Where to have sex if I don't have my own place?

My boyfriend and I are struggling to find a place to have sex, we both live with our parents. He shares a bedroom with his brother and my house is always full of people. We both can't afford to move into our own place because it is expensive in our area. I can tell he is getting frustrated by it and trying to come up with a solution. Any suggestions? Would public places have to be an option?
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  • Go somewhere remote/preferably when it's dark if you're gonna do it in a car. My boyfriend and I do it sometimes in a Mini so it can kinda be uncomfortable but it can work. Just recline the seats and go for it.
    I'm sure you could find a cheap hotel somewhere but that probably won't be a good solution every time you get horny.
    If you're at a house party and you don't mind being 'that couple' have sex upstairs. If you go to the woods or a beach, field etc where no one goes, and you take a 'picnic' (or at least use that as an excuse).
    Go camping, go at it in a tent if you can make it work (I've done it comfortably in a one man tent before so you'll be fine)

  • Car. Change-room if you both make sure to play it smart. Bathrooms/empty classrooms on campus if you guys head there after hours, or when most classes are done for the day. Places such as a 'lookout tower' at hikes/trails outside..

  • A car, a cheap hotel, in a field. You know your area better than I do. I had plenty of underage sex when I lived with my parents, you have to learn to be rapid about it and creative with where you do it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Hotel?
    I'd steer clear of the public places the first few times, it's rough enough the first few times with the pressure of getting to know what another person likes sexually, without adding being worried about being walked in on or having to be quiet and all that. Pool your funds or one of you spring for a hotel room for a night, it's private, lockable, and if you enjoy yourself you can move on to public places if you really want (or just remove the do not disturb sign on the door if you find the idea of someone walking in exciting)

  • in changing rooms of the pool? or in the bushes, or in a car maybe?

    • yeah changing rooms could work

    • i know its not optimal though.

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  • I believe there's always air b n b's, and hotels by the hour sometimes. But if you have to do something public, go camping!

  • Go camping or get a hotel room.

  • You can risk public sex, in some places it's not legal, but as long that no one would see you there is no harm in that, you better look for some remote place.

  • A motel? Not a fancy high end hotel a low rate motel though. Any motel 6 or something like that around?

  • Cheap hotels? Don't have sex in public places, the risk of getting caught and arrested is too high.

    • Find a friend you can trust to help you.

  • Well you could get a cheap hotel...

  • considered a hotel?

    • Yeah could do, but they are quite pricey in oxford lol

    • oh yeah they kinda are around there. shop around a bit and you could find one at a reasonable price though. then at least you will be comfortable and don't have to worry about how much noise you make :)

    • yeah guess thats true :) I will have a look, my boyfriend suggested doing it in a field or woods but the weather is so unpredictable here haha

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  • Staircase of a random apartment building, dark area in a park (bring a towel to lay on)

  • Ask a friend maybe someone would be able to spare a room for you two for a couple of hours. Lol

  • Go hiking. Prepare everything, have a decent tent and blow-up mattress

  • Car
    Good old college days. Car kinda sucks but do what you gotta do. Or get a hotel, but that can be pricey ofc

    • We've tried in a car but not enough room and hotels in oxford cost a bit

  • Hotel, car, in the park at night, only limits are your imagination.

  • you have a brain.

    use it

    • thanks for the helpful advice

    • the only ideas you've had were.. your bed.,.. his bed... or a shared bed... ?

    • I'm trying to think of other places

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  • Lol your car

  • This will be your most frustrating and fun situations to be in. Get creative maybe a fancy hotel pool, car is classic, office, hiking trail, roof of the house, snowboarding down a mountain, movie theater, bathrooms, and many more to pick from.

    • I'm thinking of a hotel or B&B but don't want to spend so much... car is good but not enough room! Cinema would be fun to try! I was thinking of in a field or abandoned buildings but risky of dog walkers lol

    • Not a fan of abandoned buildings. if you are friends with a realtor they can tell you about empty apartment or house

  • My only idea that I can think of would be pure luck and a lot of patience. Wait until one of the houses are empty. Your parents or his parents are out grocery shopping, vacation, work, restaurant, etc.
    Does that ever happen?

    • I can't wait for that.. my mum is always in the house, my parents rarely go out. Lol

    • Start hinting about a cruise for their anniversary or birthday. But I know, it's rough.

  • You don't.

  • warm car hood

  • WHAT. YOU PEOPLE HAVE THIS PROBLEM STILL?

  • Car!

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