Why are guys who are virgins or who have little to no experience against GF/Marrying an ex-slutty girl?

[Anonymous]

I don't understand why guys who are virgins or have very little relationship/sexual experience are against marrying girls who were slutty in their youth but are now capable of being loyal girlfriend.

Why Past Slut can make a great GF:

1. Ex-Slutty girls have experience and explored their sexuality. They can teach you a few things or two and will likely be sexual open to more things than a virgin girl. Also they might be more accepting of your kinky perverted fetishes you don't tell anyone and share their own with you.

2. They are already up to speed on how to please a man and can teach you.

3. Chances are they are less likely to cheat on you than a virgin girl or a girl with low partner count. A virgin girl is going to get curious of what else is out there in the world, once she has sex with you and want to try out other men.

4. They are probably more likely to be open to the idea of having a threesome with another person.

5. Sex isn't a big thing for them. So they won't make you jump through hoops and might even give you surprise sex sessions when you least expect it.

So seriously what's the big deal if 50+ guys have had their way with your girlfriend already. If she's loyal to you then shouldn't that all matter?

[Bandit74]

I find it unnatractive thinking of how many men have been with her. Also I hate the idea of a girl being my first and only if Im am one of a long list of guys she has hooked up with. Also just because she has slept around does not mean she will be any kinkier than a more modest girl and even if she did try kinky things with her previous partners that doesn't mean she will want to do them with me.

I want to either settle down with a fellow virgin or get the chance to have sex with different girls and then settle down after I have caught up to the typical girl my age.

Also most slutty girls are no where near as hot as the girl in the gif. cf.girlsaskguys.com/.../...e-a49e-bb6887c48072.gif

Generally the most promiscuous girls are average to slightly above average looking while most of the really beautiful girls often have lower partner counts.

[Berethor]

Good point about feeling a sucker with a girl that been with much more people then you.

[ConsultantIsBack]

Chances are they are too inexperienced and shy to be compatible with her anyway

[Berethor]

And don't forget that fact that it's very weird when a girl is more confident then her guy.

[ConsultantIsBack]

@Berethor totally absolutely agree

[ConsultantIsBack]

thanks MHO

[BuchitaBuchys]

I'm not a virgin but I'm also not promiscuous.
I personally wouldn't be comfortable with someone too experienced.
I don't know if they're less likely to cheat.
I also am completely against the idea of threesomes.
Sex is a big thing for me.

I don't think we see sex the same way. I'm sure many virgin or less experienced men feel the same way.

[NaughtyNightly]

Also there is the possible issue of STDs, but baring that there are a lot of bonuses

[SunnyFlorida]

I disagree with your argument #3, that a slutty past makes for a monogamous future. The underlying concern about a woman's sexual history is that if a woman gets pregnant, the man wants to be 100% certain of the father - without a DNA test. Historically the best way to determine fatherhood was a woman's sexual history. When you meet a man you wish to marry, if the man asks how many partners you have had - make sure that you can answer truthfully.

[ChrisDK]

Why would I marry a ''slutty'' girl who wants a threesome? What happened to commitment and intimacy?

[Soteris]

Stop trying to justify it. This is not a thing where you measure pros and cons. It is just a fact that guys should care less about what she did before meeting / hooking up with you and more about here and now.

[Curiositykilledcat7]

Im happiest when im being shared with a few men. Anyone else

[minuteman12]

My girl is like that @curiositykilledcat7

[Berethor]

Old habits die hard, it's hard to trust "former" slut, just as it's hard to trust former criminal, yet she had more experience but she get it in a bad way, and she is an used goods anyway, which is a huge turn off, pure girls are the best. Sluts are most likely to cheat, pure girl have proven their liability by not giving their vagina to every second guy that they meet. Those picture are not going to seduce good guys for sluts, good guys are better then this.

https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/old_habits_die_hard

tvtropes.org/.../NatureAdoresAVirgin

[Daniel164]

what makes you think you can judge people like that?

[Berethor]

Because I can, and because he talking shit about virgin girls, and glorifying sluts.

[Daniel164]

judgement is not your right. people can make their own decisions in life and shouldn't have to be preached at by small closed minded people.

[Berethor]

Every decision have it's cost, and being good only for one night stand is part of the cost of being slut, you just a guy that look for one night stand with easy girls, that's why you defend them, But I can see it through, so you can stop preaching me your licentiousness bullshits. Men are preferring virgins to sluts from the beginning of time, to avoid rising another man's child, and to not take another man's leftovers.

tvtropes.org/.../MamasBabyPapasMaybe

[Daniel164]

hahaha I have only been with 2 people both in long term relationships and never had a one night stand. I was just taught to treat people with respect rather than feeding hate

[neonvoice]

@Daniel164 Because he might be a dignified man who don't settle for less. Unlike, the desperate man-ginas out there.

[Berethor]

@neonvoice that's right man. Sluts are having no honor, so they don't deserve to be respected, and it's not like a care too much about tham, it's only that they are not wife material. :)

[Daniel164]

Haha you talk about honour well if your going to behave like your from the middle ages maybe we should settle this with a duel

[Berethor]

So are you willing to risk you life to defend some random's slut honor? what a mangina.

[neonvoice]

@Daniel164 ok. let's make it happen.

[Berethor]

Okey but you should come to my place, I waste no money on sluts and white knights.

[Daniel164]

quite frankly yes to show you up

[Berethor]

@Daniel164 is he talking to me or to you? or he think that he can take us both? :D

[Daniel164]

one at a time or together it would make no difference to me

[Berethor]

@Daniel164 it's looks like I get you with confused @neonvoice, okey come and how me slutlover, as if anything that you do can change my mind about shits like you.

[Daniel164]

I'm in Israel in the future for business. I'll let you know when I'm on my way :) thanks for the cracking me up so much been in need of a laugh today

[Berethor]

@Daniel164 did I said something funny? I don't think so, anyway let me know.

[JohnDoe3000]

Maybe they believe virginity is something to be prized or that promiscuity is bad. This could stem from religious beliefs or their minds concocted these ideas so they won't feel as bad about their own virginity.

Maybe they feel insecure with a heavily experienced girl, like he would disappoint her and then she'd cheat/leave and make fun of him in public (so yeah, crippling insecurity).

If they're a bit older they can be afraid she's just using him for his money/security, not because she actually likes him.

I think all of these are sh*t reasons but hen again these guys know they are vulnerable and not good at reading a woman's true intentions, so on some level it's understandable.

[dwiller943]

Weird... Most virign guys go for sluts.

[RiseofArtemis]

If 50 dudes had her you won't be the last. Simple as that.

[genericname85]

I don't have a lot of experience and I'm not against promiscuous girls xD I guess some of those guys still believe in fairy tale love.

[Xlink]

Baiscly the mind of thinking I don't want used things.

If I'm brand new you have to be brand new

[Berethor]

That's right, that way it's a fair trade, it's sad to see good guy get used by a slut.

[Andrew2128]

I would tell every woman I have sex with that I am a virgin that's the best way to be

[Kylesar]

If she wants to go on a 1,000 dick journey, that's her prerogative. Just don't expect me to be waiting for her when she gets done

Luckily for me, I found a good girl

[ModernDayCrusader]

Her womb and mind would be polluted with all those other men that ejaculated all over her.
No one wants a whore because they would make lousy mothers and old habits dont go away, she won't stay loyal to you.
God forbid you have a daughter with this woman and she raises that child t be like her

[GreatnessRevamped]

Slutty is the wrong term for what you are describing.
It's basically a chick with ex boyfriends.

I personally have no problem with experienced girls. I expect a certain level of competence when I drop my pants.
You have to be this tall to ride this ride! :D

[zacmcain]

He has expectations that he believes are right. With experience, the expectations either change little or a lot. It just depends on the guy mostly.

[Shamalien]

Sluts are more likely to cheat…

[anonman32]

how can you expect to get a good answer with all these pictures man?

no just kidding. i think that perhaps they are a bit intimidated by the difference in experience and that this girl will not find them adequate as men sometimes can have performance anxiety.

[neonvoice]

A girl who slept with multiple guys is a red flag for disloyalty. Because, why did she have multiple partners in the first place? That shows she don't respect herself. That's just trouble you don't need. Disloyal is disloyal, a tiger is a tiger and water is wet. That's why.

[Anonymous]

Personally, no I wouldn't want to marry an ex-slut. I dont know why anyone would. The actions she had taken in the past will not be forgotten, but then again she could lie and minimize the numbers in order to make herself look good. Pay attention to her actions, how she acts and flirts with you, how "slutty she sounds". I cannot repeat this anymore, PAY ATTENTION TO A GIRLS ACTIONS, DONT BE FOOL BY THEIR "BEAUTY".

[Anonymous]

ok go marry a whore then

whats the point in this exactly? you asked a question then answered it yourself (according to your imagination at least)