Men who want their woman to dress up as school girls possibly pedophiles or incline to that persuasion?

[JustheretoChill]

Sean from Nip/Tuck has strong sexual desire to fuck a 15 yr old girl who comes into his office asking to reconstruct her hymen.

Later in the series he wants his woman to dress up as a school girl for him and role play:

So would you say men who have a school girl fetish and like to pretend fucking underage girls are in fact secretly pedophiles who just don't act on their desire but try to live it out via role play with consenting adults?

[Berethor]

Yes it's likely to be true, but the same can be said for any man who date a girl who is much younger then him, yes there might be some pedophilic tendencies in this fetish, but it's not count as as true pedophilic act if the girl is not truly underage.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pC3OcM4jD_4

[NJ_Casanova]

I think it's more about.. attraction and remembering how he felt when he was in school and saw girls dressed like that.. it can make him hornier.

[meatballs21]

I like to play Grand Theft Auto, I guess I'm inclined to be a murderous criminal.

I would go hand myself in, but I also like playing Stardew Valley so maybe I'm inclined to be a farmer.

[anonman32]

if he wants to fuck an underage girl why doesn't he do it then? he chooses not to and to have sex with an adult. imagination and fantasy are abstract concepts so maybe you dont understand them, that can be possible too.

[JustheretoChill]

"if he wants to fuck an underage girl why doesn't he do it then?" Because the law and society rules would send him to jail for actin on it. Plus the judgement, loss of employment and potential social ostracizing if people found out.

[anonman32]

a real pedophile doesn't care about that dude.

[JustheretoChill]

Ah... what? That is just silly. Yes there are pedos who are attracted to children that don't act on it. Just because they don't act on it doesn't make them any less real.

[anonman32]

you know since the longevity of people has not always been 85 at some points in time people had to reproduce earlier. and if the longevity of the people in your society is 40 yo and you start with children on age 25 then you when your children are 15 you are basically a senior citizen. so you need to start with children sooner. an ideal society would be a society where people can see their grandchildren grow up, so if the parents die the grandparents can take care of them, so there is an overlap of 3 generations. for example in Belgium 100 years ago during the industrial revolution the longevity of the working class due to the harsh working circumstances was 40, this means that if they would start with children on age 25 that is was way too late. due to this we are attracted to people who are will in their teens like 16-17-18. this is actually called hebedophilia and not pedophilia, pedophilia is when you are attracted to people who have not yet reached puberty.