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My Male Friend was Showing Off Doing Horizontal Pull Ups, Then he got a HUGE Boner. Was it for Me or was it Accidental from the Exercise or Both?

I have a male friend who likes me A LOT. Background of our situation. Not officially my boyfriend, but people joke that we are "dating" or we are often mistaken for a couple because we hang out so much. He has increased hanging out with me more and more over time. He even enrolled at my further away campus for a class so he can meet up with me. He takes me to dinner, movies, he even sang a romantic karaoke duet with me. He likes hugging me, casually touches me, plays "footsie" with me at restaurants. He's invited me to his apartment twice. But here's the thing he doesn't do anything sexual with me even though I think he wants to (he's always saying a lot of sexual innuendos to me, such as he wants to be "one" with me). He seems attracted to me in a sexual way with sly touching but he totally denies it and jokes about. He has never actually kissed me or asked me to have sex with him, but recently got a full erection in front of me a few days ago when I was at the campus gym with him. He likes to "show off" his muscles and like to exercise in front of me. *There was a railing that he got under and started doing horizontal pull ups with his back to the floor and starting acting like he was f**cking the air upward and then got a full erection straight up which was completely visible under his shorts. He was NOT even embarrassed or trying to hide his erection from me. In fact it seemed like he was showing it off to me (how big he was) and how powerfully he could f*ck. No other people were around him except for me. This was the most obvious sexual thing a guy has ever done in front of me so please don't say it meant nothing. My questions are 1.) Is he obviously sexually attracted to me and got an erection? 2.) Was he deliberately trying to turn me on by creating an "exercise erection" if there is such a thing? 3.) Or did doing pull ups exercise accidentally cause his erection and he just decided to go with it and show me "his goods"? *Example photo is not my friend.
My Male Friend was Showing Off Doing Horizontal Pull Ups, Then he got a HUGE Boner. Was it for Me or was it Accidental from the Exercise or Both?


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  • It can happen just from exercise. I've had it happen before. You get really horny after you work up a sweat. Probably from all the blood flowing faster. Increased heart rate. Some women can have an orgasm from nipple stimulation because nerves are connected to somewhere erotic. So, I suppose it's possible he could have hit a nerve somewhere that stimulated a boner.

    As for having a boner for a girl, that doesn't happen to me. I can't just see a girl and get a boner. It has to be messed with, for me.

    Ahh, it wasn't exercise. He had just started? I didn't read the description. So, in that case, I would say the motion and him imagining sex could probably have done it. If you were wearing anything skimpy or showing any skin, then I guess it's possible. It's hard to say exactly what set it off, though. But it isn't obvious, no. Rofl. You can't deliberately cause an exercise erection to my knowledge. It just happens randomly.

    I'd say his attitude towards it would prove it the most. If he was showing it off then he wouldn't hide it, right. If he showed embarrassment, then it was unintentional. That's the easiest way to tell. However, if it was unintentional--which boners pretty much always are if they're not actively being touched, to my knowledge--then he could have decided "well, may as well show her the goods." In that case, it's clearly a very overt sign of "I want to fuck your brains out just... like... this."

    • The situation was I was wearing tight leggings and a tight t-shirt. We talked for a few minutes while he was standing next to me, he hit a punching bag a few times and then started the horizontal pull ups. I thought he was doing his usual "show off his arm muscles" thing. He has done a strip tease in the quad for me a few months ago. He is always overtly sexual trying to get my attention most of the time. This wasn't the first time he thrusted his pelvis at me. It was the first time I noticed a full erection while he was pretending to f*ck the air upward.

    • Okay, so yeah. If he had literally just started doing some exercise, then I think an exercise boner is really unlikely. Usually it happens after a moderate-hard (punnnnnz) workout. At least, to me. Okay. Yeah, I would say history repeats itself, in that case. Most likely. It's weird to me how he could get a boner without any physical stimulation or overt seduction though. He must have been seriously fantasizing. Or maybe he's just different than me. Guess it's different for every guy. Mmm. I guess there is still a possibility that it wasn't intentional. But you can tell when you have a boner, so he obviously knew it was there. If he kept doing them, then totally showing off. Do you remember what you were talking about *right before* he hit the punching bag? But right now I'm like 90% sure it wasn't accidental and was pointed towards you (moree punzzzzzz).

    • You asked what we were talking about before the "boner" incident. He had come out of a class. I did not notice any obvious "bulges" at that point. In fact, he was standing next to the railing with me. He talked about how his class was not difficult. I brought him a juice to drink and he seemed happy about that. He hugged me for that. We sat on the railing goofing off trying to balance by just sitting not holding on. He joke pushed me a little so he could catch me from falling. I was taking photos (selfies) of us at this time (no obvious bulges in photos). After that is when started showing off with his macho exercising. First punching bag for a minute then while I was sitting on the railing watching him he got under the railing and started doing horizontal pull ups below me but to the left side of where I was on the railing. So I viewing him from above. That's when he suddenly is thrusting hips upward in the air with a straight up full erection. It was too obvious not to notice.

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  • A combo of all three probably... I think he is totally attracted to you, and probably really really likes you.. My hat off to him, for having the self control in not making advances on you, keeping it on a playful level. Don't know if I could have done that.. He is likeky just waiting until the perfect time when you two finally have the real conversation about how serious you are. He might be halfway worried that you are joking, and only like him as a friends (common scenario), so he's probably procrastinating a bit.

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  • . I don't think that #3 would be an accident, as he was probably thinking about sexual stuff, which sometimes makes a guy hard. And since he didn't hide it, I think it is mostly # 1, and that he is just letting you know that he's sexually interested in you.

  • He probably is sexually attracted to you assuming from the background info, however the boner was probably because of exercising, many people get turned on while doing so! 😛

  • My answers to all three of your questions are "idk".
    Apologies.

    *How do U feel about him sexually?
    *How did seeing his erection make U feel?

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  • It was not accidental. He likes showing his strength to you and hopes that will affect you too. In his mind that is already happening, so his lower part reacts

  • It will never happen due to workout :D

  • Well, I guess he didn't only show off the horizontal pull-up.

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  • Why put HUGE is capital letters?

    PENIS SIZE DOESN'T MATTER!!!

    IT'S WHAT YOU DO WITH IT!!!

    • Yes, No, No. There's a 1,000,000% chance that he'd like you to be his girlfriend.

    • He seemed HUGE at the time. That's why I put it in CAPS.

    • Have you asked him to be your boyfriend yet? I found your post hilarious with the illustration and the HUH? reaction and especially the illustration.

  • dude i´d never get a boner while lifting xD that´s totally only due to a hot girl.

  • No such thing as "exercise erection" babe. :) Also, I've never heard of anyone working out and "accidentally" getting his dick hard. lol Nope, doesn't work like that, kind of the opposite actually. ;) That leaves the obvious, he is "in love"... I totally know the deal here, I promise I do, its simple. You will have to initiate the "action", if that's not you, make it you. He will take the lead down the road, trust me. Here is your answer= He's shy.

    That's my opinion and I'm sticking to it.

  • Wait for it to happen again and make comments / jokes about it... You'll see how he follows up! ;)

    One thing I can say is when I get on the stationnary bike, or when I climb stairmaster, it sometimes brings my friend boner to the training session ;)

    And some shorts are made of materials that make "package" feel more loose and it also brings boner when "package" is rubbing against the shorts.
    So maybe a mix of all three... ;) You can get your straight answer if you want to ;)

  • Yes to number 1 and 3.
    Of course he's attracted to you, wants to date you in the real sense, and of course, have sex with you. If you agreeable to all of that, you'll need to make the first real move, as obviously, he can't "close the deal" (as sales people like to say).
    If you're comfortable taking control, lean over and give him a passionate kiss. If you're real ballsy, grab that erection next time. (I'm serious)

  • He is sexually attracted to u and wants to show how big he got

  • Ha-ha it is that women think that we are always in control of our wanted.

  • Was probably just one of those random times even he doesn't understand. Don't read into it.

  • probably you, although it could have been both

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