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My boyfriend sent a picture of his penis to another guy... what does this mean?

I'm not really sure what to do and I can't really get all the truth out of him about it but we've been dating for nearly two years and he's never been with anyone else sexually but me. The other day he sent a pic of his penis to one of his gay guy friends after his friend sent him on and asked for on back. Apparently his friend has sent them to him before but this is the first time my boyfriend sent one back. He said he wanted to know what sexting him would be like. I think maybe he's confused. Does this mean he is gay? Should I break up with him?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • He could be bi, don't do anything drastic without actually talking this through with him. Let him know that you care for him, and that no matter what gender he likes etc, you'll still respect him. Maybe he's in a place where he's questioning or trying to figure out his sexuallity. You should try to support him, and help him. Nothing wrong with liking more than one gender.

  • The thing you gotta ask is if he's sexual with you. If he still wants to see you naked then he's not gay. One of my gay friends described it as: being gay means you harbour no attraction to the opposite sex, and that imaging yourself having sex with them disgusts you. So if this is the case he could be bi or bi-curious. Or is comparing dick pics for all I know.

    • Men are becoming more comfortable with each others bodies, it would not be unheard of. But that sure does create some awkward moments for their girlfriends tho lol. ..

    • @jjmarvin agreed. There's two things I hope never happens to me, I make a move or flirt with a gay guy, or get into a relationship with a guy then find out he's gay. I mean it's not the end of the world, but I'll know my mates will laugh at me with the first one, since its been determined I have no 'gaydar'.

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    I suggest dumping him because he cheated on you.

  • You should break up with him simply for the fact he essentially cheated.

    • I know he pretty much cheated on me and we're "taking a break" while I think about some things. I just don't know what to think. I don't understand why he'd do that

    • yeahhhhhhh Follow yr gut on this one. Me personally, I could *never* look at a guy the same way if this sort of thing happened, not even years later. Nope. Game over. Don't ask for a rational explanation, since there isn't one.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Either curious, or he's straight but did it anyway, and assumed it wouldn't be a threat to you cuz he's not gay. You're either gonna have to tell him that it's still not cool to send his dick out there cuz it's yours, or deal with the possibility that he was doing it in a cheating way. Either way, you should probably go bitch mode on that friend.

  • I don't know. Maybe.
    He could be doing to be funny too. Or he could be throwing his friend a bone (pun intended) this time.

    • I know he wasn't doing it to be funny and he tried so hard to keep it from me. I guess I just don't understand

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  • Regardless of what it means about his sexuality, it means he's cheating.

  • Did he Hash tag it with

    #NoHomo?

  • I think he might be gay. I mean as a straight woman how would it make you feel to send a vagina pic to a gay woman?

    • or at least bi

  • Maybe the other guy teased him about it to send the pic?

  • OMG get out. More than likely he's bisexual. Guys don't use protection... he might be experimenting, possibly homosexual or possibly bisexual. To me, the risk of HIV/AIDS and other STD's was would be a higher risk factor.

  • Sending one picture and sexting a guy aren't enough to define him as gay. I would say he's heteroflexible, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. If you're uncomfortable with what he's doing, tell him.

  • it means you might need to take the gay scanner to him and scan him

  • He could be bi?

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  • sounds like he must be interested to do that... kinda thing i might wanna do and i'm gay

    • He said he didn't like it but that doesn't make sense to me because he beat off afterwords

    • you think because of that pic

    • No he told me he did

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  • he's gay or bi.

  • Penis is uncircumcised or circumcised

  • i dont know what to say but dont break up with him if you truly love him. Keep looking for the truth. Ask his friends. if you find out he's gay and not bi yes break up with him. If bi dont unless he keeps doing it and enjoys it. Its the same thing as if he were straight and sending them to a female. If he just wanted to know what sexting was like ask him why he didn't try it with you.

  • Hey sis I'm actually living the same thing as you, so my boyfriend told me that my gay best friend was saying sexual thing to him and send me a screenshot of my gay friend conversation, however when I asked my gay bff about this he told be that he was trying to test him and I told him why he did not stop he tell me that he was doing for my good and just throw it out that my boyfriend send a picture of his dick and my gay bff continue saying that my man wants him.. I was shocked when seeing the pictures and I don't know who to believe.. I asked my boyfriend why he did not tell me about he send pics of his dick before that he told me that he was scared and why only doing that for fun... Both of them in their conversation that they should keep that a secret from me and my boyfriend tell me it was a huge mistake that he regrets.. Well I don't know what to think should I leave him cause I used to have a strong connection with both but one of them was using me for their own good

  • sounds like agy action for him to take. the gay boy is probably sucking his cock

  • yaq I can't understand how gays think !!

  • He is gay, ain't nobody got time for that. Get you a straight one. and ask him to get tested if he stays the lgbt community has an hiv epidemic.

  • didn't you know? Dick pics are involves in bromances :O

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