If you have a strong gag reflex... you have to do like most pornstars and only use your mouth on the tip (first few inches) and use your hand to stroke the rest.
It doesn't have to last longer than what he gives you.. it's more about giving each other pleasure. If he comes and isn't in pain during the BJ... You're doing an good job.
I usually don't even bother trying to get a BJ, as it is usually not pleasurable/painful for me with her teeth;-(
If he's asking for a BJ often.. you definitely going something right;-*
Deep throating is usually something a girl is born being able to do and is very hard to learn.
How do you learn to deepthroat?
As with nearly everything else, practice makes perfect. Each time you give him head, hopefully a couple of times per week, hit your gag reflex a few times. Keep hitting it till you feel nauseous, then of course give it a rest. Within a week or 2 of that, you'll notice that you can take him deeper, and keep him down there for longer without much discomfort.
(... that's what I did, at least. I was legit deepthroating, like in my actual throat versus just barely skimming past the gag-reflex like most, without any problem at all within 2 months.)
Oh wow. Okay thank you. I've only really tried a couple of times so maybe I just need to practice. I wonder how people slide swords all the way down their throat D:
lol yea girl. I know it sounds crazy but there's no other way to really bypass a reflex whose function is pretty damn critical for our survival unless you train it otherwise. Not 'train it' as in now you'll be choking while you're eating, or anything. Just keep hitting it until you get better control over it. Like I remember when I first started fully deepthroating, I had to have my full focus on it. I couldn't be distracted by anything else or I'd gag. Only if I had my mind completely on the task at hand would I be able to keep my reflex in check. Feel free to message me if you have any questions later on. :P
gagging can b super hot and enjoyable. he might not mind it. maybe u just gotta keep trying. u have to train ur gag reflex or just take him as far as u can and use ur hand for the rest... OR just use ur tongue and mouth all over it from the sides, above and under.
It all depends on your gag reflex but try licking it and sucking the top of his head more just watch porn videos that's what I did and never use teeth lol good luck
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If that is the case then dont go so deep. just keep your mouth on the head of his dick and just bob um and down but not deep enough to cause a gage reflex.
You can use your hand in conjunction with your mouth so it feels like his dick is deeper in your mouth then it is
Yes, deepthroat, that is what I meant and what you suggested is what I have been doing, but I know it is possible to suppress the reflex. I want to learn because he says it feels better <3
buy a dildo and practice.. or even better give your boyfriend a bj every day and spend a few min deepthroating him..
Oh the dildo is a good idea.
You can train your gag reflex away, just google it, however almost all the pleasure nerves in the penis are near the top, just like they only extend a few inches inside the vagina. You dont need to deep throat to give good head. that just porn.
just suck it deep
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