How can I ask a guy weather he is CIRCUMSIZED or NOT before we decide to have sex? I don't wanna loose my time on a guy that will be uncircumsized?

I have casual sex most of the time and it is great! GREAT. The only problem is that sometimes there can be surprises... It happens rarely in America, but not too long ago I was fooling around with this super hot guy, only to find that his D is uncircumsized. And I know, it shouldn't have been an issue, but it was creepy AF. I almost threw up just by looking at it and I couldn't have sex with him. Judge all you want, but it is my right to not have sex or have sex with whomeever I ant. I was JUST reading an article about German guys, especially Berlin and how hot they are. Hot, blond-ish, tall, muscular, stylish, sexy, open about sex (not weird like Americans), but yet, not agressive and sexist towards women. Of course, there are exeptions, but most of them are, as far as I read and heard, sexy. It seemed like a fairy-tale place where you can orgy with sexy guys... BUT I read they are like 90% uncircumsized... That was a deal breaker. How can I ask a guy weather he is circumsized or not? When should I ask him? Since sex is all I want and I don't want a relationship, the only reason I am talking to him is because of the sex, so how can I prevent loosing my time on an uncircumsized guy, and prevent bad surprises? PLEASE give me advice! Thank you.
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  • Mention having a preference for guys with circumcised penises and you're probably going to get a huge amount of hate from men and women alike. Some people out there would like to exterminate every existing circumcised guy on the planet and force us all to have sex with only uncircumcised men. Anyway, to answer your question, just ask him. Seriously. Hate hair on guy's backs? Ask about that too, etc.

    • I'd rather exterminate the parents who allowed such a horrible thing happen to their child rather than exterminate the victim.

    • Yes. And the man you are talking about is Hitler. Besides, why do YOU care about that, you have a tiny clit, you're an INNIE, so you are privileged? 😂😜

    • Huh? I'm an outie. We're superior. :)

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  • I don't think you can ask. My guy was my first " un" and I didn't even know for a few months. When it's hard it looks the same to me. And it doesn't feel any different. I think if you don't want to come off as superficial to the guy, you just find out when you find out and then decide to not hang again if it bothers you.

  • wow so you only like men who have been mutilated that's great. Why don't you get circumcised and see how you like that? You are a fantastic person

    • Thank you, you are so nice! God bless you! 😉😂🙏🏻

    • I agree with this

    • what an ass

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  • haha XD a girl like you doesn´t even deserve to get laid. how can one be so shallow? i mean i understand that it´s your preference but how would you feel if a guy asked you if you were an innie or outie before you had sex so he could get rid of you, if you were an outie?

    • I wouldn't mind because I'm an innie 😜✌🏻️!

    • Make it the opposite then. He wants long meat curtains.

    • If so, then he will have his foreskin to suck on! 😉

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  • Ask it up front.

    • Also, in German, it's Bist du beschnitten?

    • Isn't your pic the puppy shaped like a dick that appeared on the Ellen show a crap-load of time ago? It's a cool pic.

    • Thanks for the German translation. That'll come in handy. 😉

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  • Only jewish people get circumcised in Europe. No one else does that here. So, ask him if he's jewsh.

    (but do you want to go and do judeophilic sex tourism in europe?)

    • I go to Serbia ocasionally, and people on Balkan are like 60-70% circumsized.

    • I kind of doubt that!

    • Been there, done that. Seen that. It's probably because Muslims do it and Serbia has been ruled by Turkish people for 500 years (5 centuries), wich is longer than America even existed. Even though Serbians are Orthodox Christians, I guess they have adopted that custom...

  • You're a troll, it's known by now to almost all the regular members. You were the same girl who write about how you got your HOT teacher in bed, right?

    • I figured cuz this is SUCH a bait question but I thought, there's no way a troll would have 5 xper... I guess so huh ;________;

    • @Laura_Marx yeah, she is one of those trolls who seems less like a troll than 'regular' trolls! :P

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  • Most europeans are uncircumcized, which is such a shame I admit. I'm half jewish, circumcision is a big deal to us too.. But I got used on not letting this bother me. (otherwise I'll never have sex lol )

    • I am LITERALLY eating a noisette Milka chocolate right know, just like your name. Where are you from? 😀

    • I am French :) Love the noisette milka chocolate <3 mmmmm

    • I love France. I've been to Paris twice. What city are you from?

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  • How about just asking? I mean you just want sex and you are completely fine with cutting all ties if things dont go to plan so asking straight out would probably be the easiest. That said I really do not understand your reluctance.

    • Thank you! You are right. I won't lose anything by just asking him.

  • Just ask or pretend to want to give him a blow job? German Guys in general are very blunt and very much so strangers esp the sexually deviant ones.

    • R u German? I would like to ask you smth in private messages?

  • Uncircumcised is the natural state of the penis. If you find that unnatractive then you find nature unnatractive.
    But thankfully you're just a stupid troll trying to rile people up.

    • I assume you are one of those people who use the "nature" argument to forbid LGBT people to love each other, too?

  • Just be upfront at the time of meeting, "are you cut?" Should be enough. As long as the guy understands it's casual, he should be just as upfront with you.

  • Well if they dont clean it , fungi grows from the self lubercation when the skin is peeled back and the wet fungi lubercation of the head is exposed it stinks really bad and when sucking the fungi off the head of his dick when peeled back causes "Fever Blisters" tongue bumps" mouth sores and if you swallow the infected cum u will be sick 4 days. But that's how u know if a girl sucked a uncircumsized dick by the fever blisters and mouth sores. Just a little tip 4 u guys that didn't kno.

  • Well putting all that's messed up about that post aside
    Just ask bluntly

  • Oh so only mutilated men can sleep with you? I doubt many men would cut off part of their dick for you.

    • They're not mutilated! they're healthier... AND prettier too.

    • @noisette91 👸🏻

    • @noisette91 it is mutilation. Also it is actually not healthier.

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  • Just ask... <3

    • 😘 !

  • There are are less men uncircumcised in North American then there are in Europe.

    • I know... 😒

    • For someone that is always having casual sex why is this a problem now?

    • Because it has happened extremely rarely before (because in USA, as you said most men are circumcised), but after that one guy that I described before, I got scared and traumatized.

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  • How do you have so many followers?

    Just ask him.

    • I really had NO idea how many followers I had untill you just asked me. I dunno. You are right. Being blunt is the way to go. Thanks.

    • You're welcome.

  • You're definitely a troll

  • You realise that circumcision is genital mutilation right...

  • Is this because of your religion or... what? Why would this matter?

    If you want to avoid it in Europe just don't have sex. It's nowhere near as common here.

    • No, I am not very religious. It's just that I have a thing for German men and blonde men and they seem perfect, but, unfortunately, their famous German sausage wasn't "taken out of the foil". 😂

    • I see. It is a troll. XD

    • If you say so... Haha

  • i dk, but thank you for liking circumcised guys. shows there are girls that like both

    • All girls like circumsized dicks, watcha talkin about, man?

    • I've seen some like uncircumcised, especially on here

    • U lucky bastard, enjoy being circumsized! They are just jealous AF!

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