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My boyfriend came in his pants while making out. Weird or normal?

So I have a question! My boyfriend and I were making out and he was touching my breast so I started rubbing his penis through his shorts and I could feel he was hard. After a few minutes he started breathing faster and his body tensed up, then I felt he got soft and I could see a small wet spot on his shorts. I'm pretty sure he came, but he didn't say anything and I didn't ask (I didn't want to embarrass him). Is it weird that he came just by me rubbing his manhood over his pants? Maybe I did a very good job? Should I stop earlier next time? Do you think he enjoyed it or was just annoyed because he came in his boxers? Thanks :)
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He definitely enjoyed it immensely. Believe me.

    He is just inexperienced or is very, very attracted to you and intensely stimulated by you! It is actually a HUGE compliment that this happened - he was extremely excited and likely had a -very- intense orgasm.

    There is nothing to be embarassed about, it is perfectly normal and can happen to even experienced guys - it is actually (as I say above) a HUGE compliment to you - he is intensely turned on by you and enjoyed what you did to / for him enough to climax without even taking his penis out of his pants.

    So it is no weird, and yes you did a superb job. Stopping earlier is an option, but communicate with him! Don't keep him on a leash or think he knows what you want or what he likes done - TALK to him.

    He was NOT annoyed, at all I think, and I think he -intensely- enjoyed it!

    There is nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed about and you did a sterling job I think.

  • Oh he enjoyed it. Trust me. And that kind of thing does happen, and I seriously doubt he'd be annoyed that he came in his boxers. I know I wouldn't be. And if he was annoyed, then tell him that's too bad lol. Jizz in the boxers is the price you pay for fun time.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah it's weird, but you should feel flattered, if he isn't a virgin, he probably just finds you super hot

  • Its actually very normal and see it as he really likes you enough to get that aroused.

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  • I think he's just like an ultra virgin who is so excited at a girl touching him, kissing him, and getting to touch her boobies. Pretty sure he enjoyed it.

  • Have you ever gotten him off before? and Na its not weird. Guys at strip clubs cum all the time in there pants without actually masturbating. And you should take it as a compliment. Your so hot that he came in his pants. ;)

  • If he's young and inexperienced that could happen.. it just means you make him that excited. Yes some guys can cum from grinding/lap dances/handjobs over the shirts.

  • It is nothing to be embarrassed about - It is a communication issue - (1) He may not mind it happen maybe use a tissue or something (2) Tell him you don't mind slowing down or stopping if he asks to avoid it happening again.
    As others have said an inexperienced guy may climax quickly with direct stimulation by a girl. Totally normal. It is all part of the learning curve for you both.

  • normal

  • Well he was feeling you up, and was hard, and then you rubbing on it... hmmm.
    He may have been super sensitive or he has not cum in a while or you just turn him on something fierce or the moon and Jupiter were in conjunction (happens to me now and then) or you surprised him.
    I would have been mad at myself. Still will be a good memory.

  • sounds weird to me

  • It is normal if it has been a long time in between ejaculations

  • It would be fairly normal for a male to cum during such a situation, especially if he has not ejaculated for a couple of days.

  • It's normal when a guy is super horny. If this happens again I suggest that when you sense he is about to cum in his shorts again, quickly pull his penis out out his pants and plant your mouth over his spurting dick because it's better that he cums in your mouth than in his shorts. Am I right?

  • that's so cute
    i remember my ex did that

  • Nope. Watch the movie American Pie.

  • That is soooo normal !!! I would cum too... Don't stop... You must of did pretty good job !!! See if you can make him do it again sometime... 😋 Lucky you !!!

  • Normal, don't worry. I mean, I'm not sure if it's common, but you shouldn't be weirded out. It means that you're super sexy and turned him on too much

  • How old is quick draw McGraw?

  • it can just be pre-sperminal fluids but not a full ejaculation. if it was a tiny spot its most likely not gonna be a full ejaculation.

  • Sugar mama & sugar baby

  • I am sure he enjoyed it

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