Are you attracted to alpha males or beta males?

I'm a beta male, i'm shy, quiet, passive, submissive and lack confidence, do you date guys like me? am i your type? or no girl likes that kind of male?
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  • There seems to be negative connotations to both, but far more with the "beta."

    Its OK to be introverted at times.. But all women ultimately want a guy that has confidence, can stand up for what he believes in and his woman, isn't a nice guy door mat to women, wants to do something in his life, and is interesting/fun to be around.

    Confidence is key. Want confidence? Talk to as many girls as you can (can be platonically) too, be proactive in reaching your goals and acquiring new experiences. Its one of those things that if its not in your comfort zone, you just have to tell yourself you have it and just do it.

    Good luck!

  • I don't think any girl wants a Beta... since he is just a follower. I would hope she would be attracted to an Omega since he is the only Man that can stand on his own, doesn't need the support of his peer's and isn't Arrogant like an Alpha.

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  • I don't know if alpha and beta really exist, I don't know what's the true definition of each, but I like :
    - Confident
    - Ambitious
    - Hard working
    - Extroverted men
    I believe it's alpha?

    • Yeah, that´s alpha, dominant, confident, bold

    • It's amazing more girls on gag can't have this understanding like you lol it's such common sense I would think

    • @keyspirit is back! He has a new username without the 's ☺

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  • If alfa women exist then I am one of them and I like both alpha and beta guys but alphas are more challenging for me they can match me.

    • Yeah but you would fight with an Alpha due to power struggles and judging by your nick name you would probanly kill him lol

    • Lol it would be funny How can submissive man challenge me to choose him over dominant?

    • We don't challenge women i guess betas just end up alone

  • Im attracted to guys who don't refer to themselves as 'alpha' or 'beta'.

    • This^^^

    • girl knows what shes' talking bout!!

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  • I'm attracted to men who don't buy into such utter bullshit. Alpha and beta are just trendy buzzwords to me...

  • The only alpha being belongs in that group is a wolf. Not men. So I'm attracted to neither. This alpha, beta bullshit needs to stop. No offense.

  • I'm attracted to assertive dominant men

    • Damn, most of girls voted for alphas, i guess they're better than us :'(

  • They're attracted to Oompa Loompas that are :-

    Confident
    Dominant
    Ambitious
    Kind
    Loyal
    Taller than them
    Handsome
    Athletic
    Successful

  • I don't date men who believe the terms "alpha" and "beta" sum up male personalities completely.

  • Maybe for marriage when they want someone to buy a house and raise kids with but you probably won't be the guy they want to hookup or experiment their sexual fantasies with.

  • This Alpha and Beta crap is getting annoying. Just be who you want to be.

    Don't let the animal kingdom categorize your behavior.

  • Doesn't matter to me

  • They like alphas brah but don't use that word here the GAGers will wreak havoc and bring up wolves.

    • It's a great paradox. The hot girls like alpha male characteristics, yet every girl ever hates the word and the connotations therein lol

    • @ConsultantIsBack Yeah they don't want to accept the truth

  • Alpha is my #1 <3 a man that can be in Control.
    Beta is okay i really have to like someone to be with a guy like that.

    • Interesting and you would have to be in control because betas don´t take control

    • A mix of both is great I would say :-)

  • Alpha males <3

    • Shit, i guess we'll disappear from the gene pool, cruel mother nature, i hate you

  • Lmao this gets them riled up so fast it's so entertaining. Bring on the bitches lmaooo

  • I like confident, intelligent and virtuous men.

  • it's alpha and theta...

    no such thing as "betas"

  • I'm attracted to normal guys haha

  • ALPHA.

    • i had no idea you followed these things.

    • @anonman32 What things?

    • alpha and beta things.

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  • Deal some drugs and beat up some kids.

    You'll get pussy in NO time. Unless you accidentally sound intelligent at any given time.

  • I like beta

    • Nice, so you prefer to be take control and be the leader.

    • No actually, at least not all the time. I find it attractive when someone doesn't always want to be in control. So betas are cute too.

  • Alpha males

    • What are we good for? nothing?

  • I only like one alpha named @polocrew

    • He likes how I make my pecs bounce

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