I think it depends on the level of commitment to each other. We lost out virginity to each other, it was amazing. He was so caring and loving, we already were getting married. We were going to wait until we got married at some point we mutually decided not to. The date was made, everything planned as far as the place, he made sure it was a safe place where we had the whole night (weekend) together to just cuddle and snuggle. He made it absolutely clear that he wasn't just after my virginity, he was after a long lasting relationship and so was I. He made it clear in words that he was just as happy to wait until we got married to lose our virginity, in many ways it was probably me who wanted sex more than he did. (Neither of us ever pressured the other about it.) We have been total BFF's since first and second grade, so there was a lot to lose if sex ruined our relationship for some reason. I think for him it was just as big of a memorable event as it was for me, he was (is) so loving afterwards. He was nothing like I'd heard from girlfriend's guys who were distanced by first time sex, it brought out more of his commitment to me, definitely more loving.
Maybe part of the difference for us was we talked to our parents about not waiting. Neither was surprised, I think they were more surprised that we had waited as long as we did. It was my Mom who suggested we spend the weekend at our families beach cabin, she wanted things to be safe and romantic for both of us. So a big part of the way he acted after, was the caring maturity he showed me before.
My partner interestingly said that he took a girls virginity once (didn't know till there was blood and she admitted to it) and he felt really bad.
I think many guys don't like messing with an inexperienced girl cause she has so many emotions and is still attached to sex.
She doesn't yet value what love is without the craving for sexual pleasure.
One needs to be able to separate sex and love before truly appreciating a man/woman for who they are.
Nobody wants to be needed just because they satisfy you in bed.
Its quite complex.
I have, over the years, taken the virginity of three girls. The most important aspect is that you need to know what you are both doing and clear consent is essential.
The male needs to take their time and ensure that the girl is very horny and naturally lubricated. This is best achieved by the girl having an orgasm, orally or from fingers, before penetration occurs, then the guy needs to take it easy, with the girl being ready for penetration and relaxed.
I think this is probably the best advice to a couple in which someone/both is having sex for the first time. My boyfriend didn't do that and it hurt really bad.
All too common I am afraid, real sex education would mean that boys learn these things, and save so many girls from potentially being put off sex almost before they have started.
guilty? no, afraid yes because i might have wasted my body on someone who might not commit, so in my opinion taking a girls virginity and losing mine would feel like im engaged to get married to her and id hope she'd feel the same way. if a girl had sex with me id take it as her way of committing to me and id hope id end up with a girl like that some day.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!My girlfriend and me both felt amazing (it was the first time for both of us). It's still one of the best times sex I've ever had. People who make out with someone else afterwards clearly don't consider their relationship very important.
My second girlfriend and I lost our virginity together. It was special, but weird. I was not a "man of steel", if you know what I mean, because of nerves. However, the second time was good and we were together for 2 more years.
I found put after the fact that I took my current SO's virginity and it made me feel really special
Nervous, the pressure of being ones first is terrifying, and the guilt if you don't live up to whatever expectation they have of it.
I never had a Virgin so I don't know how it feels but losing it for me was great. Even though I didn't even cum. It was still lots of fun and overall a good experience.
I lost my virginity three years ago, but it was to a fat chick. I was sick of being rejected by pretty or average ones, so I had to settle for one of the bigger girls who were willing to say yes.
Not to be a jerk, but that's awful..
Well, I had no fucking choice. I was 22 back then and I was fucking tired of having the good-looking or even the average girls put me down throughout my life. I just thought that enough was enough so I went for a big girl instead and they're much easier.
I've never took a girls virginity ☹️☹️
i said you are mine to forver after that
I loved the whole experience of taking her virginity.
When I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. It seemed like he didn't even wanna touch me in days. I don't know...
I felt amazing.
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