I keep having sex dreams?

[Anonymous]

I keep having weird sex dreams or sexual dreams. Last night I dreamed I had an attractive male teacher who was interested in my mom but I was determined to have sex with him before she did? I have a lot of dreams where I meet attractive guys and try to have sex with them or actually do. I've even had dreams of having sex with anime characters? The weirdest ones that I have had were incestual... which made me disgusted with myself that I would dream such a thing. I have had dreams that my father has raped me and I wake up mortified and have a hard time looking at him. We have a very bad relationship. He's a sociopath and is very mentally abusive and rarely physically, the worst physical thing he's done is grab my face and shove me out of the house or try to restrain me. I am definitely afraid of him. Why do I keep having these weird sexual dreams? I have been very sexually frustrated but that doesn't explain my dreams about incest?

[Realistic07]

Wel sexual frustration can have a lot to do with it actually you are frustrated so your dreams combine your sexual urges with bad events of your past and enjoyments like anime which the Japanese really have a thing for incest in their animes, also and this part is strictly speculation you may like rougher sex but even with out that your dreams are bound to be mixed up. So naturally your dreams are a hot pot mixing togeather everything and vuala you have a messed up dream recipe specially designed just for you. What can you do to fix it simple go find a guy whom you like and have sex.

[MrShinyPants]

Theyre normal, especially the incestous one, reason being with that one its your subconscious feeling a need to be closer to him and forming a bond, non sexual one, but the rape part is your subconscious is wanting to be closer yet strugling with the fact you two dont get along well so its a battle of emotions, struggling to get free of his abuse yet yearning for him to love you. As for your teacher and other dreams, that depends on what was happening at the time in your life, it could mean many different things depending on it.

[Asker]

Makes sense. Thank you. He wasn't a real teacher ! Most of the sex dreams I've had are with people I have never met

[MrShinyPants]

Same with mine, with girls i have never seen but were as vivid and realistic as they could be, even the intercourse feeling felt real, dreams are crazy things

[AustinMan]

Do you have a lover in your life currently?

[Asker]

Nope. I got out of a three year relationship a few months ago and I've been wanting to find someone but I don't have the best social skills and guys I'm attracted too make me nervous

[AustinMan]

Nervous how?

[Asker]

I don't have a lot of experience with men, never had a boyfriend. I just have a hard time with meeting someone for the first time. I don't make much eye contact and I get... giggly. Still working on that lol. When I get comfortable with someone I am able to be myself

[AustinMan]

Try focusing on being open. Smile. Laugh. Keep your body language open. Have a friend nearby the first couple of times so if a guy comes on too strong, you have help. Be gracious and polite. Men love that. I'm still curious why the men you attract are scary exactly?

[Asker]

A lot of people have told me they liked me in my lifetime, most tell me years later or don't even ask me out, they just let me know. I've turned down most of them.. maybe I'm too picky? It's just really important to me that we get a long and have similar interests. When I actually do like a guy though he doesn't like me.

[AustinMan]

That's where cultivating the right public persona is so important. Be open and gracious. Figure out how you can let the losers down gently and how to flirt and engage with the winners.

[Daniela1982]

Stop going to bed at night with a vibrator in your coochie and you might have normal dreams.

[RexCatholicissimus]

I dunno, you're probably just mentally damaged from having bad parents. It's no secret that the less natural love you get from parents, the more of a sex-obsessive you become.

That alternatively works the other way around, you don't wanna "over-love" a kid either.

[vald9inches]

Did any of them have huge cocks? ;P

[CougarBoss]

I never dream about sex, because I have sex daily

[bcromartie]

Try drinking warm milk. That will solve everything before bed.

[Asadi]

u need better things to focus upon like sports , social activities etc.

[Frio33]

I had such a dreams many times