Girlfriend fell asleep during sex, is it ok to continue until cumming or is it considered rape?

Question

My girlfriend recently fell asleep halfway through our 'session' (she was tired after work but she decided on doing it today anyway) and then as I was pumping I noticed she fell asleep, wasn't sure what to do, should I continue until at least I cum or leave her be and finish off myself. What would you do if your partner fell asleep during doing it and you were all turned on?

bombamboum · Accepted Answer

I can't really imagine him falling asleep but if that ever happened, I would stop. I also would want him to stop if I ever fell asleep.
If I was in such situation and he kept going, I wouldn't call it rape but it wouldn't feel right... at all. It's about sharing an experience and doing it to someone who's not even conscious just feel wrong to me.

aliceinwonderland69 · Accepted Answer

You can't consent when your asleep. Consent isn't a blanket concept. Unconsciousness obviously removes consent. Face palm at the other people who answered that's it's ok. I would be really freaked out if I woke up and found they had just carried on.

AnnaTheAnnaa · Accepted Answer

Wake her up? And ask her if she wants to sleep instead? That is disgusting.

Panay · Accepted Answer

It wouldn't really be rape if you finished with her... it's a kind of awkward situation and I've got no idea how someone falls asleep during sex, but i think the best thing to do is to leave her and finish by youself

Intraluminal · Accepted Answer

Its a little rapey tbh. Tell her she fell asleep half way through and left you hanging and see what she says. My ex used to want me to *use* her that way, but she was very submissive.

Nyriad · Answer

Leave her be and finish quietly

somebodysaycheese · Answer

No offense but if the sex is good noone falls asleep.

LaFemmeFatale · Answer

Does she have narcolepsy? Cause it's kind of impossible to fall asleep during sex.

Rissyanne · Answer

How in the hell did she fall asleep during sex? You should finish... after all she consented.

abundantlyrich · Answer

You can always cum in the toilet afterwards if she d fall asleep again next time.

RaggaMon · Answer

I'd have pulled out and finished all over her then gone to sleep myself!! lel

ZenithDawn · Answer

well if she consented you can continue.

Becky01 · Answer

that is the sweetest thing. you did the right thing

Aqualung · Answer

Good question. I probably would have finished and said I didn't know, or had some real fun!

Melcart23 · Answer

Sex with you must be a real snooze fest

lost_alice · Answer

having sex with someone that is not conscious is rape so just leave her be

flapdoodle · Answer

I had a girlfriend (13 years older) who insisted I keep going if she fell asleep during sex. She would fall asleep for a few minutes and then wake up to me just chugging away and she would be right back into it, then fall asleep again a few more times. Finally, she just kept sleeping and would even snore. She told me she enjoyed it so much she wanted me to wake her so she would'nt miss out but I did'nt have the heart. We had a fantastic sex life, my family thought her oversexed though. My mom said that if she had been a man, she probably would have been a rapist! She admitted begrudgingly I was the best she'd ever had and showered me with praise, she was for me too. Neighbors often thought they were experiencing an earthquake and would call to warn us only to discover our lovemaking was rattling the windows. We broke beds a lot and got chastized in hotels for distubing other guests. Those were the days, I loved that woman.

Anonymous · Answer

I've never fallen asleep during sex but I'd feel terrible if I did. I wouldn't be mad if he went ahead and finished. Hell, it's the least I could do after falling asleep. Lol