How will I be able to sleep with black guys if my vagina isn't big enough?

I am a black girl and I went to the gyno today for my first pap smear. Anyway, so the gyno used the smallest speculum she had on me and was able to get to my cervix which was around 3.5". I asked her how will I be able to have sex or take a penis large enough if my cervix is that close. I also found out I'm ovulating which makes the cervix higher so when I'm not ovulating the cervix may be 2-3" away from my opening. Anyway, so she explained that when aroused my cervix will go a bit higher maybe 4.5-5 inches, which is average penile length, but the average black guy is larger than that. I was kind of embarrassed to ask her this, but I asked her why am I built smaller down there if as a black women I'm equipped to handle black men. She laughed at me and said it didn't work that way. She explained it like this, that penis length among different races of men DOES NOT directly equate to vagina size and distance to the cervix in the same race of women. Hip, pelvic, and vagina size also more strongly corresponds to height. Taller women often have larger hips and vaginas. Where there is not as a direct correlation to height and penis size among men. Penis size among men, is more like breast size among women. Very tall women can have small breasts and short women can have large breasts. Just like small men can have a large penis, while tall men can have a short penis. White and Asian women have the tendency to have more broad hips than many groups of Black women. The tendency of Black women to have more narrower hips is also partially why Black women are faster sprinters. Black women "compensate" by having tilted hips. The hip tilt is also why Black women have rounder butts. Asian women, in proportion to their size, have the broadest hips. While White women, factoring in taller heights, would have the broadest hips. This means that tall White and Asian women would have greater pelvic space and LARGER vaginas than Black women on average. So how can I have sex w/ black men?
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  • On average, the larger penises are found in South American populations. Then come those of African heritage.
    Then the Caucasian: their nightsticks are longer in Northern Europe: there is a negative gradient moving from the Northernmost point to the South.
    The smallest sizes are in Asia, except Pacific Islanders, who are, for that matter, about like the European.

    Individual differences are wide, and penises of all lenghts and diametres are found in every population.

    You should not worry about this, it won't be a problem anyway; also, why consider only black men an option? Be open to liking any ilk of people.

    • but i like black men. i'm black myself

    • Still no problem. Why should that be a problem, seriously? If they care for you, they won't complain about anything.

    • Lmfao

    • This is serious. i love black men

    • maybe you can do anal? I am sure there are some black men that are small down there lol dont let porn fool you.

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  • I am small and narrow, but not quite as much as you described. Hopefully your partner will fit good for you. There are some black guys that are average and below average, not just above average. One black guy I dated was just under average and thin girth, and was a great lover.

    • Do you think it has to do with a guy if he knows how to please his girl, no matter what's the size of his penis? :D

    • @Dexamethasone Maybe for some. But if it's too small, you can't ram things in there, it'll hurt. I don't want to get used to it and be in pain most of the time. I'd rather have enjoyable experiences.

    • Yeah of course I understand what you mean :) I guess the colour of the penis makes difference only for the girls who have preferences and makes them feel better? Even if they have the same size?

  • You don't need to get the entire penis inside, it's fine if an inch or so keeps out. Also, like she said, arousal makes it bigger. Lastly, not all black men are huge. They're slightly bigger on average, but between black guys there are smaller and bigger ones.

  • Hunny a black mans cock isn't bigger than a fist or a baby... your vagna will make room for his cock if you get aroused enough

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  • This is such a weird question lol

  • Black girl with short pussy? well that's rare, how about you start dating Asian guys? :P

    • apparently it's not rare. she said its common in black women since we tend to have shorter torso's than white people

    • I don't think so, most black woman have big vagina, so they can fit for black man.

    • I don't know. The doctor is saying otherwise. She's a gynecologist so she should know.

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  • Fascinating question and I loved all that detail!

    Pardon the pun, but, in short, uou need to find a black guy with a smaller dick. Consider a mixed race guy.

  • Say what now 😂😂😂😂

  • Just take half of it and pray he doesn't get too excited and ram it in hard or u be in pain...

  • Not all Black men are Mandingoes. It's a stereotype. It comes from an old, urban myth of Black men having animalistic, uncontrollable sexual urges and big, long phalluses that they use to rape White women. Perhaps another contributing factor to this is Black men generally having a bigger flaccid size (but around the same erect size as everyone else, with differences only being slight if at all existent).

  • I'm black and I've never even heard of this. A lot of our women like sex with us BECAUSE we are "endowed."

    • I was looking online and apparently there was a study done on this. I guess its true. https://www (.) ncbi. nlm. nih. gov/pubmed/10895030

    • Nah, I wouldn't go with that. Black women have been having sex with black men for ages and having no complaints and don't plan on stopping now.

    • there's this too from another doctor www (.) justanswer. com/ob-gyn/6d52a-women-longer-torso-s-deeper-vagina-s. html

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  • I'm black myself. And no, I am not offering. :)

    The word you are looking for is "Technique". The sensitivity of a man is mostly only at the tip of the penis. In other words, it really doesn't have to go in all the way in to feel really really really good.

    To get back at "Technique". A man just needs to be a little careful. It won't bother him. And you being smaller actually may make him feel like he is bigger and give him an ego boost as well.
    Don't worry about a thing.

  • Well you can. Not all black males have a dong to their knees.
    Besides, I remember this reality show were Omarions wife was complaining about how it hurt everytime they did it and demanded him to circumcise.

    • now that you mention it. i remember by other friends telling me they're boyfriends always bottom out in them

  • You'll get widened out the first time, that's why it's painful the first time to some.

  • You'll be able to handle them. No man has a penis as big as a baby. A vagina is very elastic.

    • i don't want to be in pain during sex

    • If you're horny there won't be any pain. If you aren't, don't have sex.

  • Okay Not all black guys have big dicks like for real we aren't a super race of people with Massive cocks. and dont say the average black guy is Larger than 6" because I know for a fact that most of my friends who are black are 6" or lower because their Ex's posted that shit on MY facebook when they broke up with them i dont know why it had to be my facebook.

    • there was a study done. i was surprised too. www (.) ncbi. nlm. nih. gov/pubmed/10895030

  • No ones gonna go balls deep into you, usually an inch or 2 sticks out. Relax.

  • You were a white girl the last time you asked a question like this.

    • i'm black. was this asked before?

  • Interesting. I'm a white male and I love black women! But never been with any sexually. Lol. :-)

    • I think I like Asian guys better. Not attracted to white guys

    • Aww. It's cool. We're all different and we like what we like. :-)

  • You can, it'll just hurt but you'll get used to the pain. Or you could go with white guys. Whichever.

    • I think I like Asian guys better. Not attracted to white guys

    • Even better.