Hi, let me try to give some helpful info...
1 thoughtful guys concentrate on
giving pleasure to their partner. To be unselfish. I always give my partner as many orgasms as she can have. Which is usually between 3 and 5. Just once, she had 20 in one night. It was incredible for us both
2 I understand that there will be times when she doesn't orgasm. I take all the pressure away. Want her to be herself. Cuddles, hugs and kisses are magic too
3 the main sexual organ for the girl is not her clit. It's her brain. So, a lot of guys think all they have to do is touch or rub! Nope! It's romance, communicating, getting to know her, what presses her buttons, her desires, fantasies. Then playing with her mind and then her body
4 I've been with girls who don't orgasm. Or who sometimes do. I usually get them there, but it's not automatic. No-one has ever orgasmed too much for me. I just love it when they do...
I hope this helps xx0 0 0 0I would be very happy to be sexual with a girl who orgasms easily, even every 2 minutes... and when a girl orgasms whilst my hard penis is inside her vagina it feels really lovely... when she clenches her vagina as she orgasms there is a really beautiful sexual feeling in my penis !
It is a real shame you don't orgasm... perhaps you are too worried about cumming, you need to relax and simply enjoy the sexual experience with your partner... and when you're not thinking of trying to cum, you might just end up having a beautiful. orgasm !1 1 0 0Thank you, yeah i've tried I might see a doctor haha
Have you seen a doctor yet? If not, I'm a very good one ! ... lol... :-)
Thank you for choosing my comments as the most helpful opinion :-) :-)
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The ones who never orgasm my ex was like that. It would really make me mad.
1 0 0 0the one who can't never orgasm. I used to be like that, was so annoying
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1 9OK, my turn. My thought's opinions:
Can a woman orgasm too often?
Answer? No. In fact, I think that would be a complete turn on! Me, and I think all, or most men would agree, giving a woman an orgasm is the most satisfying thing a man can do for a woman.
What if she doesn't orgasm?
Answer: That would be a shame, but I know, from experience, that it makes me try harder. For me, I was able to give an ex girlfriend her first orgasm by asking her to do some role playing. I asked her to play the part of a sex-ed professor and I'm her student. In her class she's going to teach me how to pleasure a woman with just my tongue. As I licked her, she gave me detailed instructions on how to do it better. She loved it! She took her time and made me practice over and over and over again. For several weeks, she did not have an orgasm, but the classes she gave me were such a turn on! I LOVED it when she told me to practice some more. Each time she spoke in details on how to do it better, and I LOVED it! When she finally did have an orgasm, it wss amazing and intense! For both of us! After that, I was able to give her an orgasm every single time!!! And multiples as well! So, bottom line, do not feel down about it. All you need is a partner who is willing to play the part of your eager student and you his teacher. I wish I lived close to you, I would LOVE to play the part of your student.
Is it easy to give them an orgasm?
Answer: Sometimes. It all depends on the woman. If she tells me ahead of time that I won't be able to, that's ok. That's a whole lot of pressure off of me. The sex can still be amazing.
Have I ever dated a woman who couldn't achieve an orgasm?
Answer: Yes. See answer above.
Bottom line, practice on yourself. Buy lots of sex toys, watch some porn. Ask a guy to be your sex-ed student! Have fun!!!
If you have any follow up questions, feel free to write me, I'm on yahoo dot com.
0 0 0 0I think it would be very annoying never to orgasm. I have never had sex but I can imagine is must be so frustrating not to get to orgasm. I masturbate almost daily and to orgasm is just part of my daily existence.
0 1 0 0Good for you! Do you own a lot of toys? What's your favorite?
1. I have had girlfriend out of dozens who I had multiple orgasms in a short time. I loved it. I could make her cum twice to my mouth, then she wanted intercourse. If we had sex again the same day, she could cum again but just once. I have not been with a woman who could cum "every 2 minutes", but it sounds exciting.
2. If I was with the woman for more than once, yes I would be concerned if I could not get her to orgasm. I would try to figure it out though. I can make most women I have known cum from my mouth. Others need penetration to cum. Some cum more quickly with fingers around inside the pussy/anus while I eat them out. It is a really fun puzzle to solve.
3. It is not simple to make a woman orgasm, especially the first time. With experience I have a decent shot, but not every woman can or will tell you just what makes her cum, and women generally cum easier when they have an emotional attachment to a man. I can make my wife cum in as little as 4 - 5 minutes, but it took awhile to get under 10 minutes. She would not tell me that she likes her anus stimulated, but only in a certain way at a certain point during cunnilingus. It took some time trial and error to figure out.
4. I have had girlfriends who did not orgasm, just not in LTRs. If a woman is not comfortable with getting her pussy eaten, that makes it difficult off the bat. I also found that some women are really used to their vibrators, or did not have one but needed help to try. I have given a (new) vibrator to a few women. I give them space to play with it alone and then she tells me what she wants to finish. The most effective strategy I have found is the woman lies on her stomach using the vibrator on her clit. I eat her pussy and put my tongue inside. But at least a few want to be on their back using the vibrator and I suck their breasts. I am sure there are other ways. One thing I know is that every woman is different and I love to find out the differences.0 0 0 0None to me. An experienced guy can satisfy any girl if he knows how to treat, how to touch.
0 0 0 0Rhe idea of a girl who orgasms every 2 minutes is so mind blowingly sexy I can't think about it w/o getting turned on
0 0 0 0i´d take the one that orgasms often xD that´s actually kind of hot. a girl who never came is uninteresting for me.
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0 0 0 0A girl who never had an orgasm
0 0 1 0My girlfriend is like that. Orgasm after orgasm. Not only do I envy her for it, its such a turn on that I have a hard time lasting a while. I have always been able to last at least 30 minutes, but with her it's always 15-20..
0 0 0 01) I'd love it
2) somewhat yes.
3) I have had partners who came easily and partners who had never orgasmed. My skill had relatively little to do with it.
4) no such thing as too much. Cannot? Yes.1 0 0 0
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