My boyfriend never touch my breasts, is that acceptable?

[Ellen9527]

I have small breasts, never thought it was an important issue as I always think even with small breasts I am still sexy, and all my Exes was pretty obsessed with me on bed. But my current boyfriend never pays attention to them, he hardly even touch them, but I really into that. I understand he have a long hour job witch makes him exhausted when he come home, he may want get it over quickly, but we were being together for half year, he never touched my breasts. He is bad at foreplay as well. Since I can’t get proper sex as I usually do, I am missing the way I had sex with my Exes always. It is big change of sex life since I start dating him. Usually my Ex will do the foreplay so good that I have to beg him to stop, can’t wait to get into the “main course”. But with him, mostly no foreplay whatsoever. Feel like having sex with random stranger instead of with my boyfriend I talked with him about this boob issue several days ago, he said he just not that into boobs yet I caught him complement other girl’s boobs on social media. So I think maybe it is a delusion that I thought he is in love with me. I thought if a man love his girl he will pay attention to her breasts on bed instead of just put his dick straight in. He is 8 years older than me, thought he supposes to know how to treat girls on bed after all that relationships. I guess he just don’t want to make the effort for me. It was ok since we just dated for like half year, I can’t imagine I will put up with this shit way of having sex for long term, and I don’t want to cheat on him latter on because of boob issue. Just want the honest opinion on this. Guys, will you never touch your GF’s breast just because they are small? Is it possible that a guy will actually change his behaviour on bed eventually? Should I just stop wasting my time on this relationship and move on? I do grow very fond of him , but I love sex too much to put up with this anymore.

[Anonymous]

I date a guy like that a couple years back. He said he wasn't comfortable with small boobs and thought that I wouldn't even feel a thing if he touched my breats. Happens that he was really bad in foreplay as well, you gotta talk to him once again. Ask him to touch your boobs when you two are not having sex and ask him if it feels weird to the touch. Ask him to be honest and tell you exactly what's his problem with your breats cause you're starting to question the feeling

[Ellen9527]

You are very kind. Even though i know he will dodged how he feels about it delicately like he did before, i'll ask him again.

[SvetlanaSavachenko]

I have small A cup breasts and the men I date all go nuts over them, they can't keep their hands, lips and tongues off them. The problem is not your breasts, the problem is your man. Sounds like you need to walk away from that relationship and find a man that will give all of your body the attention it deserves. I'm bisexual and I'm more turned on by small breasts than large ones.

[Ellen9527]

I totally agree with you , didn't had this kind of problem with my EXes, sometimes my Ex left my whole chest red like boiled shrimp. The problem is him, feeling better to keep this in my mind thank you very much.

[cavmanier]

I just find it interesting to hear lots of women say to break up with a guy because he doesn't suck her boobs lol.

[Ellen9527]

@cavmanier well ``How you gonna feel if your girlfriend never suck you dick but you really like it.

[cavmanier]

Asker yeah but I just imagine women showing more of an attitude that the guy would be shallow or wrong somehow for breaking up for that.

[SvetlanaSavachenko]

An excellent point indeed. You have to give in order to receive so if he's unwilling to give your small breasts the attention they deserve how can he expect you to suck his dick? My tits usually have at least 3 or 4 sucker bites on them at all times. Yours should be getting that attention too!

[Ellen9527]

@cavmanier I guess i just lost interest. Quick sex without foreplay sometimes would be hot actually. Try every-time, it is boring and i feel like i'm a thing. not girlfriend. I did mentioned that i need foreplay many times. Also, sometimes it would be a bit painful to just start intercourse without lubricated enough. Also, i didn't even complain about his dick size, why would he think he had right to treat me like that```

[SvetlanaSavachenko]

@cavmanier Well if I was your girl and you wouldn't suck my tits I wouldn't suck your dick and we'd be going separate ways quickly as I love having my tits sucked and I absolutely love sucking dick. But you have to give a little to get a little so if you don't put out I'll find someone who will and he'll be getting his dick sucked and you won't.

[cavmanier]

From what I've observed, women tend to want more foreplay than men right? That's what I've heard. He may be more of the extreme side of not wanting foreplay. You said you've tried taking to him about it. Did you complain to him about it? He may have not listened if he felt insulted. Did he complain about your size?

[cavmanier]

SvetlanaSavachenko that's understandable. I'm not against boob sucking.

[Ellen9527]

@cavmanier I don't like long time or complicated foreplay since i'm can come quit easily and quickly, just enough to get me wormed up would be fine. So at first i didn;t think it was an issue. But since i haven't get any foreplay at all i tend to find having sex with him is sad. He never complained about my size, never even touched it, is that not obvious enough? He asked other girl to send him pics with boobs. I'm not good with words, maybe the way i addressed the problem he found insulting. I just feel frustrated. I seldomly watch porn and never masturbate before i meet him. But i do now, and i bought dildo, even though we have sex frequently. The other day i was showing him some X art porn movies (this series is all about sweet, romantic sex), but he said it is boring than another kind which i don't like.

[Xfitchick]

Sex is communication and pleasing each other. If you like being touched at the breasts, you should tell him that. Sex is not pleasing yourself, but giving it an extra dimension by bringing your partner and yourself to the ultimate point at the same moment.

[Ellen9527]

The other day he told me to shut up and fuck off very rude, just because i want to go fishing instead of watching a shit movie with him, he said i'm selfish. Yet, I don't like shave , my skin is very sensitive , some times i got rash after shave. But he ask me to shave , so I did. He don't like the way i'm sucking his dick, i changed to the way he wanted. He ask me to suck his ball, i hate it but i did. I don't even know why i am the selfish one. This is so fucking pathetic

[Xfitchick]

He clearly only wants to dominate you and is only interested in his own pleasure. So you will have to decide: continue your life as a dominated person getting not what you want or dump him and start a new and free life and find someone who respects you as a person and not as furniture.

[Dim_121]

He is 8 years older than you bad at foreplay and he never touches your boobs. Well it sounds like your going to have to take the lead in bed. Play the dominate girlfreind on a day that he has off. Make him do what you want.

Boobs are mean to be played with. The size does not matter. Honestly if he is not sexually filling your needs you do need to look for someone that will. Your 25 you have plenty of time to find a guy your age. That loves playing with your BOOBIES!

[Ellen9527]

Thanks for your reply ! The thing is that when i start to sleep with him he said i was so dominant on bed that he can't get hard for me, which i didn't. I have no idea why he would think i'm dominant ````I'm pretty sure if i actually try to be dominant he would just freak out.

[Dim_121]

Lol try handcuffing his but to the bed and then see if you can't get hit to stand at attention.

[SunDevil11]

If he is not a boob guy he probably won't care or touch them much, but if you enjoy it that much he should make an effort. Have you told him he needs to improve his foreplay or tried to tell him what to do to help pleasure you? If not that may help, but if he is going to be selfish and he won't touch your boobs at all I might consider leaving him

[Ellen9527]

Thanks for your replay. Yeah i did mentioned several times about the foreplay issue with him, didn't see much difference has been made

[SunDevil11]

Yeah if he makes no effort in foreplay after half a year it probably won't change much if at all in the future

[Felinegirl]

Tell him the way you guys have sex is unacceptable for you. Tell him you want your breasts to be touched and say you need good foreplay. Teach him how to be good in bed. If he cares one bit about you he'll at least try.

[Ellen9527]

I did lectured all this to him many times. He think i'm just too demanding i guess

[Felinegirl]

Im tempted to say 'let him go', unless he's absolutely amazing at other things

[Ellen9527]

Amazing my ass```

[Felinegirl]

Then why are you stil with him?

[Ellen9527]

Trying to leave ``

[Felinegirl]

Good luck!

[WillowTree]

I'm going to go off topic for a moment and say this is one reason why I say sex before marriage because once you get in bed together you learn all kinds of deal breaking facts about your partner that change how you feel about them.

As for your situation, I'm obviously not a dude, but I think your man not putting in any effort to please you sexually says a lot about how he feels about you. Do you at least get an orgasm out of it? And not into boobs "yet"? At age 33? Even though there's not enough information about your relationship here to make a proper judgement, I'm getting the vibe that you're just a young warm body to fill his bed at night.

[abundantlyrich]

Your boy a virgin?

[Ellen9527]

Nope, he had sex with heaps of women ````

[abundantlyrich]

I think he is gay

[cinderelli]

Lol! *upvote* 😂😂😂

[Ellen9527]

haha, he is not

[abundantlyrich]

He's not ready to come out of his shell

[BackAgain]

I have small boobs I'd love my boyfriend to touch it and if the sex life sucked I'd dump him caz I definitely have a wandering eye regauardless

[JustChilling]

Yep, your just there till the next girl comes along in my opinion.

[Ellen9527]

As much i want to deny it , yeah i think so

[cinderelli]

You already have talked to him but apparently he doesn't even want to make an effort.. it's an other thing not doing something cuz you forget about it.. but its something else to know that your partner really wants it and still not doing it.. plus he doesn't seem to be very romantic or caring either.. otherwise he'd spend time making you want sex too instead of just shoving it in.. your relationship is gonna lose its spark very soon anyway. I'd say have a serious talk with him and move on to someone better

[Ellen9527]

Thanks for your reply. I already don't feel like having sex with him anymore. After i told him so many times that i need foreplay, makes me feel bad to force him to do it

[cinderelli]

I can understand.. you've lost the urge 😕 plus it sucks to TELL a guy to kiss you and do this and that.. it's just so NOT romantic

[Letmetellyouaboutit]

I'm actually turned on more by small breasts and they are fun to play with, suck on and cum all over

[Zebadee88]

Tell him what gets you hot!! and speaking from experience of tiny boobs to HUGE boobs - I always pay them attention... more if the girl wants it.

[genericname85]

maybe he´s just a little awkward or might think it makes you feel bad cause you´re selfconscious or something. did you ever try to take his hands and put them on your boobs? ^^

[Ellen9527]

yes… I did. Doesn't work

[genericname85]

i guess he´s just not so into it the xD maybe it´s not even about them being small.

[singlebee]

Hmmm looks like he didn't find you attractive enough...
You may want to breakup with him

[singlebee]

Read your other comments... And it looks like he didn't like the sex with you... I think you Two are not sexually compatible... You both would breakup for sure

[Ellen9527]

ok ……

[Yanoa_Yanza]

Maybe he's not a breast guy lol

[Ellen9527]

Yeah, I bet. I'm not a ball girl, but he ask me to suck his balls. I did even though i fucking hate it

[Yanoa_Yanza]

o then you could ask him to do it :o to you if you want them to be carressed

[Yanoa_Yanza]

If a man loves his girl he will pay attention to her breasts... Not true, but if a man loves his girl he'll do it, because if she asks for it. I mean it's got to stay fun for both of you

[Popo21]

That's sad, it seems to me like you're not a priority

[tristan22]

i don't think it is normal for a guy not to be inerested in his girlfriends breast.
maybe just ask him why

[Ellen9527]

He said he is not into boobs which is bullshit since he was ask other girl to send him pic with boobs. I think he is just very shallow , selfish, maybe just use me for sex coz he can't find a better one. I don't like shave , my skin is very sensitive , some times i got rash after shave. But he ask me to shave , I did. He told me the way i'm sucking his dick is not the way he wanted, and i changed to the way he wanted. He ask me to suck his ball, i hate it but i did. I think it is not fair at all, for him to not even give a bit effort to please me on bed as well. I didn't even enjoyed having sex with him most of the time.

[tristan22]

well as you do everythink to please your boyfriend and he does nothing 4 u i would tell u to dump him.!!

[SmartProspecting]

is that cuz ur always napping and facing him

[Ellen9527]

Not really, he likes from back ` It is funny ```Now i think maybe he don't want to see my boobs, so he usually do it from back.

[SmartProspecting]

coudl be gay

[Ellen9527]

`I may not sure about many things about him ``` he is definitely not gay

[SmartProspecting]

mysterious

[Anonymous]

Next time, just grab his hand and put it on your boobs