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Guys would you be okay with being blindfolded during sex?

I've been thinking its time to "surprise" my guy with a bj... I've never done it before and haven't been comfortable enough to try it and he knows this--- well lately I feel it's time I've explored this act with him. The thing is I'm a bit nervous. So I thought maybe I'd introduce the blindfold, just until I'm not self conscious or something... I mean I know guys tend to be more interested in the visual but would you guys let a girl blindfold you or would it be best not to? oh and any tips/pointers would be great
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  • Yes guys being visual it would really take away from it I would think. I don't think I would like it but? Are you tying him up also or just blindfold? I definitely wouldn't like that but it would depend on the woman I was with to I think (trust). Some guys would probably like it though. Why do you want to blindfold him, like, is it for his experience or yours (you don't want him watching you do it?)?

    • Just a blindfold. I don't want to tie him down or anything.. Blindfold is mainly for me so I won't be overly self conscious-- Probably would tell him he could take it off but just to wait for a moment.

    • I thought it might be more for you ;) Yeah don't do it. Don't be self conscious and remember that he will be also, not just you. He's your boyfriend and assuming that he cares for you is only going to like you more seeing your body. He's not going to find you unattractive (because he's attracted to you already) so don't be self conscious. Keep telling yourself you're beautiful and he's going to love you. Guys are visual, we don't want the lights off or to be blindfolded. It's like ripping off the band aid, just do it!! :)

  • Just one word : DO IT !!!
    Even it starts as a game, or as something new or as something unexpected : he's waiting for a blowjob.
    Whenever it feels ok for you, and wherever or however : you'll succeed in your surprise.

    If you feel comfortable like that, even for the first, trust me, he will reward you !

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think that's a great idea for the first time.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Wife yes. If it was just a random fling no.

  • I would give it a try and see if i can handle it. But in general i dont like being restricted in any way. And i honestly dont know many guys that do like it. Just bring it up and give it a try. It never hurts to experiment for a bit.

  • Sure... it makes you focus on feel/sounds/smells.

  • Not something I'd want all the time, but yeah I'd be fine with it lol

  • My girlfriend has mentioned that in the past, I was like "nope". lol

    • Why were you against it? If u don't mind me asking

    • Being blind to what's going on doesn't interest me at all, combined with hating being restricted in any way it's just not for me.

  • Being blindfolded adds an element of surprise and your imagination runs wild I think it is hot

  • Yes, that would turn me on. I wouldn't want to do it every time, but the unpredictability of what may happen is sexy.

  • Blindfolded yes
    Tied up no, i'm way to dominate for that

  • Yes I'd be down for it. Its supposed to heighten your senses

  • I'm kinky, so yes.

  • I'm not sure. I would prefer to see my beautiful woman. So, no. Not only that, but I wouldn't know what kind of things she would do to me. And I prefer to know what's going on. Being vulnerable does make me a little bit uneasy.

  • Sure

  • depends on the partner

  • sure i do. if you cancel out one sense they other become stronger. put on a headphones too so he hears less, then his sense of touch becomes stronger.

  • it's more fun to have sex when you're both blindfolded yes can be more difficult sometimes but works and fun.

  • I'd be down for it 😏

  • sure, that's thrilling

  • Girl get down on you knees and suck, I broke up with my girlfriend because she never gave me blowjob. I never liked her.

  • I have done it and it is quite exhilarating!

  • Id be okay though not excited about being blindfolded. If the reason was what you said and you explained that I'd be more okay with it.

    Fwiw, seeing it is the best part.

    • Lol see I was thinking I'd explain slightly and say "you could take it off when you want just not at the moment" lol I wasn't planning on tying him up or anything so I wouldn't be surprised if he did take it off at some point... More of a net to buy me some time to get over my nerves

    • I get it. Are you specifically worried about how you will look? Or just... What?

    • Partially that and as I said I'll be self conscious-- knowing he's watching and I'm about to do something very new and different for me.

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