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Have you ever been with a shy person who is really crazy in the bedroom?

I am dating a girl who works in a univeristy biology lab. Everything about her screams nerd. Glasses, messy hair, dresses like an old person, she is is super shy. However, she is also the nicest person I think I have ever met. Thats why im so surprised at how freaky she is in the bedroom. In 3 months of dating we have done bondage, role play, anal sex, she has always swallowed during oral and she gets super wet from being roughed up and dominated. Then after sex she will just hang in the nude until we go out or have visitors or some other reason that forces her to get dressed. Im not complaining. I love it. Im just super shocked as I thought i would be dating a nerd. Has anyone else ever gotten someone who completely changes once its time for sex?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • ahah what, exactly, are you "shocked" about?

    hmm lessee here...

    • you have a girl who's probably got a quick mind and intellect -- in other words, the kind of restless imagination that's easily bored and that's always inventing crazy shit to keep her entertained.
    ... and you're SURPRISED that she's "creative" in the bedroom?

    • she's shy, not too focused on her outer appearance, and she's probably spent a lot of time studying that other people her age have spent partying.
    so, she probably has a lot of unexplored sexual fantasies to let out, and frustration to release.
    ... and you're SURPRISED that she's a horny little you-know-what, once she's in a relationship where she can let it all hang out?

    Like, srsly, what the hell dude? 😂😂😂 If anything, you should be worried if this sort of thing WEREN'T happening.

    Trust me, I speak as a fellow #nurdgurl here. We're pretty much depraved sluts. (In the right kind of relationship, at least, for some of us.)

    __

    Also -- Hanging out naked with a boyfriend/husband is totally normal, unless (1) someone hates her body, (2) the house/apartment is cold af, and/or (3) there are many neighbors and few curtains.

    I mean... I don't know why you would see this as "kinky" -- or even as the least bit sexual. It isn't either. It's just comfortable.
    ESPECIALLY being able to go braless for a while (double-especially if her boobs are bigger than A's or B's). The joy of taking off a bra after many hours is quite sublime.

    • Tx for the MH luv <3

  • There was this shy nerd in hs who I somehow had sex with... I saw a whole different side of them in the bedroom and even though they were the virgin and I was experienced, they seemed to be pretty good at sex and I ended up getting exhausted first.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I was surprised one night in my free and easy early 20's. A very sweet shy young girl and I struck up a conversation she seemed to enjoy my company, but, I didn't think I had a chance in hell of going any further. Her friend said there was an after party at their friends house. My friend seemed to hit it off with this girls friend soI went. The girl continued to hang out with me, but, I got no signals from her. As we danced out of the clear blur sky she grabbed my butt a little bit and directed me to an unused bedroom. I don't know how to state this politically correct, but, she f**** d me like there was no tomorrow like it was her last one ever.

    • She musta been catholic

  • based on my experience. girls who are more outgoing are usually normal in bed, not kinky or just a little bit. but, a shy and smart girls are most likely to have another personality in bed. it's like a different person. also... there's the element of surprise when you see her nude for the first time. because their usual clothes might hide their body line and such.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I've ran into shy women who would let me do anything to them, but no... never met one who wasn't shy in bed if shy in life.

  • You judged her apperance..

    • But yeah those innocent baby faces.. I know they are kinky as hell

  • I am one

  • no cuz im a virgin

  • I'm that shy person who's really crazy in bed :)

  • I haven't met one, but I'm like that myself.

  • Sadly, no.

  • Not quite that much but close and I have heard of it before so I would keep this one

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