How are you guys going to figure out which girls are sluts from non-sluts?

I keep hearing from inexperience/virgin guys that they will not be wifing up a slut and that how they'll get a virgin girl or one with little to no experience. How, exactly are you fellas going to go about it?

Virginity isn't something you can detect and women lie about their sexual partner count. In addition to this many girls who are sluts and racked up high partner count are able to completely do a 180 on their lifestyle and personality and present themselves to you as pure women who has been sampled only by a select few of men.

So for example you meet a girl who is the main star of a show called Master of Ink on Spike:
How are you guys going to figure out which girls are sluts from non-sluts?
How are you guys going to figure out which girls are sluts from non-sluts?
How are you guys going to figure out which girls are sluts from non-sluts?


What you don't know is she has done 1 porn film in the past:
How are you guys going to figure out which girls are sluts from non-sluts?
And was a mega slut who slept around with over 50+ guys. However, that's all behind her now. She stopped sleeping around, deleted her FB account and put up a new one with pictures presenting herself as a good girl. Stopped drinking, going out to clubs and did a full 180 on her personality that it would be hard press to tell her from a girl who did not sleep around.

Now you tell me how you'd figure out this girl is not a slut? What would u look for?

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For people confused. The girl in the spike pic and the one from the porn site are the same person.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The girls with the highest partner counts tend to be average to slightly above average looking extroverted girls who like to drink or do drugs.

    Really beautiful introverted sober girls are the least likely to have had an extensive sexual past.

    Another tactic is to eliminate their incenyive to lie.
    Dont let them know you are the type of guy who is turned off by a girls past. Better yet, go the extra mile and portray yourself as the type of guy who is actually turned on by hearing of her past sexual exploits. Once the incentive to lie is gone they are more likely to tell the truth.

    If you dont like what you hear, brake up and make up a different reason for why. That method is dependent on your acting skills tho.

    Aside from going for attractive, introverted, sober girls, the best method for finding out if a girl is a virgin is this...

    Ask her when was the last time she was tested for stds. This question is considered normal to ask any potential partner but it can also give you your answer.

    See, if she is a virgin, she is more likely to say something along the lines of "I have never been intimate with anyone so I haven't been tested recently". If she's a non-virgin her answer will be something like "I was tested x months ago " or "x weeks ago".

    Sure, its not a perfect method but its waay better than asking "hey, are you a virgin?". If you ask that question they will either try to insult you or lie, maybe both.

  • This is an issue. That's why it's never good to marry too soon. You have to get together for a long while until you yourself can notice the signs.

    • "That's why it's never good to marry" Fixed that for ya.

    • @Barrabus_the_Free to each their own.

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  • Try to find out out how insecure she is, if she is, try breaking her down and if she comes crawling for your attention, you probably know, that there have been many other guys who won her over that way. And if she wants to sleep with you more than you want to, she's probably a nymph.

    • That's a dick move. Why would you break down a girl if you already know she is insecure? Why would you do that at all?

    • @Entruder well the thing is, a slut will not think about if its a dick move. I'm just saying, if you do "dick moves" and the don't work, she's not a slut. If they do work, she probably is or at least she behaves slutty. And about the breaking down thing, everyone has insecurities, the question is how you stand to them. If she knows her flaws and is aware about herself, she won't break and then its not a dick move, but rather a way to find out who the person is

  • What is everyone's definition of slut? Guys who are focused on this issue are idiots. As if it matters as if you would not fall in love. As if you people know up from down. So stupid

    • I wouldn't like to sleep with a girl had much traffic Slut is a slut, just let girls be responsible for their acts And statistically, the more partner a woman had the more likely she can't be wife It just doesn't feel appropriate that she has flashback while she is in my arms You will try to talk about confidence issues , but it's about feelings Sluts are left overs, and I wouldn't like to put my thing in public toilet Same for men

    • @Dimmu how many men should a woman have before you call her a slut. As I said I want the definition.

    • I would call her a slut if she fucks any man shows up in her life Her boyfriend and his friends , everyone at work , just any male

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  • They usually can't tell, because so often I was treated as a slut while obviously being a virgin.

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  • We should convene a commitee. I'll need 20 million and swivel chairs!

  • Old post.. but there's lots of experienced guys who lost their money in divorce who THEN regretted marrying a slut.

    To me it's really about loyalty. If she has zero experience being loyal it's too risky to try a serious relationship with her. That's my thinking now. When I was your age I didn't really think about it and as long as a woman looked great, that was the main concern.

  • If you can't tell then why does it matter?

  • God/nature give a woman a hymen to help men to expose sluts. Also if a woman is a big slut it's hard to believe that not many guys are knowing it already, and smart man would investigate those thing with guys that he know, rumors travel fast. You claim is also not true, most sluts are stay sluts, and it's not so hard to suspect that they are dirty sluts.

  • What would I look for? A vag. Plain and simple.

    They all lie about their cock count, because they know that the more partners they've had, the less value they have as relationship material.

    You want a wife? Here's the rule to go by: No hymen, no diamond.

  • It's fairly easy actually. The main indicators are more than 3 Tattoos, smokes weed or especially ciggaretts regularly, alcoholic in any capacity, posts revealing pictures on social media, and multiple male friends. Most women that are hoes behave the same way. And a good thing about feminism, is that women that are hoes, aren't hiding it anymore. Good Luck

  • Useless, pointless and insecure.

    I don't worry about such things. I am much more busy finding out how she is now.

  • I don't think these guys can tell reliably and IMHO they shouldn't be worrying about it in the first place...

  • ya exactly hah u fuckers can't tell lmao

  • You can't tell, I'm sure everyone has a different definition of slut also. I've been called a slut and I've slept with no one 😂

  • U hack into their electronics and go through their messages, notes, contacts and history.

    • Already done it's called the NSA and they encourage that you be as slutty as possible and keep good documentation of it, preferably jpeg and MP4 formatted.

    • @lericah 😂 That was sarcasm.

    • Not for me it's not

  • That's the problem there is no way to know. That's exactly what these girls do, lie about their numbers and suddenly become good girls. Apart from taking a Polygraph Test sadly there is no way.

  • I judge slttiness by how much she thinks or talks about sex.

  • I love sluts, so it wouldn't bother me

  • So you use two women as examples who have clearly been passed around for certain uses. You should've used some better examples than those two.

    But no one would find out if someone they're attracted is a virgin or inexperienced. I like to think that we attract people like ourselves which makes us connect to them on an emotional level. I've come across women that have had multiple partners and yet I've had little experience in relationships but I didn't connect with them. But the women that I've connected with, have had some type of same experiences that I've had. But who the hell cares if the person we find is a Virginia or not.

    • That's the same woman dude. The girl in the first pic above from spike is the same girl who did porn.

    • My mistake. But other statement still remains about connecting with someone that we attract

  • The two Marys syndrome.

  • I could definitely accept it, if it wasn't more than 10 dudes and she was clean.

  • Dude why are you so obsessed with the past
    Who gives a shit
    Unless she has stds or mental problems I don't care
    i only care that I'm loved and love back just as hard

  • Innocence once lost can't be earned back
    And no matter how clever she is, she can't hide what she is

  • I didn't like what you write. İf they sleep more than 50+ guy this doesn't mean they are slut. I use this word only for women who have sex for money.
    Sex is very normal thing. İf men have right to have sex and sleep with women , so women have the right to have sex and sleep with men.
    And end of the article was very bullshit. The part which say " presenting herself as a good girl. " hahahaha. So if they have sex it means they are bad people? What is the number of sex prove that they are bad people? 1 sex , 2 sex , 3 sex , 4 sex...
    This is why I support feminist women. Cuz some men are really double standart.

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