Sent naked pictures to my ex boyfriend. Regret it now?

[Anonymous]

Well it wasn't fully naked.. just me topless with my boobs. We have been together for 2 years. One night we got really romantic and sexual over the phone and we send each other nude pictures. Yes my face was on it. He also send me a nude pic of him with his face. He didn't even pressure me to send them. In fact, it was me who started it. He is actually a nice and trustworthy guy so i didn't even think then. It was all out of control. One day he told me tht his phone broke and that he need time to save up money to buy a new one. However... we broke off due to lack of communication not fight. But lately, im staring to think of those photos and where they might end up cuz I keep hearing so many negative things about photos leaking. Im really worried.. should I be? I mean I also have his photos.. I dont think he would be doing it..

[Paris13]

If he is any Sort of Man with a Heart from the Start, he will Not do such a Thing with This.
He knows you have his own Pix of Himself, so if Anything would happen here, Dear... Tit for Tat is where it is At.
No, I am assuming with having this Long Term Relationship, which I think you both might even Iron out, No Cricks from the Pix, for he Seems the Kind of guy who has Hung in there, all of this time, even during 'Lack of Communication,' his heart has said it all, All of this Time...
Give him time, he may Contact you with some Missing the Kissing.
Good luck. x

[Asker]

Omg girl! I love your reply! I trust him a lot. If he breaks my trust I dont know if I can trust anyone in the world. I mean that much I trust him. Yeap u are right, he knows I have his pic also. But anyway, I have learnt my mistake to never send pics like that. It saves from the regretful feeling you get later on. Oh and to be honest, I still have feelings for him. He said before that he would prolly get his new phone by late July so just hoping things will be back to normal for the both of us :)

[Paris13]

Oh, thank you, sweetie, happy to help Help the war wound that must have been eating you so.. I still have a husband out in Egypt and we used to Send pix as well but as a Good Muslim and of course a man with some class, he never showed my ass. lol I hope so too and with His and Her history, I betcha you will be hearing from soon. xxoo

[Asker]

Thank YOU! :* :*

[Paris13]

So welcome. xx

[Paris13]

Thank you for the Vote of Confidence. xxoo

[LeftNutOnlyPlease]

Don't cry over spilled milk... you can't do anything about it now. Learn what type of action you can take if you learn he do post those pics in the future. But otherwise nothing you can do.

[Asker]

Thank you. He knows that I also have nude pics of him so mabye that will stop him from doing so? His family also holds quite a high reputation in our town so I hope he doesn't do anything like that

[Soteris]

Even if he does not spread them intentionally these things has a habit of leaking out anyway. Be it by accident or 3rd party intervention.

[Asker]

Thanks, I know. When he gets his new phone, im going to ask him where he disposed his old phone and if can ask him politely to delete those pictures :)

[Soteris]

Best of luck.

[Asker]

Thanks :)

[Berethor]

Too late for regrets, and you can always claim that you joined femen or something like that.

[Asker]

No my parents are religious and I live in a conservative society. Plus his family also has quite a high reputation on our area and he knows I also have pictures of him so mabye that will stop him from doing any such thing?

[Berethor]

Yes it would stop him, also if you send topless pictures, you not really that religious.

[GingerGuy]

Just ask if he's deleted the photos and if he hasn't, would he make sure he does for you, especially before he gets the new phone.

[Asker]

Thanks.. ok I will ask him :/

[Intraluminal]

I wouldn't worry too much. As you said, you have his pics, and it was just topless.

[Asker]

Thank you. Im trying not to worry about it too much. Plus if he actually does anything with those pictures, his reputation could get ruined too so I dont think he would do it

[Walrus_au]

In the current day and age, naked pics online are always a risk.

That said, what good will worrying about it do?

[Asker]

Well risk, but not for sure right. As far as I know he is a guy with a right mind. And plus he knows that I have his pictures..

[Walrus_au]

i think you missed my point. what is done is done, you cannot go back in time and change it. worrying about it now is only going to raise your blood-pressure/anxiety.

[Asker]

I know, but before that I think ill ask him where he disposed his old phone and politely ask him to delete the pictures. Then I will leave it all to God. Whatever it is, i realised how much I reget it and I will never do it again

[Walrus_au]

Worth a try

[Usernameisnttaken1]

Once you send them, they're gone. 😕

[Asker]

Gone like how..

[Usernameisnttaken1]

Gone like shooting an arrow you can't retrieve. It doesn't have your face so you could always say, "that's not me!"

[Asker]

I know.. but I canr go back in time can't i. by the way he knows I have his pic too with his face on.. do u think he wouls still do ir

[Usernameisnttaken1]

Nah, I wouldn't worry about it even if he does share it. You can deny it and say it's not you

[anonman32]

i would not mind pics from me flowing around, the way i see it it can only be beneficial.

[Asker]

Hehehe. I wish I also had that feeling but I can't. I live in a conservative environment. In Europe it doesn't really matter right? Like if u post your topless photo on any channel people dont give a big deal right?

[anonman32]

i think that the amount of nude pictures of girls on the internet is so high that its not a big deal to people anymore. the worst thing that can happen is that the pics go around with people you know. there is probably nothing shocking about the pictures, so why send them all over the place? its not like people haven't seen breasts before.

[Asker]

I know but not everyone has that same mentality. But he could post it on facebook right? And many of his facebook friends are also my friends. But he also knows that I have his nude pic, do u think he would still do such a thing

[anonman32]

i dont know him, but you have his pic so i dont think he will. of course there will always be these guys that are interested in these pics. if he posts it on facebook you can make him pull it off again i think. i know i did with some pics i did not wanted to have on there when i still had facebook.

[Asker]

Ok thanks for ur replies :)

[anonman32]

no problem, glad to help.

[dudegrt09]

Yeah you need to check 4chan

[Asker]

Whats that?

[dudegrt09]

A site where guys put nudes of their exes

[Asker]

Wow there's a site like that.. how do u even know that.. u do that too? Or ur friends? Well im sure he doesn't know that site.. he is not too familiar with the internet.. but he knows facebook. he could post it on fb. Its worying me. But he knows I also hv his nude pic.. do u think tht will stop him from doing such thing

[dudegrt09]

That site is not only for that purpose... It is like any other forum site where people post different threads. One of the thread which is very popular is called "pics you shouldn't be sharing". It is on this thread people post a lot of nudes. Personally I don't share any nudes of anyone because I think that is unethical. Also if he posts these on fb they will get removed. But people can still download it before them getting removed by admins. I think if you have his nudes he would think before posting yours. Anyway what's done is done and you can't change it so stop worrying about it. There are tons of celebs who get their nudes leaked and still continue to have a great career and everything. It is unlikely that he will leak it, but even if he does that is not end of the world...

[Asker]

Thanks youu ! :)