Girls, how can you tell if your boyfriend is a virgin?

If I don't say anything to her, will she find out that I'm still a virgin? For example because I'm too nervous and I make some mistakes, or because I'll be too quick to climax (hopefully not!)? Any tips? Please don't say "just tell her the truth". I don't want because she told me she wouldn't date a virgin guy. by the way, she's not a virgin...
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Fake it till ya make it.

    Look, go on the internet and do some research. Buy a book or two if you have to... I lied on my first too. But I was convincing because I did an ample amount of research on cunnilingus and I gave great oral pleasure to her, so she assumed I wasn't. Then dig it in, if you know where to finger her you'll know where to stick it in. Research how to put the condom on, how to have rhythm and not jackhammer her like an idiot and just be confident. If you're all nervous and shit she's more likely gonna be able to tell.

  • Tell me, whats better?

    If she thinks that you're an unexperienced virgin with some potential in bed OR a non-virgin guy who is horrible in bed with 0 potential?

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's a silly thing to lie about in my opinion, but I don't think virginity is always an easy thing to tell about a person. There are guys who aren't that good, or nervous and unsure in bed, but they could just be lacking in experience, or just plain nervous to be with you, even if they aren't virgins.

    You can tell when a guy's good and has experience, but that's about it. Not that I really care one way or the other. Anyone can get good if they care to.

  • she's not a virgin but she doesn't want to date a virgin guy? How ridiculous... sorry but you should just tell her the truth, and if she doesn't like it, wants to break up with you, then fine. Not like she would ever easily find anyone who isn't a virgin, like she, herself. I dare you to say that to her and if she dont like it then who cares, its the truth anyways.

  • Refusing to date a virgin is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Who the hell cares. But that aside, if she ever comments on your performance, just say that you lost your virginity in middle school and it was a long time ago and you haven't had sex since, so you're slightly out of practice.

  • He's nervous. He doesn't know what to do. He doesn't know where things are nor what to do with it once he's got his hands on it. He lets me do all the work. He does nothing to stimulate me. He's afraid to touch me. He hesitates to make a move and waits to see what I'm going to do next.

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  • You better tell her. If she is pissed about you being a virgin, she will be 10 times more pissed because you lied about it!

  • I don't condone this, but just do your thing if you climax early pass it off as nervousness

  • She'll know

  • Ya she is gonna find out just because you aren't gonna know what you are doing... at the very least she'll think you are terrible in bed

  • Then seem confident and hope for the best.

  • If he's extremely shy and clueless.

  • Girls would only be able to guess. They couldn't know for sure without you saying so.

  • ıf she is not virgin she may understand that

  • If he doesn't ask for sex the first week...

  • if he really doesn't know what he is doing