My questions about blowjobs and other stuff?

Question

Here is a list of questions I need some answers too. 
Some anwers might be obvious to you, but I never asked them, I'm not sooo experienced and I'm really curious and willing to improve :D

1. Does a blowjob feels any different that being inside the girl? If yes, how so?
(and how much is it different from handjob?)

2. How often do you consider the blowjob as just the starting point/preliminary before full sex, and how often is it the aim/ending point of the intercourse?

3. If the girl takes her mouth away before you come, and finish you with handjob, does it ruin everything?

4. Guys like it when we swallow. Why? Does it feels better? is it an acceptance/submissive thing? Is it just practical?
(do any of you don't like it/ don"t want your girl to do it because you think it's disgusting? the guys I've been with so far always pulled my head away, so they would not come in my mouth)

5. I never know when I should stop moving when the guy comes. After he has totally ejaculated? Or should I stay still when he does? And how long should I keep my mouth/hand/whatsoever there after that?

6. An ex told me, his penis kind of hurt right after cumming. Is it normal? 

7. What makes a good blowjob? Advices?

I think that's all for now, might update it if I think of other questions. Thanks a lot guys!

MysticIntent · Accepted Answer

1: It feels noticeably different than a vagina because there are things a mouth and tongue can do that a vagina can't.
2: I consider blowjobs to be a way of fooling around. Though it does make for good foreplay it has never led to sex for me. Also, I personally viewed the blowjob as the ending point anyway. I was still new to the whole thing.
3: In my case, it would not ruin it. My girl was giving me a blowjob in my bed one day and she finished with a handjob. It wasn't under a blanket or anything so when I came it got all over the both of us and we both got a nice kick out of it.
4: It is kind of a dominance thing. I'm not 100% sure why I like it, I guess it's just one of those things. You could say it's a bonding thing, a sign that you're getting close to that person. If she didn't swallow or take it in her mouth then I'd feel like she didn't like giving a blowjob or didn't want to do it and then I'd feel bad that she did.
5: After he cums just continue with the full blowjob for a good few seconds to make sure all the cum is out. After that, either gently touch the shaft and tip with your tongue or very gently stroke it with your hands for another few moments or until he says you can stop.
6: That is completely normal.
7: When you start out, slowly drag your tongue along the entire shaft once or twice before you take it in. Go very slow and be very gentle in the beginning and slowly pick up the the pace and slowly get more aggressive. In addition to the up and down head bobbing, actually suck on it like you're sucking on a straw, make lots of use with your tongue for it is a powerful tool, use your hands in combination with head bobbing and jerk him off with gentle twisting motions. occasionally come up for breath but continue using your hands while you do. Run your tongue along the whole shaft, and kiss and lick the tip before you go back down. Occasional eye contact is a powerful emotional stimulation. At the end for the finale, I personally like to cum in the girl's mouth, on her face, or on her chest. That part is up to you, you'll probably want to figure that out ahead of time. Or not, if you like being spontaneous. An important part of it is to be into it. Be enthusiastic about it. That kind of emotional effort helps amplify the physical pleasure.
I know it's a long read but I hope this answers your question. If not, all sales are final, no refunds haha.

Dargil · Accepted Answer

1. Much different. A vagina contacts a penis 100%, warm, tight and a BJ less so. But a BJ can be better than vaginal with a suck and stroke technique with skilled mouth action at the head. A handjob is less stimulating but lotion and very fast stroking are effective.
2. We dont use oral as foreplay, only as the Main Event without intercourse at all. We use mutual masturbation on each other as warm ups.
3. I still come but it is less satisfying.
4. Ejaculation in a bobbing, sucking mouth is far (far) more satisfying but i am indifferent to whether she spits or swallows.
5. Excellent question. here's what i like. The body of a BJ is head bobbing/sucking/tongue swjrling (HBSTS) and hand stroking the shaft in sync. When the finish approaches keep HBSTS at the same relaxed pace but break away hand stroking and do it aggressively. When ejaculation starts, stop HBSTS other than straight, motionless sucking but keep stroking aggressively until the final squirt. Then keep the penis in your mouth under vacuum until he unplugs.
6. My penis can be a little sore after an aggressive BJ and if my contractions have been very strong, the trigger down inside can be briefly sore.
7. A good BJ is simmarized in 5.

ClumsyAngel · Accepted Answer

1. It probably feels different (suck, you got a tongue)
And with a handjob, suck your finger, and wrap your hand around the finger.. you'll feel a difference :p

2. Depends on the person I think?

3 It probably doesn't, you let him finish, right? He'll be happy :p
4 I think they see it as an acceptance thing or just find it sexy overall
5 When he comes I'd slow down, and when he's done coming, I'd stop or it might hurt for him if you'd continue
6 Doesn't sound right to me! XD
7 Use your mouth tongue and hands :)
As funny as this sounds "do not forget to suck" while you're going up and down. use your hands to like gentle carress his balls or something

Maik567 · Answer

4. Yes I like it, it's a submissive/acceptance things. It doesn't physically feel any better, just feels so good that she's willing to do that for you.

5. Yeah shortly after he's finished cumming.

6. Not unless he already came many times in that day, like +4 times.

7. The wetter the better in my opinion, I like sloppy blowjobs. And it's definitely a plus the more you can take it down your mouth.

aftermath · Answer

Blowjob feels like heaven (to some guys it even feels better than the vagina) its a whole different experience than when you put it in but it feels really good. It is totally different from a handjob because it is more messy and it feels a lot better. It is usually the start of sex but he can lick you out and also handjobs are a great way to start. Guys have their own preferences on taking the mouth away before you cum but it really depends on the girl tbh because the girl (if she keeps her mouth on the dick till he cums) has to swallow or take it somewhere else and finish him with a handjob. When girls swallow it turns me on personally I don't know why but its just great seeing her swallow my load like she is getting the reward for the great time. Also taking it in the mouth and spitting in on her boobs is another turn on. After the guy cums you should keep going till he tells you to stop or when the penis starts to turn semi soft. There is a point where pleasure turns into a mild discomfort when the girl keep sucking the soul out of your dick after cumming. If the guy cums really hard it can sometimes hurt. I know one of my first time getting a blowjob my penis hurt for a while after because of the force of my ejaculation but it feels good 99% of the time so don't worry. The under side of the head where the skin attaches to the head of the penis is very sensitive (for me atleast) and I love it when a girl licks over there. NEVER USE TEETH!!! IT RUINS THE WHOLE THING!!! Don't forget the balls, they are pretty important too. IF the guys likes it then a bit of ass licking is okay but I personally don't like it. Other than that communication is key so keep talking to your guy get feedback (if he is moaning or his mouth is slightly open its usually a good sign). Sorry if this is too long its a habit... :) Happy sucking

This_is_my_username · Answer

Wowza this is a lot of Q's. The dudes will help ya out!

Letmetellyouaboutit · Answer

When his dick starts ejaculating in your mouth it's best to hold your head very still but I still want you to slowly swirl your tongue around my dick until the spurts have stopped. Then it's good to show me the sperm in your mouth and it's fine to even make out with me at that point. Hope this helps

Walrus_au · Answer

Some anwers might be obvious to you, but I never asked them, I'm not sooo experienced and I'm really curious and willing to improve

Questions are bet answered by asking.

1. Does a blowjob feels any different that being inside the girl? If yes, how so?
(and how much is it different from handjob?)

Very. different. I absolutely love the feeling of being inside a vagina. but a BJ is different, the tongue can move independantly. Then there is suction.

A hand-job is an entirely different experience.

2. How often do you consider the blowjob as just the starting point/preliminary before full sex, and how often is it the aim/ending point of the intercourse?

I don't, I just enjoy it.

3. If the girl takes her mouth away before you come, and finish you with handjob, does it ruin everything?

no, but sometimes finishing a guy off in your mouth will blow his mind.

4. Guys like it when we swallow. Why? Does it feels better? is it an acceptance/submissive thing? Is it just practical?

feels amazing, acceptance and practical.

(do any of you don't like it/ don"t want your girl to do it because you think it's disgusting? the guys I've been with so far always pulled my head away, so they would not come in my mouth)

Cumming often leads to a hyper-sensitivie penis, mouth stimultion can be too much to handle at that point.

5. I never know when I should stop moving when the guy comes. After he has totally ejaculated? Or should I stay still when he does? And how long should I keep my mouth/hand/whatsoever there after that?

Depends on the guy, everyone is different. ask, explore, try, maybe just mix it up.

6. An ex told me, his penis kind of hurt right after cumming. Is it normal?
Sometimes a dull ache from being under pressure, sometimes it's the hypersensitivity.

7. What makes a good blowjob? Advices?

Tongue, suction, be very careful of teeth.
remember, the most sensitive spot is just beihind the underside of the head/glans.

I think that's all for now, might update it if I think of other questions. Thanks a lot guys!
Ask away.

sp33d · Answer

1. If inexperienced, it feels VERY different (the teeth)
2. Unless it's a quickie, a bj is always on the menu for her.
3. Doesn't ruin, I just won't come.
4. Practicality and the sense of dominance

6. Yes
7. Make it disappear. Don't use your teeth.

MaLifeBeLikeOooAaah · Answer

1. Can't answer that yet, still a virgin 2. Well I'd always be wanting a bj at any point during sex 3. I'd prefer if she kept on sucking :p But it doesn;t ruin it 4. Well it's hot to come in her mouth, hot when she swallows and yes definitely a sub/dom thing 5. Haha no answer to that really, whatever is comfortable 6. Yes very normal 7. Never use teeth, just make us cum haha

EscobarTheFamous · Answer

I can teach you but we must meet ^^

Twolips · Answer

That's so many questions I'll just say blow jobs are cool

LOGESH94 · Answer

Blow job feels different than inside a girl it makes full erectness & strong.. almost of the times.. Yes it Change sexual mood.. yes guys like it when a women swallows it makes them happy as my partner drunk my cum for me

cadans · Answer

U dont need swallow but it just be hot if u sallow.. doesn't ruin if u finish with hand job.. Just i like eye connection while a girls giving me bj :)