked your face If he wasn't. that way he could get off and get closer to you leaving. If you feel that guilty about it make up for it next time.

  • Best way, ask him.
    My guess is - hells yeah. If a guy isn't enjoying it, he probably won't make much effort to delay and continue for longer, he'd rather finish up and be done.

  • Don't worry you're good, he's good.

  • He waited so he could last longer, that's a sign that he was enjoying himself, or he would have tried to get it over with! He'll definitely be back for more... I would be!

    • Thanks - I certainly hope so. He was a great guy too which helps.

    • Sounds like he's ticking all the boxes! Have fun!!

    • Thank you :-)

  • He is probably a guy who enjoys making you happy and satisfied. You having multiple orgasms would have definitely excited his senses. I feel he definitely enjoyed the sex with you and he will definitely come back for more.

  • He says he did; he gets off; he wants to do it again; he tells you "that was amazing."

  • If his penis was in your vagina he is happy. Period. We don't need or ask for much.

    • @asker hi

  • He will have enjoyed a session like that

    • Make sure he gets head next time thou

    • Phew - thanks!

    • Oh and definitely with the head - he was just so focused on me and says he loves pleasuring women and I just went with it!

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  • meet up again. and one thing will lead to another

  • He didn't last 6 hours thats bullshit. No man can have an erections for 6 straight hours.

  • It sounds like did, especially since he kept at it with you for so long and the satisfaction of making you cum so much I would think he will be back

  • If he was screwing you on and off for 6 hours, and taking the lead, and you had melted-orgasm-brain...

    if he'd really wanted head?

    He'd have just put his dick to your mouth.

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