Guys who play the beta provider game on women are they scumbags?

[IamLouise]

So it's known that some women like to switch over and find a different type a guy attractive later down in life. For example in college/highschool she may have been attracted to the hot, popular guy who likes to party and have fun but coming down to her late 20's and beyond want a stable guy, who has a job, and willing to commit and possibly have children in future.

Now some men who may have a chip on their shoulder for women not wanting to be with them when they were young, prettier and more fun but are coming to them now that they have a nice career, house, and place have decided to use the beta provider game.

The beta provider game is where men either actively or passively now use women's hopes and dreams of finding a reliable guy to settle down to their advantage. These women can range from girls wanting to settle down and marry now but the guy she truly wants to be with isn't ready yet so she goes for you instead to single mothers looking for a meal ticket.

The beta provider game works by going out on dates with these women and giving the illusion that you will be a good provider. Dropping hints in conversation that indicate that you are willing to commit, you have nice paying job, and you like kids. Stuff likes this in subtle doses. The beta provider game also tends to use the nice guy persona more so that the cocky asshole that younger women are more receptive to.

The beta game is a lot slower than the one used by alphas with young women who escalate things quickly to sex very quickly and usually takes several dates before he can bed these women. However, once he beds these women he quickly loses their number and move onto the next.

So in summary the beta provider game is like danging a carrot of being a good provider over women's faces and using it to get sex from them. Once you get what you want you discard them and move onto the next.

[Anonymous]

Most people aren't static...

The party boys often settle down too and keep dating the same kinds of women who dated them earlier. Why? Because they have similar world views. This theory about geeks gaming the hot girls who spurned him is just a revenge fantasy.

What usually changes is the nerdy guy figures out how to dress and stay fit and loses some of his social awkwardness.

I don't know why he would use those advantages to just dupe desperate single mothers instead of having a genuine good time with women who are on the same page as him. It doesn't speak highly of his character or mental health if one upping some random chick ranks higher than traveling the world, connecting on the same level with interesting women, exploring healthy sex, etc.

[TerminallyChill]

For the jealous, it's about getting g some form of revenge. For the rest, it's just about getting pussy. The world is harsh and people take advantage of others.

[genericname85]

what you described here is just a player XD i mean nowadays people use "fuckboy" for the same thing. why do we need yet another word for that? xD

[TerminallyChill]

Nothing wrong with it, it's survival of the fittest. and you have to adapt or die.

[Anonymous]

i like provider guy.

[Anonymous]

Assholes.