My boyfriend never touch my breasts, is that acceptable?

[Ellen9527]

I have small breasts, never thought it was an important issue as I always think even with small breasts I am still sexy, and all my Exes was pretty obsessed with me on bed. But my current boyfriend never pays attention to them, he hardly even touch them, but I really into that. I understand he have a long hour job witch makes him exhausted when he come home, he may want get it over quickly, but we were being together for half year, he never touched my breasts. He is bad at foreplay as well. Since I can’t get proper sex as I usually do, I am missing the way I had sex with my Exes always. It is big change of sex life since I start dating him. Usually my Ex will do the foreplay so good that I have to beg him to stop, can’t wait to get into the “main course”. But with him, mostly no foreplay whatsoever. Feel like having sex with random stranger instead of with my boyfriend
I talked with him about this boob issue several days ago, he said he just not that into boobs yet I caught him complement other girl’s boobs on social media.
So I think maybe it is a delusion that I thought he is in love with me. I thought if a man love his girl he will pay attention to her breasts on bed instead of just put his dick straight in. He is 8 years older than me, thought he supposes to know how to treat girls on bed after all that relationships. I guess he just don’t want to make the effort for me. It was ok since we just dated for like half year, I can’t imagine I will put up with this shit way of having sex for long term, and I don’t want to cheat on him latter on because of boob issue.
Just want the honest opinion on this. Guys, will you never touch your GF’s breast just because they are small? Is it possible that a guy will actually change his behaviour on bed eventually? Should I just stop wasting my time on this relationship and move on? I do grow very fond of him , but I love sex too much to put up with this anymore.

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[Anonymous]

I date a guy like that a couple years back. He said he wasn't comfortable with small boobs and thought that I wouldn't even feel a thing if he touched my breats. Happens that he was really bad in foreplay as well, you gotta talk to him once again. Ask him to touch your boobs when you two are not having sex and ask him if it feels weird to the touch. Ask him to be honest and tell you exactly what's his problem with your breats cause you're starting to question the feeling

[SvetlanaSavachenko]

I have small A cup breasts and the men I date all go nuts over them, they can't keep their hands, lips and tongues off them. The problem is not your breasts, the problem is your man. Sounds like you need to walk away from that relationship and find a man that will give all of your body the attention it deserves. I'm bisexual and I'm more turned on by small breasts than large ones.

[Xfitchick]

Sex is communication and pleasing each other. If you like being touched at the breasts, you should tell him that. Sex is not pleasing yourself, but giving it an extra dimension by bringing your partner and yourself to the ultimate point at the same moment.

[Dim_121]

He is 8 years older than you bad at foreplay and he never touches your boobs. Well it sounds like your going to have to take the lead in bed. Play the dominate girlfreind on a day that he has off. Make him do what you want.

Boobs are mean to be played with. The size does not matter. Honestly if he is not sexually filling your needs you do need to look for someone that will. Your 25 you have plenty of time to find a guy your age. That loves playing with your BOOBIES!

[WillowTree]

I'm going to go off topic for a moment and say this is one reason why I say sex before marriage because once you get in bed together you learn all kinds of deal breaking facts about your partner that change how you feel about them.

As for your situation, I'm obviously not a dude, but I think your man not putting in any effort to please you sexually says a lot about how he feels about you. Do you at least get an orgasm out of it? And not into boobs "yet"? At age 33? Even though there's not enough information about your relationship here to make a proper judgement, I'm getting the vibe that you're just a young warm body to fill his bed at night.

[cinderelli]

You already have talked to him but apparently he doesn't even want to make an effort.. it's an other thing not doing something cuz you forget about it.. but its something else to know that your partner really wants it and still not doing it.. plus he doesn't seem to be very romantic or caring either.. otherwise he'd spend time making you want sex too instead of just shoving it in.. your relationship is gonna lose its spark very soon anyway. I'd say have a serious talk with him and move on to someone better

[SunDevil11]

If he is not a boob guy he probably won't care or touch them much, but if you enjoy it that much he should make an effort. Have you told him he needs to improve his foreplay or tried to tell him what to do to help pleasure you? If not that may help, but if he is going to be selfish and he won't touch your boobs at all I might consider leaving him

[Felinegirl]

Tell him the way you guys have sex is unacceptable for you. Tell him you want your breasts to be touched and say you need good foreplay. Teach him how to be good in bed. If he cares one bit about you he'll at least try.

[BackAgain]

I have small boobs I'd love my boyfriend to touch it and if the sex life sucked I'd dump him caz I definitely have a wandering eye regauardless

[genericname85]

maybe he´s just a little awkward or might think it makes you feel bad cause you´re selfconscious or something. did you ever try to take his hands and put them on your boobs? ^^

[Zebadee88]

Tell him what gets you hot!! and speaking from experience of tiny boobs to HUGE boobs - I always pay them attention... more if the girl wants it.

[Letmetellyouaboutit]

I'm actually turned on more by small breasts and they are fun to play with, suck on and cum all over

[singlebee]

Hmmm looks like he didn't find you attractive enough...
You may want to breakup with him

[Anonymous]

Next time, just grab his hand and put it on your boobs

[tristan22]

i don't think it is normal for a guy not to be inerested in his girlfriends breast.
maybe just ask him why

[Popo21]

That's sad, it seems to me like you're not a priority

[JustChilling]

Yep, your just there till the next girl comes along in my opinion.

[Yanoa_Yanza]

Maybe he's not a breast guy lol

[SmartProspecting]

is that cuz ur always napping and facing him

[abundantlyrich]

Your boy a virgin?